My wife always wants me to be a little overwhelmed. What should I do?

Lead: Since I love life and gave birth to a child, my sexual desire has become particularly strong. I'm tired from work every day. My wife insists that I have sex with her every day. Sometimes, I just want to have a solid sleep. She woke me up at midnight and asked me to live with her. My wife has a strong sexual desire. What should I do?

Letter from readers: I talked with him for three years and got engaged in the first month. I am at home and he is outside. Emotional stability. that this is not the important question. I wanted to go to Tibet in the summer vacation. Call me the other day and tell me not to go. During the summer vacation, I accompanied her mother to Changsha to see a doctor. His mother has a tumor the size of a ping-pong ball and needs surgery. Because my father is an only child, he can't leave his job. My teacher had a summer vacation, so I accompanied him to take care of it. I don't know if it will be awkward. I'm not bored ~ I'm worried that I won't get up after the operation, and I have to help wipe my body or something. It's embarrassing to think about it. Although I changed my mind to call my mother, I only got along for a few days. Because he is not at home, I seldom communicate with his family. How to get along with mom?

Take care of his mother like a biological mother. Don't worry about the hospital process. It's not as complicated as you think. You are still young, and even if you don't do well, you won't be blamed. People always have to go through some things step by step in order to mature themselves. You're not married. Don't you have a wedding? Get along with your future mother-in-law, be sincere, communicate with your mother-in-law more and avoid embarrassment and misunderstanding!

Letter from readers: I have been married for three years. Since my wife gave birth to a child, I have higher and higher requirements for the life of husband and wife. I used to ask her to give it to me, but now I take the initiative to have sex with me. I often do it two or three times a day, twice in the evening and once in the morning. I work very hard every day. Sex hurts too much, and I'm not that interested in sex. Many times I just want to have a solid sleep, but my wife always wakes me up in the middle of the night to have sex with her. If I act in a hurry, she will be dissatisfied with me. My wife's desire is so strong that I dare not even sleep with her. Being in love is a pleasant thing, but it is very painful for me. What should I do?

Your wife doesn't have to look after the children and work. How can she have so much time and energy to do this? She has too much hormone secretion. I think she is still too idle. As the saying goes, she is well-fed and lustful. Tell him that you can't do a good job by bothering you like this every day. If there is no performance at work, the whole family will have to drink the northwest wind. She is full of energy, so that she can spend her energy on work and making money, and her life will be very comfortable. She will be more comfortable when she is in love. Otherwise, your wife will empty your energy sooner or later.

Letter from readers: I am in pain. My husband is having an affair with a woman and has an intimate phone call. When I found out, he said it was his classmate and ex-lover. Now that she is divorced, he wants to comfort her. I choose to trust him. Now he is studying outside. I called him one night at 1 1: 40. He forgot to turn off his cell phone after talking to me. I heard him talking to a woman, and then a woman called for bed. I called him right away, and he firmly denied that any woman called his name during the call. The next day, he also firmly denied that a woman called his name, saying that he was with several classmates, and that the woman's voice might be the waiter's because they were in the bathroom hall. As for the sound of bed calling, he even said that it was puzzling. He said that maybe his classmates were making fun of him with the video sound on their mobile phones. Do you believe what he said? What should I do?

If you don't want a divorce, believe everything he says and live a good life without thinking about it. Although his explanation can't prove his innocence, at least it proves that he doesn't want you to doubt and destroy the stable life of the family. As for what you should do, touch your conscience, you are willing to live with a broken heart. Are you willing to pretend that you don't know anything and let your man fool around? You are willing to live a jealous husband and wife life every day. You can go on living if you like. If not, you know what to do.

Letter from readers: Female will be 29 years old next year, and her career is booming. The marriage problem has never been solved. I am independent. Listening to the big shots say that I sometimes make people feel strong in language. In fact, when I really get along with me, I am still very considerate. If I am a little strong, I will be weak, and if I am weak, I will be strong. On a blind date with a man, I asked him more questions than he asked me, and the voice was loud, but I didn't talk nonsense, but I didn't pretend to be a lady either. The boy said he was not ready to get married. He was afraid and said he was immature. I said that a man can work hard in his career if he has a strong working ability. If he doesn't work hard, he can take care of his family as long as he is responsible for it. As a result, people said that I talked too much, saying that he had never thought about the problems I said, so he sweated and stopped contacting me. Am I scaring people? Do you want to install one in the future? I'm just saying my opinion. What happened?

Don't pretend that you are dating or in love. The person who suits you naturally appreciates your frankness, and the person who doesn't suit you will refuse you with words like "you are too talkative". So in the future, others will prevaricate you with such words, which means that people deny you, not because you frighten each other, but because you don't like your personality. In addition, you are definitely not suitable for a marriage and family where the man is the master and the woman is the master. No man can accept this fact, which will make them feel ashamed.