To what extent can people with low incomes be false and refined?

Fangfang, my wife's best friend, can be said to be such a pseudo-exquisite woman, a painful woman.

Fangfang is my wife's junior high school classmate.

She is about 1.63 meters tall, fair-skinned, dignified and beautiful.

As the saying goes: "Tall people stand in front of the door and look good in whatever clothes they wear!" "

Fangfang is such a woman that people will be impressed wherever she goes.

After graduating from junior high school, Fangfang stopped studying and worked odd jobs for several years.

Fangfang made money and bought beautiful clothes, shoes and cosmetics.

She found several partners, all wage earners, and she was not very satisfied.

After six or seven years, she has been single.

Fangfang became the bride when my wife and I got married.

Later, Fangfang worked as a cashier in a carton factory.

Slowly, Fangfang's clothes are becoming more and more fashionable, and she often drives her boss's Buick to find her wife to play with.

We vaguely felt that something was wrong, but we couldn't say it.

A year later, Fangfang suddenly announced that she would marry the owner of the carton factory-because her stomach was already very big.

That carton factory is more than ten miles away from us.

The boss is eight years older than Fangfang and has a bad personality. It is well known that he likes flirting with others.

My wife tried to persuade Fangfang, but I stopped her: Now that we are pregnant, what can I say?

The eyes of onlookers are discerning.

Sure enough, four years later, when Fangfang was pregnant with a second child, she blocked her derailed husband in the warehouse of the carton factory.

She had a big fight with her husband, and even her three-month-old child had a miscarriage.

When we heard about it, we went to the hospital to see her.

She complained to us!

What she doesn't want to do is that the little lover her husband is looking for is not as good as herself except for her age, figure and appearance!

Fangfang is not convinced!

He thought her husband would apologize to her!

But her husband has no regrets at all. He never went to the hospital to see her once.

After leaving the hospital, Fangfang got the divorce agreement in a rage and the child returned to his father.

Fangfang rents a house in the city alone.

After a period of depression, Fangfang cheered up again and began to dress up again.

A few months later, she sent us an invitation to let our whole family attend her wedding.

Fang Fang's second husband, Lao Zhou, is from Cangzhou, eleven years older than her and a farmer.

Lao Zhou's wife died of a heart attack and had a daughter.

He is not good at words, he doesn't drink, he doesn't smoke or gamble, and he is a dutiful man who only earns money without spending money.

It can be seen that this man is very kind to Fangfang: Fangfang's clothes and shoes are all famous brands, a mink coat is more than 40 thousand, and cosmetics are also dazzling.

Lao Zhou also bought Fangfang a red BMW, which should be Fangfang's request.

After the wedding reception, we specially visited his farm.

There are more than 30 acres of crown pear trees on the farm, feeding more than a dozen cows.

According to Fangfang, the elderly earn about 400,000 yuan a year.

I don't know much about these things, I just nod my head.

When I got home, Fangfang and Lao Zhou drove a red BMW with many gifts.

Because his wife is an accountant and a best friend, Fangfang entrusted her with the income and expenditure accounts.

The standard of banquet is the highest in our local area: a table is 880 yuan, a box of cigarettes is more than 20 yuan, and more than 100 bottles of wine.

Everyone who comes to congratulate relatives and friends has a gift in return.

After a few days, Fangfang earned enough face and put in more than 70 thousand yuan.

I secretly inquired about the insiders and learned that more than a dozen Niu Yi can earn 50,000 to 60,000 yuan a year.

30 acres of crown pear's income maybe!

In a good year, the output is high, pears are worthless, and the net income of100000 yuan is not bad.

In case of natural disasters, the yield is low and the price of pears rises. It is possible to refuse harvesting or sell at a high price, and the net income will reach150,000!

In other words: this man's annual income is between 50,000 and 60,000 to 200,000!

On the fourth day, Fangfang drove to visit her son.

My wife and I are worried that their words are not harmonious and contradictory, so we have been with them.

In front of her ex-husband, she gave her son a big red envelope: 50 thousand for one shot!

I can see that my ex-husband looks at Fangfang, tall and charming, and his eyes are straight!

I guess he regretted it!

Only my wife and I are worried about Fangfang: So generous, what should we do in the future?

Fangfang seems to care nothing and left her ex-husband's house in the envious eyes of everyone.

As soon as she got on the bus, Fangfang couldn't help it anymore and cried with her wife in her arms!

We were all silent and didn't know how to persuade her.

Fangfang and her second husband Lao Zhou left and never came back.

Occasionally Fangfang and his wife make video calls. Seeing her happy face seems that life is not bad.

We are all glad that she has found a husband who loves her.

Two years later, on the Mid-Autumn Festival, I met Fangfang again.

Fangfang, who was in the late stage of uterine cancer, was lying in bed, skinny and her former beauty was gone.

Fangfang grabbed his wife's hand and thanked us with difficulty.

She thanked us for our company along the way.

Fangfang also said: The happiest thing in my life is to see my ex-husband's ambiguous, embarrassed and regretful eyes at that time!

Fangfang said: I have no regrets at all! I just wasted a lot of money on Lao Zhou!

Water under the bridge. What can Lao Zhou say?

Within a week, Fangfang died.

This smart and beautiful woman has been strong for half her life, her face is swollen and fat, and the final outcome is very embarrassing!

My lovely ex-wife, pseudo-exquisite to the extreme, harming others and yourself!

I work in a foreign company. I am a mechanical engineer. Although my job and income are good, unfortunately, due to my busy work, I often travel. I'm almost 30 years old and I don't have a girlfriend yet.

On a business trip, my colleague asked me to bring two cigarettes back at the airport. Because I don't smoke at ordinary times, I seldom go to the tobacco and alcohol counter at the airport.

When I checked out, I found that the girl in the bar had bright eyes and was very cute. My eyes grow directly on her, and I can't extricate myself. I have met many beautiful women, but this feeling of love at first sight is the first time in my mind.

After closing the account, driven by the primitive instinct, I had the cheek to add the girl's WeChat. On the way back, I looked through the girl's circle of friends. The girl leads an exquisite life. Her circle of friends is almost full of photos of her in scenic spots, yachts or luxury stores.

I turned on my mobile phone, flipped through the text message, found the reminder message from the bank and looked at the balance. I advised my hypothalamus to secrete less dopamine, because an ordinary office worker like me can't afford a canary.

People sometimes just love and can't get along with themselves. The more I suppress my thoughts, the more frequently I see her shadow in my mind, and gradually my legs don't work. When I came back from my second business trip, my feet brought me to the person who was destined to make me suffer.

The girl's name is An San, 24 years old, also from the northeast, with a monthly salary of 4,500.

I remember hearing a sentence in a sketch, "You are chasing me, I am good at chasing. How do you know you can't catch me unless you try?" Anson said the same thing.

Soon we will be together. At first, Ansan was very mature. She got along well with my friends. In less than half a month, she moved to my small property right house in the suburbs of Beijing, and we lived together.

After getting along for a long time, I found that An San had a problem, that is, if the acquaintances she met wore more expensive clothes than her, she would find various reasons to make a scene with me when she came home. Unless, I promise to buy her the same clothes or the same bag. Will coquetry with me and please me.

Besides, she has too many clothes for my old wardrobe. In addition, Ansan also specially customized a cabinet for putting bags, which is almost a wall of bags. After meeting Ansang, I realized that some bags can actually be exchanged for a car.

My salary card was confiscated by An San. At the beginning of that month, I was frightened, because I often received text messages with the balance reduced by 3000,5000, 18000. Later, I simply blocked the bank message, fearing that my heart would go wrong.

In less than three months, Ansan lost his card and said he had no money, so he asked me to get a credit card. So I handled all the credit cards of big banks between business trips according to her meaning.

The reason why I am so used to Anson is because I have an idea in my heart that if we have children, Anson should not be so blind for the sake of children and as a mother.

Soon An San was pregnant, so we hurried back to the northeast to meet our parents. Although Anson's parents dislike my low income, since I am pregnant, it is an inevitable choice to marry me.

Anson's parents don't want much bride price, only emphasize that I must change rooms, and their daughter can't live in a small property right house. This is very difficult for me, because houses in Beijing don't just change.

At this point, my parents took out their own pension money and even sold the only shop in the family to support me. I also sold the small property right house I bought in full before, and borrowed some from my friends, and made a down payment for a two-bedroom and one-bedroom house on the edge of the West Fifth Ring Road.

Everything is ready. It was originally a harmonious and festive wedding ceremony. Anson and I finally divorced on the wedding day because of a little thing.

The wedding car drove to the door of the wedding hotel, and An San didn't get off. She asked for a mink coat of more than 50 thousand to get off because she saw one of my relatives wearing mink.

My mother almost cried and pulled me out of the car, saying that all the money in her hand had bought me a house. I'm really not ready now. It's a shame to borrow money on the big day.

I advised Ansan to buy one for her after marriage. It is not appropriate to get stuck in the wedding car at this time.

An San scolded me directly, which was the first time she pointed at my nose and scolded me. "You are a pauper!"

Her words, like a heavy hammer, shattered all my love for her.

After the divorce, Ansan still lives in the wedding room I bought, because there are two names written in the wedding room. I really can't afford to rent a house or live in another room.

An San is a completely different person, regardless of my feelings, and occasionally leads friends home.

I will definitely move out, because this house is already a "prison" for me. But before I move out, I want to see what will happen to this pseudo-exquisite girl!

You can see from this incident.

1, life should be simple and people should be satisfied, so that they can be happier.

2, the ability can not reach the desire, live a pseudo-exquisite life, harm others and harm themselves.

3. Kindness spreads positive energy, and good people are rewarded.

Tell me about a colleague of mine who used to work at the front desk. His salary is not much, about 3000 yuan, but his life is exquisite and luxurious.

She comes to work every day, wearing delicate makeup, carrying a Gucci bag, wearing mostly big names and holding Starbucks. Ordering at noon, never eating take-out, always ordering take-out by yourself, similar to a light food, about 30 each time. Cosmetics used are also like Dior and Blue Ocean. Eat snacks that are not imported. Even if you buy a cake, you have to eat celebrity food online.

When I first met her, I thought her family was rich. Because of her consumption, the family doesn't provide one or twenty thousand yuan a month, and I don't think I can live. But later my colleague told me that she actually came from the countryside, and her family was very poor, and her brother went to school.

Probably because of poverty, I feel inferior, so I like to pretend to be a rich second generation.

In fact, she has been eating steamed bread and Starbucks coffee for breakfast, washing paper cups once, making coffee at home and taking it to the company, and never eating dinner. The bags and clothes used are high imitation, and the cosmetics are also friends with a group of young ladies. Seeing her pity, I gave the rest to her.

Even so, the money is not enough. More than a dozen credit cards, almost all of her loans have been opened. I almost cashed this credit card back on my mobile phone that day. I really admire her for not making such a mistake.

Everyone around her knows that her exquisite life is just an empty shell illusion, and only she insists on maintaining her dignity every day.

I can't say that she did something wrong, because her pseudo-exquisiteness didn't hinder others, but everyone just made fun of her behind her back. Although a person is poor, but mentally healthy, we will look up to such a person. And like her, it is only possible to become the joke of everyone's dishes behind her back.