The blind date is at the front desk of the hotel. What if I can't find a topic?

I'm not young either. My relatives have been helping me find someone recently. Not long ago, a relative helped me find a man. Because of the shame of relatives, I asked them to contact their mobile phones with qq first. Because I was busy at work at that time, I kept dragging on, and half a month passed.

He lives in the county seat, and I intend to make an appointment with him to eat together and then go home by car, so when he said to eat together, I made it clear that it would not be too late, and I said I would go home by car. He is an old society, and he has worked more than me 10 years. He told me about my work and study as soon as he spoke. I thought to myself, this can't be done, otherwise I will suffer a lot. When I paid the bill, I wanted to go out for dinner for the first time, so I couldn't let others invite me, so when I took out my wallet and wanted to give it, he stopped me, and he gave it and ate about 100 yuan. After dinner, I actually intend to go home. He took me to the car. I thought he would drive me to the station. Who knew he said to look around somewhere? That's right. I couldn't leave after dinner, so I accompanied him around. He also asked a friend to book a karaoke room. When he booked it, I always hinted that I would go back to my hometown by car later. The last bus was 10, and he booked it anyway. Then after 8 o'clock, we went to sing K.

When I entered the karaoke shop, I saw the waitress greeting him and looked familiar. I asked him, "Are you familiar with them?" He said, "Yes, I used to come here with my colleagues in the company." I went to room K, and he said he couldn't sing K, which kept me dizzy. Actually, that's how I sang it. While I was singing, a girl selling beer came in. Look, they have known each other for a long time. The beer girl kept asking him to buy beer, and then he bought a dozen beers. I look at the time from time to time when I sing. I'm afraid I will miss the last bus. It's already half past nine, and I said I'm leaving. He still insisted that my friend hadn't arrived yet and let me spend the night in the county. If there is no place to stay, I will stay in a hotel and leave after drinking morning tea tomorrow morning. I'm scared when I hear it. No one will ask a girl to stay in a hotel on a blind date. Although he doesn't want anything else, no serious girl will do it. I wonder if he is testing me. In addition, I only go home once or twice a month, and I always go home on Saturday and go back to work on Sunday. And my parents were worried that a girl would spend the night outside, so I insisted on telling him: no, it's not convenient. But he said, what's wrong with staying in a hotel?

Seeing that it was already 9: 35, I couldn't continue to make trouble with him, so I explained that I had something to do early, so I had to go back today, and he still insisted. Finally, he was embarrassed, because he also had friends present, so he reluctantly took me to the bus, and he didn't leave until I got on the bus. It was already close to ten o'clock. I'm afraid the last bus has passed, and I'm afraid I can't wait for the bus. He had an excuse, so I got on a bus that could go to a place near my home and asked my friend to drive me back.

After that night, the man sent me short messages from time to time, asking me what I was busy with and when I would go back. I said I was busy at work recently, and I didn't know yet. Then there is no topic. I come and go just asking when I will go back. I really don't know what he is thinking. I don't know if he came out to work early or if I have a problem with my expression. It's never good to talk together.

Finally, talk about yourself and him.