"Daughter-in-law, there is not enough room for relatives at home. Move out if you earn more money! " Do you think this is too much?

To say that the most difficult but smallest problem in the world must be between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Marriage was originally a matter for two young people, but many times we can't avoid the intervention of the older generation.

Because we have the opportunity to meet the older generation all the year round, there may be some contradictions in the process of meeting. Not to mention those couples who have been living with their parents, it is more likely that there will be some irreconcilable contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Generally speaking, when these problems arise, the husband is the most difficult to do.

On one side is his wife, usually his mother, and he is also in pain. But many times, what we see is more about the older generation's incomprehension of the younger generation. It is precisely because of the ideas of the older generation that there are many frictions and conflicts between the younger generation and the older generation.

The story we are going to tell next comes from the conflicts and problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

1. The heroine of this story is Wei. Wei is a girl with a miserable life. She was born in a very remote rural area. Her parents sent her away shortly after her birth because of the prevailing local preference for sons over daughters.

She was sent to the home of a distant relative. At first, her adoptive parents had no children, so they were very kind to him. But when she was four or five years old, her adoptive mother became pregnant, especially when they gave birth to a younger brother. After that, Wei's position became the lowest in the family.

It is said that the children of poor families take care of things early. Wei learned all kinds of housework from an early age and usually helped to look after his younger brother. In junior high school, adoptive parents said that they had no money at home and asked her to drop out of school and go out to work.

That year, Wei was less than 15 years old. Because she is too young, even the factory doesn't want her. She can only do odd jobs in some restaurants. The boss is very concerned about her food and accommodation, but her salary is very small. After living in the city for ten years, Wei finally walked out of his own world. She opened her own restaurant.

Although she is busy from morning till night every day, she thinks it is not hard, because she needs to save money to buy a house of her own as soon as possible. A girl like her needs a sense of security very much.

Wei met her present husband at the age of 25. At first, her husband was just a customer who often came to the store to eat. They came and went and got to know each other. Men often come to help after work.

Wei was a lonely man since he was a child. It seems that someone has been kind to her suddenly, and she is still a little uncomfortable, just like a drifting boat, suddenly finding a harbor where she can dock. She fell in love with this man.

In Wei's eyes, her husband has a high degree and a decent job. She envies such a person. After being together, Wei also cherished this relationship and took care of her husband in every possible way. ?

They have been in love for a short time, but they got married in just over two years, but her husband's family can't afford a new wedding room, so they have to live with their parents. Wei didn't abandon it, because she lacked the care of her parents since she was a child, so she was extremely eager to have a happy family.

Therefore, she naively regards her parents-in-law as her own biological parents. She feels that no matter what happens in this world, they will like themselves as long as they are good enough.

But what she didn't expect was that her parents-in-law were actually snobs. From the bottom of their hearts, they despise this country girl who has no education, no figure and is not particularly beautiful.

They wouldn't have agreed to let their son marry Wei if they hadn't watched the girl become more capable and hard-working and made a lot of money by opening a restaurant.

The wedding was very simple. Wei's adoptive parents just came over for dinner and went through the formalities. Wei's heart is empty, but looking at her husband's family, she feels confident.

3. Sad After getting married, Wei wants to be a good daughter-in-law in the eyes of her parents-in-law, but because of her busy work, she has to find people who come home late every day and doesn't have much time to take care of her family.

But my mother-in-law doesn't quite understand her. She often says that she doesn't know how to take care of people. She goes out every morning and comes back at night.

But fortunately, Wei makes a lot of money. She often buys some nutrition for her family and brings back some delicious food. And occasionally I will take my parents-in-law out shopping when I am not particularly busy in the afternoon, which is also a daughter-in-law's due responsibility.

Because Wei can often give money to her family, her parents-in-law will not embarrass her again, but desire is a hole that is difficult to fill.

In-laws have more and more appetites and demands. Wei suddenly found that he could save12,000 yuan a month before marriage, and even less than 5,000 yuan a month after marriage.

So she told her husband, can we open the source and intercept it, and spend less money? But I didn't expect her husband to say, what's wrong with spending some money on my parents?

Until one day, relatives came to her parents' house. Unexpectedly, the family told her that it was too expensive to live in a hotel outside, and asked Wei to move out and let relatives live in their own homes.

At this moment, Wei realized that in the whole family, she was just a machine for begging for money. This group of people did not regard her as one of their own, but regarded her as an ATM.

For girls, making money is good, but we must pay attention to the scale of spending money. It's okay to spend your parents' money, but you have to understand that you earned it yourself.

Don't indulge too much. If you have any questions, you can communicate directly with everyone. Sometimes not communicating is the biggest reason for your loss.