Fan Bingbing broke down late at night and posted two videos in a row, revealing the reason for their breakup. What do you think?

There was something wrong with Fan Bingbing’s situation before. At three o'clock in the morning, I posted two videos in a row on my Douyin account. In one of them, different from the exquisite and gorgeous beautiful image in the past, she went abroad without makeup. In the video, she looks a little old, her eyes are slightly swollen, as if she had just cried, and the situation is very bad.

She slowly revealed her true feelings to the camera in a dark environment. The theme of the other video was different from the previous one. This video was obviously more optimistic and cheerful, and also playful. A couple game with Douyin short videos. Under the video, there is a comment: "Why are you suddenly so sad at three o'clock in the morning? You must not be able to forget it."

I didn't directly say who I can't forget, but everyone knows this person. , Fan Bingbing’s predecessor Li Chen. It is true that it is not easy to be happy because of a big happy event, but it can be sad for a long time because of a trauma. Pain has always been far more stimulating than happiness. Looking back at Li Chen and Fan Bingbing, they were considered to be working hard enough. In the entertainment industry, Fan Bingbing has always prided herself as a "grandfather", and her domineering and revealing image has won the hearts of the people.

However, when she fell in love with Li Chen, "Fan Bingbing" became softer and softer, turning into "Fan Meizi". She would often run and jump in front of him like a girl. As long as he is on variety shows, his eyes never leave Li Chen. In the variety show "Kangxi Is Coming", Fan Bingbing said passionately: Li Chen is my last boyfriend. Unfortunately, promises are sometimes meant to get rid of each other. We couldn't wait to get married, but we waited to break up first.

Since then, the two of them have been busy with charity work and the other with work, and basically have no contact with each other anymore. Indeed, what hurts you the most is not the rush of discomfort you feel just after a breakup. Just when you feel that time has healed everything, you suddenly think of this person every once in a while. The difficulty of letting go comes again and again, but you have to force yourself to let him go.

Every relationship is sweet as it develops. Everyone thinks that the other party is their destiny. But I have forgotten that most lovers are destined to be together but not meant for each other. Just before, Li Bingbing broke up with her boyfriend who was 16 years younger than her. Four years ago, Li Bingbing announced her relationship. In the photo, the two of them were chatting happily. The man is talented and the woman is beautiful, making others envious. They once watched the sea together, posted couplets together, and were inseparable. Even netizens praised them for having "husband and wife looks."

I never thought that four years later, this "best arrangement" would actually be to assign a couple to become "family members". In fact, Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei are also like this. At first, Yang Mi became famous with "Palace" and became a popular traffic star. And Hawick Lau is still silent in the entertainment industry. At that time, many people couldn't understand why Yang Mi, who had a successful career, chose to be with Liu Kaiwei to carry on his family line.

It wasn’t until I saw an interview that I realized how deep their love was. During the interview, when talking about her relationship with Hawick Lau, Yang Mi, who has always been strong, showed the shyness and sweetness of a daughter. Hawick Lau's eyes were always bright when he looked at him. Yang Mi said that the wedding day was the happiest day in her life. When she saw her beloved welcoming her across the red carpet, she felt that no matter how long the road of life was, they could walk together.

Time has turned, and now they are parting ways. When you first loved someone, you really meant loving them seriously. If you don’t love someone anymore, you still have to treat them sincerely. Breaking up is actually the norm in the world, no one except it. Sometimes the end of a short story may not be worthy of the tenderness of its beginning. Everyone, do you still remember the famous internet couple Kong Wei and Shiyuan?

They have been in love for ten years, traveling around, appreciating the setting sun, seeing green mountains and green waters, and have become beautiful and talented people in the eyes of others. Unfortunately, what fans were waiting for was not their wedding announcement, but just their breakup video. These photos that record the love between the two people have become the end of the breakup video. One of them is a talented videographer and the other is a beautiful female model. It is supposed to be an art master meeting his muse, a match made in heaven.

But no matter how loving we were before, we were separated for one reason or another. We have traveled half of the world together, but we may not be able to go home together. All we can do seems to be learning to let go. Learning to let go is not because of giving up, but because I understand that emotions are real and dislike is also real. There is no need to pursue, and there is no need to mourn too much.

Some people said: "If I had known that the breakup was so intense, we wouldn't have been together at that time.

"But all encounters in the world have their reasons. They are either gifts or owed to each other. Not everyone can accompany you through the long years in a certain identity. These people you meet are the ones you love. , we can have a good conversation, some become friends, some become friends, some even become strangers, and a very few become lovers.

Everyone will encounter all kinds of things in life. Not all stories with anyone will have consequences. I still remember seeing a guy doing a street interview after a breakup, and a boy said sadly: “She doesn’t need me anymore. "She will no longer look back. We will never regret it. That would be good." "I wish her happiness in this life." "Or wish you well, even if your future has nothing to do with me.

It is not necessary to reach out to something that is no longer grasped. Just like pulling out a broken tooth, you will feel empty. But it won’t hurt anymore. We will eventually learn to let go, slowly but firmly, but we still hope that all our emotions can be: devoted to you, loyal to you, sincere to you, and committed to you. What do you think?