Friends who broke up before marriage, can you tell me why you broke up?

I broke up before I got engaged, probably because I was too independent. Except for the meal, the date money is paid by the man, and most of the movie tickets are paid by me. I never use his money to buy things myself. I have never asked him for a birthday or Valentine's Day gift, and I have never given him one. I have never quarreled, because I am not the kind of person who makes trouble without reason. We took wedding photos together, because I never felt the need for the man to come. Maybe it's too accommodating The man's family pushed his luck, so I paid the gift first. Later, he said, his mother said that the ceremony should be given to the younger generation. Hehe, the key is that the man's salary should be given to his mother. Don't you need the younger generation to pay the bill? I also tried to give a bride price of 10 thousand to 20 thousand. The man's banquet also feels that there are many people going to the woman. I am an only child, and I have bought a dowry car with100000. The local custom is about100000 bride price. I broke up without saying anything. I guess the man's family didn't expect me to be so crisp and neat. The man called WeChat to beg for mercy, saying that he didn't know that his mother suggested that our woman's relatives go less when they got married. Her mother also sent a text message to apologize, saying that I didn't know that I also paid for the wedding photos. No birds. I want you to take advantage, but I don't want you to try it on your nose and face. I am not afraid of their family calculating the woman, because I have already guessed that as long as the man has this responsibility, his attitude will be clear. I'm trying to be a person, not money. It's one thing for his mother to say it, and the most deadly thing is that he doesn't say anything or refute it. Sometimes women don't want money, the key is whether the man is worth it. Remember, man, when a woman doesn't want money, you really have to take a long line to catch a big fish. Don't feel glad that you have found a good woman, because she is rich and your money is not attractive at all, so you must be better than others. Otherwise, you have no capital to keep women at all. Women don't want money and they can't see the man himself. So leaving you is a burden-free thing. This is the reality of women. And sometimes the reality of men is that there is not enough money and no one.