Just say "plain P", but I'm still a good girl.

Not long ago, my colleague showed me an underground gossip, and suddenly I felt that I was really old and out of touch with society, and my ability to play with young people today could not be compared.

It is said that there is a couple. The boy was told by his friend that his girlfriend was coming out of the hotel, so he confronted his girlfriend and got a response that I couldn't match.

The first sentence the girl answered turned out to be "I didn't tell you because I was afraid you would be angry." I think her boyfriend is like me. Later, she also admitted that she had an appointment with someone else, but it didn't happen, just a kind of "plain P".

Later, she also explained that "Su P" just hugged to sleep and did nothing else, just to listen to the heartbeat of strangers. She needs a warm hug from a stranger to heal her longed-for skin relatives. This is just a simple relationship. By the way, I also asked my boyfriend, how can you be so naive like others!

I have been reflecting on whether I am too old-fashioned to understand the openness of young people now, just as my parents don't understand the trend of our times. But after thinking about it, I feel ridiculous. Isn't the so-called "prime P" a kind of marginal behavior? What's the difference between this and cheating?

In this girl's eyes, as long as the body is not derailed, it is not derailed, which is similar to Kong Yiji written by Mr. Lu Xun. Can a scholar's business be stolen? Maybe she is really looking for a love of Paula pattern, even if her purpose is so pure, how does it make her other half feel? Maybe I look at this matter from the perspective of people's hearts, but I can't erase it from my mind after all. She lied to herself.

I have a group of very good high school classmates, but at a party last year, I found one person missing. At first, I just thought he was rushing about the renovation of his new house, but he still didn't arrive at the second party. I learned that he was infatuated with a female anchor on the webcast platform, and rewarded the anchor with all the decoration money, so that he and his wife could meet instantly.

The wife pointed out that the husband and the female anchor met offline and must have cheated, but he always insisted that although he met, he never had a relationship and never betrayed his family. Although I don't know how the couple finally made up, I seldom saw him at the party after that.

I wonder, aren't these behaviors cheating? Do you have to have sex to be worthy of the word "cheating"? Am I too haggle over every ounce, or is their definition of the word too superficial?

The terrible thing is that there are still many people who think that emotional infidelity is not infidelity. Even if he is derailed, he can still be a good partner as long as he can turn back. Maybe!

Emotional infidelity was originally a prelude to physical infidelity, but now it can't bear the blow of family breakdown and can only hold this unrealistic fantasy. But when they are willing to bear all the consequences, it is too late.

Once the spirit is derailed, it actually denies the uniqueness of the current partner. When a person is no longer unique and irreplaceable, it is followed by the collapse of love, because the foundation for building love has collapsed.

People inevitably have desires, but if they know how to restrain themselves and do whatever they want, they will create different directions and perhaps reach two extremes. I have seen many emotional infidelities develop into so-called infidelity, and I understand that emotional infidelity is far less harmful to the other half than I thought. I have always believed that to love a person, it is necessary to be physically and mentally consistent, and love is noble after all.

Iraq is at peace with the world.

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