Is there true love in extramarital affairs?

Extramarital love is one of the killers of marriage. Extramarital love has almost no happy ending, but there are still many men and women who have stepped into extramarital affairs and go through fire and water for feelings that have no chance of winning. Extramarital affairs like poppies, why do women get caught up in them and cannot extricate themselves?

All extramarital affairs are due to the fact that the passion of husband and wife is not in marriage. Although people are at home, they are still in Cao Ying and their hearts are in Han Dynasty.

but once I was fascinated by extramarital affairs, I fell directly into the whirlpool of extramarital affairs, thinking that I had ushered in the second spring and I was blooming like a flower.

What are the reasons why women are keen on extramarital affairs?

Example 1: Life is as dull as water, without passion.

Xiaoke said:

At the age of p>3, I met my ex-boyfriend in college at a class reunion.

because of the class reunion, the two of us seem to have returned to the feeling of being in love. I went to the hotel that night and lingered, and I was reluctant to part the next day.

from that day on, I started dating my ex-boyfriend without telling my husband. At that time, my ex-boyfriend had been married for two years but had no children. And I already have a baby.

Xiaoke said that falling in love with him at the beginning became the biggest pain in her life.

Xiaoke continued: I really didn't mean it that time, but I felt like I was back in the beginning. My ex-boyfriend and I were very loving at school. We had classes during the day and dated at night. I gave myself to him for the first time.

I stayed in this city after graduation, and he went back to his hometown. We just broke up. At the end of the year when we broke up, I met my husband who was ten years older than me. He and I got married soon and had children the next year. My husband is very kind to me, and he has never let me do housework, and he is quite considerate to me. But it just lacks some interest.

At the class reunion, many students came and I saw him again. He is still so sunny and handsome, and I really feel very sad in my heart.

after the party that day, many students went home separately.

As I live in that city, the meeting place is very close to home, so I didn't go home immediately, and I wanted to see my classmates off after a long separation. I didn't think anything would happen with him at all, let alone that I would stay out with my husband for a night without telling him.

at that time, I really didn't think about it, but when he told me to go to the park near the school, I suddenly felt very warm in my heart, which was the place where we used to date at school. So I agreed to him in a daze.

the moon is bright and the stars are sparse, and the breeze blows on your face. I couldn't help kissing him.

he asked me, how do you want to say goodbye? Are you unwilling to let me go and want to keep me overnight?

I know what I did was wrong, but I didn't mean anything else. I hugged him to give him a deeper memory and didn't want him to forget me.

I said, I hope you are happy and take care all the way! But he grabbed my hand and said he didn't want to leave. He also said that he would let me feel romantic again.

it was that day that I lost control and was cheated by him.

He told me that our relationship is perfectly normal, and I won't ruin your marriage and family. We have been in love before, and this has happened many times. It doesn't matter if you do it again now.

I'm ashamed, but think about it carefully. As long as I keep my family steady and keep my secret, who I sleep with is my freedom.

We stayed up all night that night, and we went back to the time of love. We didn't part until noon the next day, and from then on, I became his lover. He comes to see me once in a while, so I look for an opportunity to date him.

I never thought that I would gradually fall in love with my ex-boyfriend again, and I never thought about divorce. However, I overestimated myself and everything was out of control. I told him to get a divorce, and he said it would take some time.

I miss him more and more. As a result, my husband found the spider silk trail and quarreled with me. I blackmailed my husband for divorce, and he really divorced! Didn't stay at all!

But when I urged my ex-boyfriend to divorce, he said that I should ask her to remarry. He also said that he didn't want to destroy our family!

example 2: I can't get my husband's care and understanding.

Sister Liu said:

The plain life after marriage is a true portrayal of most married women. The focus of daily life is to take care of children, the elderly, husbands and work. I took care of my family, but I didn't think about myself.

suddenly, one day, there is such a person who walks into your heart, caring and caring. Just like a calm heart lake, it falls into a stone and ripples slightly. He aroused a girl's heart deep in his heart, a heart eager to be loved.

The child has gone to college, and her husband is busy with his work and doesn't care about himself. His parents are in good health in their hometown, and they have been at odds with her mother-in-law for many years. Her husband will always stand on her mother-in-law's side, feeling lonely and lonely when walking alone in this city. In fact, other members of the opposite sex showed me kindness, but he said that he could divorce me. This sentence made me willing to throw myself into his arms, and I fell into the abyss of perdition.

I've met his wife. Although she looks ordinary, I think she is very smart. She knows my existence and my phone number, but she hasn't called me once.

I feel sorry for my home while enjoying the warmth he gave me. But it was also the happiest day of my marriage.

my husband and I are free to fall in love, and we have feelings. But my mother-in-law is very bad to me. My husband suppressed me blindly. I told my husband that if we divorced in the future, my mother-in-law would account for 7%, but he never put himself in the other's shoes to understand my feelings. Even think I make a mountain out of a molehill! Repeated quarrels pushed me completely to others.

at that time, I had the stimulation of cheating, and I also took some revenge for my husband's bad venting. I feel that I have met true love, I am lucky, and my extramarital affairs are different from others. Therefore, when my husband found out, he didn't feel guilty. On the contrary, I wanted to give up everything for this true love ...

Example 3, my wife lived to be her husband's mother, but she also wanted to be a little girl

Aside from cheating, I was definitely a good woman in the eyes of my friends and relatives around me:

A famous school student admired by everyone, the youngest middle manager of the company, but I took care of all the affairs at home.

and my husband, when he meets a "mother-in-law" wife like me, there is nothing else but obedience.

my friend said, I am really lucky to have such an obedient husband, but the more I look at him, the less pleasing I am.

after a few years of marriage, he became more and more chic, and became the shopkeeper of cutting and never cared about anything.

Sometimes I want to discuss something with him, but he always casually says, "You just decide."

I gradually became a superman mother, and my incompetent "son" was my husband. The tighter you hold the power in your hand, the more tired and empty you are.

because of my work, I met a man several years older than me. He is not handsome, but he has generous shoulders. The first time I saw him, I felt a sense of security.

at first, we just worked together and occasionally sent messages to say hello. Whether for dinner or business trip, he has arranged everything properly, so I don't have to worry about anything.

this maturity and thoughtfulness can almost compare with my husband.

beside him, I'm not a vigorous female boss or a mother who does everything for my husband. I seem to be a little girl again, full of expectations for men's romance, gentleness and thoughtfulness.

We all fell into the swamp of extramarital love, holding hands, kissing, and on a business trip, we broke the bottom line.

I often wonder if he will become a mature, considerate and responsible man instead of being used to him as a "son".

Today's society requires women to take care of their families and be independent in the workplace. Many strong women are forced out alive.

But don't forget, women still have the psychological desire to be protected, helped and nourished.

a strong woman seems invulnerable, but in fact, the land in her heart has already dried up. Even if someone drops a drop of water, it may be as moist and precious as spring rain.

women should be independent, but they should also understand that the greatest significance of marriage is that when facing anything, someone can negotiate with you, help each other, and grow together, not the favor of one party to the other. Unbalanced relationship, marriage will tilt imbalance.

Someone asked: Is there true love in "extramarital affairs"?

the answer is: yes.

but if the original match hears her husband say that she and I are true love and you are relatives, most of the original matches can't restrain their inner anger, and their emotions will burst and roll out in situ.

The so-called extramarital love actually includes three elements:

Of course, the first point is to have a spark of passion, which is the so-called feeling. As soon as I saw her, my heart was full of deer. If I don't see her, I will miss her day and night, and I really want her.

The second point is intimacy. When I am with her, I can let go of all my defenses, expose my true self, and feel safe and relaxed.

The third point is commitment. It should be noted that commitment is not a responsibility. Commitment is a verbal promise, not necessarily put into action. Responsibility should be put into action.

If a man really loves you, he won't make you afraid, homeless or embarrassed.

the true love of extramarital love needs to bear the destruction of both families and the sadness that children lack the love of their parents in their childhood.

After the reconstruction, we all know that this family is not as harmonious as before, because there are cracks in the heart. There will be a high degree of doubt about each other in the future. Won't he (she) cheat again?

can they accept all this? Willing to continue to be together through thick and thin is the true love in extramarital affairs!

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