Helping you is a duty, not helping you. What is duty? illustrate

Classmate Lulu worked in Beijing after graduation.

She said that in the past few years in Beijing, her home has almost become a "Beijing Office".

Arrange accommodation, accompany tourists, help find a job, and queue up for registration. Almost every once in a while, there are similar tasks.

She teased that she was particularly experienced in picking up and dropping off planes and trained by herself.

Lulu thought that it was not easy for everyone, and it was a little help.

Last year, a primary school classmate who had not contacted for more than ten years suddenly contacted her.

At first, the classmates politely asked her where she was.

Lulu replied, in Beijing.

Students continue to ask, XX University is not far from you. I'm going to Beijing and XX University tomorrow. Please take me if you have time.

Lulu thought, it's really been a long time, so she asked for leave to accompany this classmate.

The next morning, my classmates suddenly said, I won't go.

After more than a month, this classmate called Lulu again, saying that she would go to Beijing to study for a while and asked Lulu if she could help find a place to live for about a month.

Lulu directly Baidu a bunch of hotel addresses and phone numbers and reported them to her classmates.

The classmate "hmm" a few times and then hung up the phone.

Later, Lulu heard from other students that this classmate said that she was behind her back, which didn't help at all.

Lulu is also able to shrug off, this kind of thing is simply thankless.

Even if you help from beginning to end, the other party will not have a word of thanks, and may even dislike your carelessness.

Since you think I can't help you with this little thing, then we are really unfit to be friends.

Helping you is a mutual affection, not a matter of course; My duty is not to help you, not to be ungrateful.

No one can ask others to be virtuous from their own standpoint and let others do what they don't want to do.

Moreover, if you are not prepared for your own affairs and don't work hard enough, why ask others to sacrifice their time and energy to run for you?

Do you rely on "you are weak and you are right" or "everyone knows"?

Sorry, not the whole world has to get used to you, and no one owes you.

To be a man, you should know how to be grateful and respect others.

Don't take others' tolerance as a reason for blindly asking for it.

Don't take the kindness of others as your unearned capital.

If others are willing to help you, then sincerely express your gratitude; If others are incompetent, there is no need to complain and blame, just be considerate and understand.

After all, everyone has his own difficulties in life, and no one lives easier than anyone else.