Laojia hotel holds a wedding

202 1 10 1, I am married. On this day of national celebration, I have accomplished my own major events in life. Looking back now, full memories are sweet. Get to the point and share some of my meager experiences and feelings.

Which would you choose, a country wedding or a hotel wedding?

I believe many people will choose a hotel wedding, at least they don't have to worry about the hotel wedding, venue layout and banquet, and the ceremony atmosphere will be beautiful and romantic. Yes, that's true. Judging from the overall impression that I have attended three weddings, hotel weddings are more ceremonial than rural weddings. Whether it's gorgeous lights, beautiful stage or endless wedding March, it's beautiful. Every bride will fantasize about standing on a romantic stage covered with flowers in the spotlight and saying I do to the groom in a handsome suit; Every groom also wants to give his most beloved and beautiful bride under the witness of relatives and friends. Put a ring on the bride on the wedding stage. Yes, I had this fantasy. Whether you are an extrovert or an introvert, you are the only protagonist on that day. In life, I am an introverted person. On that day, I became the protagonist, but not in the hotel, but in the countryside of my hometown.

When planning the wedding, we are also discussing whether to hold the wedding in the hotel or in our hometown and countryside. I want to do it in a hotel. The wedding atmosphere in the hotel is more beautiful, and the photos taken and videos recorded are very beautiful. But my parents said they would do it in a hotel, and few people came. The elders in the village, such as elderly and busy uncles and aunts, can't come. Stubborn, every time I discuss these things with my parents, I always quarrel without saying a few words. I just started talking about marriage in April, and both parties did it directly in the hotel. In May, he said that considering the relatives and elders in the village, he wanted to do it in the countryside, and there were not many relatives of the woman. Take the wedding place in his own village for example. Then in August, the woman disagreed and said that she was not married in the man's house. Later, it finally became a man doing it in the countryside and a woman doing it in a hotel.

I thought that weddings in rural areas were not as good as hotel weddings after all. Unexpectedly, when I really want to do things well, everything will not be disappointed. 10 On the wedding day, I began to make various pre-marital preparation plans for my rural wedding in August, what to buy and how to decorate it, combining the house structure and geographical location in my hometown. At the beginning of September, many things were bought in advance, so it is recommended to buy them in advance because we don't know the logistics speed. Some logistics may take seven or eight days. In case of breakage, leakage or return, this time line will be extended to half a month.

I have to get up early on the wedding day, be busy with all kinds of trivial matters arranged by my elders, and go out early to meet my relatives. The layout of my home has almost been completed, and the rest of the trivial arrangements have been explained in advance. Everything went smoothly and orderly as you wished, and you brought the bride back. Before marriage, I also simulated and imagined the road and scene of coming back to see my relatives countless times. Get off at the bride, village entrance 136 meters. At the entrance of the village, there is an oversized red air arch with the names of the bride and groom on it, with the classical welcome card of Fengfu wedding banquet written on it, covered with a long red carpet of bronzing "forever tied together" and "we are married", and the gemstone Le Ballon Rouge is hung several meters apart on both sides. On both sides of every two steps, there are various salutes of rose petals, holding the bride's hand all the way into the house. Although this picture has been simulated many times, it is worthwhile to give yourself a shock and a touch when everything becomes a reality. You wouldn't expect that the red carpet is full of relatives who meet each other, friends who are full of blessings, relatives who haven't seen for a long time, and a group of children who are chattering on vacation. Everything is so festive, lively and beautiful. The pink background wall in front of our house, with the arrangement of flowers, led by Europe and witnessed by many relatives and friends, completed our wedding. Looking back now, I really spent a lot of time at that time, often asking my married friends what to buy, what to worry about, what tools to use and what is more appropriate. Everything is what I want to give the bride and give myself the most satisfactory answer in this rural wedding. In fact, when you are prepared and work hard for it, the result will not be too bad. When a friend's wife complained to her friend, the wedding was really beautiful. Look at you. You've never been so beautiful to me. I secretly smiled in my heart. Isn't that what I want? Behind the unknown, I bought one candy box after another for comparison, ate one candy box after another, and then chose to enter the pre-order form. Many platforms are compared, such as beautiful and suitable red carpet, changed and changed welcome cards, colorful lanterns fluttering in the wind, beautiful but complicated flower decoration and so on. By that day, all the hard work will be worth it.

At the moment of marriage, the hotel wedding I missed was no longer important. Country weddings can also be beautiful. The mood is coming, no matter what the process is, the ending is you, and nothing else is important.