Does it hurt to leave without saying a word? His girlfriend left him without saying a word.

Fang Ge of Hefei called our column and said that he had talked with his girlfriend for more than three years. At the beginning of March, he suddenly ignored him for some reason and took away hundreds of thousands of people who made money by opening a restaurant. What happened? What's the trouble between them?

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This relationship

This shouldn't have happened in the first place.

Fang Ge is 44 years old and his girlfriend Chen Jie is 43 years old. Both of them live in Hefei and met on 20 17. "We met in 20 17 10/7. We met online and met on WeChat. "

Recalling this relationship, Fang Ge used two words-confusion.

"I'm single, I'm divorced. She said she had a husband and children. I said yes, get along first. If you can get along well, you can get divorced in the future and we can get married. "

In other words, this relationship between two people should not start from the beginning, which is a disgraceful thing.

"People seem to think that we are husband and wife, because we live here every day and live a normal husband and wife life. I call my husband and I call her wife. "

Although I know that Chen Jie has a family, Fang Ge and her began to fall in love, and then they opened a small restaurant, so they went astray for more than three years.

Brother Fang said, "I run a restaurant, and she helps every day and on weekends." Sometimes children will stay here when they are not at home at night. Used to fight a lot, fight. At least she's here. I can tell you something. If I change in the future, can we live well? This time, I don't know, I didn't say a word. So I feel very sad. The torture of these days immediately tortured me to death. "

Brother Fang thinks that he is obedient and even tries to please her.

"She never divorced, unwilling, as if looking down on me, saying that marriage is not appropriate. She has a bachelor's degree and works in a regular unit. I'm just a chef with a primary school diploma. She has seen everyone around me, my son, people she knows, and people around her. "

At the scene, Fang Dage took out his mobile phone and told reporters that Sister Chen called Fang Dage's husband in the WeChat conversation, but only Fang Dage was in her WeChat, and her family could not see it. What they chatted alone was a WeChat. Brother Fang thought she was faking it.

"I feel stupid, I was fooled by her. If we break up, I'll break up. Just one word, one word is enough, but I can't get in touch. I think it will get better every day, and the number of years will be more. If she wants a divorce, she won't want to be with me. If she marries me, she will hold this mentality. "

It is precisely because of this fantasy that Fang Ge maintained this proper relationship for three years, and this time, Sister Chen quietly left, which made Fang Ge unacceptable.

Fang Ge: The bank card is always with her.

Reporter: Is it her bank card or yours?

Fang Ge: It's hers. She has all the money.

Reporter: How can you say that she took it?

Brother Fang: I can't produce any evidence of money. The money is all mixed up. She did not talk about money. I don't know why this time, but it broke my heart at once.

Later, the reporter and Fang Dage found Sister Chen together, hoping to resolve the economic dispute between them through consultation.

Sister Chen: I didn't get any of the operating income in his shop.

Reporter: He told me what bank card you took with you when you left, saying that there was business money in it.

Sister Chen: No, there is a card. Let him take it out and let me have a look. I don't have his business card. This is a false accusation.

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Sister Chen is very interested in this relationship.

The biggest feeling is regret.

Confronted face to face, Chen Jie denied taking the money earned by running the hotel, and even never saw the bank card. So, after all these years, what does Chen Jie really want from him, and what does Fang Ge think?

Sister Chen said that she didn't have any money with her, and even she paid for opening a restaurant.

Sister Chen: I have a transfer record. I transferred hundreds of thousands. Since I met him, it's equivalent to working in partnership. I invested at that time. I have a transfer record.

Sister Chen: I always help him after work, so I really give them as friends. I think it is out of kindness to run this store well and give him a stable income. Now, he did this to me.

Reporter: What he means now is that you two are boyfriend and girlfriend?

Sister Chen: Yes, yes, I think it's wrong for me to do so. Then I don't want to do this with him now, because there is no future together.

Talking about the relationship between the two in recent years, Chen Jie admitted that she was wrong, and now she realizes that she can't do this anymore.

Sister Chen: I feel sorry for him. He doesn't have a real job, so he is confused. I regret it too. I shouldn't have done this.

Reporter: Can't we break up in two words? Why does it turn black?

Sister Chen: He asked me to help him return his credit card. I want to know what happened to this man and why he should return your credit card.

Sister Chen: I won't follow.

After his contact, he had some extreme behaviors.

Fang Ge: This is the first step. I don't think I can forgive this emotional liar! She said she didn't take the money, and money is not money. Now I don't talk about money. She is an emotional liar, and she just wants to play me!

I can hear you. Brother Fang doesn't know this relationship yet. After Sister Chen decided to leave, Brother Fang felt very hurt.

Sister Chen: I don't want to talk to you. I don't want anything to do with you, so I won't. He often pulls down the shutter in the shop and cuts it with a knife.

Reporter: Then why did you get along with him for so long?

Sister Chen: I've always wanted him to change slowly, which is different from the beginning.

In the communication with Chen Jie, when it comes to this wrong feeling, one word that Chen Jie said the most is-regret.

Sister Chen: Just after I stopped contacting him, he said on WeChat that you really have balls. When I die, you return my credit card, and I will ignore him. Then he slandered me in Tik Tok.

Fang Ge: If we don't continue to get along, we can't get along. I don't want to continue to get along, so I can't stand the torture. I have only one way to solve it, which will definitely embarrass her. I'm shameless.

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Both sides are responsible for their own lives.

It can be seen at the scene that Fang Ge is still very irrational, and the reporter also made suggestions to both sides, but Fang Ge put forward new requirements.

Reporter: From 20 17, it was wrong for you two to meet. Now, if you all want to understand, stop this mistake.

Fang Ge: She has to compensate me. How come? Lie to me. I am divorced. She is not divorced. She's married. She lied to me about my feelings all these years.

For Fang Ge's statement that the relationship between the two is over, but I hope that Chen Jie will help him return his credit card, Chen Jie said that it is unacceptable. She has paid the price for her mistake. She thinks Brother Fang is unreasonable.

Reporter: Do you think she hurt you emotionally, so I hope she will give you this money or what do you mean?

Fang Ge: Yes, she just hurt me emotionally.

Reporter: Well, isn't this still a deal? You can't use this blackmail method. You want her to pay your personal credit card debt. This is definitely untenable. You also admit that you owe her money. She invested in this store, and you owe money on your own credit card. Do you still want her to pay it back for you?

Brother Fang: I didn't ask her to return it all. She gave me something in return first. I can get by. I'll keep opening a shop. I'm not demanding, because she has a job, she has an income, and I don't.

Reporter: That's not true. It doesn't mean that if she has a job, she must sympathize with and pay for the weak. This truth is untenable.

Sister Chen: Between him and me, it's not that I'm noble. His conditions are similar, but mine are better. I want to help him and give him a mouth to eat. That's really the idea. I was wrong. He often engages in excessive behavior now, which of course I can't understand and I don't want to continue. Why did you ask me for this money? You owe me so much money, but I didn't ask you for it.

Reporter: What you think you did for his shop is that you made up for your mistake. You made a mistake yourself, and you are willing to bear the consequences.

Sister Chen: Yes, I don't even have to ask him for it. It's really hard for him. It is obviously unreasonable for you to ask others to help you pay back your credit card. This money is not for two people.

Sister Chen said that the only thing she could promise was to return the gift worth 20 thousand that Fang Ge bought for her. She was unwilling to give any other money, and there was no reason to give it. This shameful relationship was the fault of two people from the beginning. Now Brother Fang threatens it, and Sister Chen finds it unacceptable. So the negotiations ended here and broke up in discord.

I also want to say

As sister Chen, she should be responsible for her family.

Brother Fang is also responsible for his own life.

Don't let mistakes continue to be retaliated. There is no end.

Both should stop loss in time.

Mind your own business and live your own life.

According to the reporter's report