Which issue is the gold medal mediation Mr. Kang?

This gold medal mediation is about Ms. Xie and Mr. Kang.

Ms. Xie, my father died young and my mother remarried. When she was nine, she grew up with her grandmother. She married far away in Fujian and said that she would work hard on her own. My own road, I go by myself, good or bad, is my own choice. She said that after getting married, she felt that she had found a place to rely on, where she could relax and feel safe at home.

The year after their marriage, they bought a house. However, her husband's exhibition industry failed, and he was depressed for two years. The pressure to repay the loan makes Ms. Xie anxious. She began to complain and blame her husband and even filed for divorce. The husband was also scolded for' rolling' and punched on the glass.

Miss Xie, what's the matter? From her sad face, we can see that she is anxious. When she saw her husband's failure and financial pressure, she would think of the hopelessness, anxiety and unreliability of being born in a family, so she chose to leave and go to a distant place to work and get married. Now, in the current predicament, what she thinks is the kind of' unreliable' anxiety and her distance. She complained and blamed her husband anxiously, and, because she couldn't see hope, she thought of' independence' again and stayed away.

In fact, her husband's "low tide" is nothing to be afraid of, but her anxiety and blame will make her husband very "uneasy". Her approach should be to appease, give confidence and encouragement.

Ms. Xie is an' emotion' from a family background. Her "anxious and sad face" should not only be regarded as caused by immediate events, it is historic. The anxiety and hopelessness brought to her by her family makes it easy for her to feel old-fashioned about the present difficulties. How much of her complaints and blame are directed at' old love'? She vented her old feelings to the present. Her husband, however, just feels that it is caused by the status quo, so he is very dissatisfied.

She seems to have seen the failure of Origin and Fate. She must have offended her family because of her stubborn independence, so she must feel "guilty". And now' failure' will remind her of' guilt' about her family, which will add to her troubles and confuse her mind. It is estimated that she has developed a' death instinct' at this time. What do you mean? Take a chance and either prove that you have done well or prove that you are wrong.

It can be said that she' betrayed' her family. This' betrayal' has put a lot of pressure on her. She is not sure that she is right. Now, she has a double burden.