You Xiaogang is the godfather, Bao Jianfeng calls him brother and sister, Wu Qilong is the "perfect husband", why does Dai Jiaoqian have so many melons?

The entertainment industry is like a big garden. Countless seeds are scattered, but only a few can flourish in the end.

The most regrettable thing is that some people started out stupidly and kept getting fat and water along the way. In the end, they were still malnourished and failed to usher in their own blossoms.

Dai Jiaoqian is such a seed player. 01

Dai Jiaoqian’s ancestral home is Nanjing and she was born in Shanghai. She is the only daughter in her family.

My mother was once a violinist in an orchestra, and she always hoped that her daughter would inherit the mantle and become a musician in the future.

When she was in kindergarten, Dai Jiaoqian was forced to learn piano and violin.

As a result, she did not inherit any musical skills from her mother. After two years of learning, she was not at all enlightened and could not even understand the musical notation.

When her daughter failed to make progress, her mother got angry and beat her.

The father looked distressed and smashed the violin to pieces with a "pop". From then on, he accepted his fate and never let his daughter engage in literature and art again.

Not to mention her special skills, Dai Jiaoqian’s studies were average, especially in mathematics, and her grades were simply mediocre.

Belongs to the kind of average student who usually keeps quiet and has average grades.

The parents who originally had high hopes for their daughter gradually became discouraged when they saw that their daughter was “not good at anything and didn’t eat enough.”

At that time, they had very low expectations for their daughter. They did not expect her to become a dragon or a phoenix. They just had to have a stable job in the future and be able to support themselves.

But Dai Jiaoqian was holding back her energy and wanted to find an opportunity to prove to her parents that "my future is not a dream."

In 1993, a national child star competition was held in Shanghai.

After Dai Jiaoqian saw the news, she secretly sent her photos without telling her parents.

Unexpectedly, this competition was quite a sensation, with a total of 60,000 children signing up.

On the day of the preliminary round, the red flag was waved and there was a sea of ??people on the field.

The children were all dressed in colorful clothes, either accompanied by their parents or surrounded by their grandparents. Only Dai Jiaoqian wore a sweatshirt and went on the field alone.

Since then, Dai Jiaoqian has been studying as if nothing happened, while using her spare time to participate in competition training, and passed all the way to the semi-finals.

After becoming a "seeded player", the event organizers gave Dai Jiaoqian a bunch of contracts and asked her to sign them.

Dai Jiaoqian couldn’t understand the secret, so she told her parents.

They were both angry and surprised that their daughter had done such a big thing behind their backs.

Father Dai couldn't help complaining: "You kid, why don't you say anything about this kind of thing?"

I'm not as useless as you think.

As soon as this sentence came out, it was very resounding. The momentum in his daughter made Father Dai feel very happy.

In the end, Dai Jiaoqian successfully stood on the stage of the finals and won the title of "Top Ten in the Country".

Although this competition did not make Dai Jiaoqian a child star, it built confidence for her and her family.

After entering junior high school, her parents enrolled her in an acting class at an art school, where she studied acting at the same time.

When she was in the third grade of junior high school, like all star-chasing little girls, Dai Jiaoqian fell in love with a Hong Kong and Taiwan star.

There is a big poster of him on the bedside, and a small photo of him on the exercise book.

Every night before going to bed, I have to make an ideological report to the male celebrity in front of the poster.

The happiest thing every day is that after finishing her homework, her father allows her to be a "nymphomaniac" and watch idol programs.

The daughter's obsession makes the father jealous.

One night, he used a ballpoint pen to draw a pair of glasses for the male star on the poster beside his daughter's bed.

For this reason, Dai Jiaoqian didn't talk to her father for a week. 02

In 1998, the TV series "Flower Season and Rainy Season" went to the art school where Dai Jiaoqian studied acting to find the heroine.

The teacher recommended a dozen students to them, including Dai Jiaoqian.

Two months later, Dai Jiaoqian was officially notified that she would play the heroine Liu Xia.

After "Flower Season and Rainy Season" was released, it was well received. As soon as she debuted, Dai Jiaoqian was nominated for the Golden Eagle Award for "Best Actress".

After passing through the flower season and the rainy season, Dai Jiaoqian met "the great benefactor in her career", the great director You Xiaogang, whom she called "You's dad".

The first work the two collaborated on was the TV series "Extreme Contact".

During the casting process, Director You fell in love with Dai Jiaoqian as soon as he saw her photo.

I feel that this girl has aura and there is content in her eyes.

Immediately afterwards, she became the third female lead in "Very Close Contact", the daughter of the male protagonist "Wei Zi" - Navy nurse Ding Ning.

Because he was born in the military, You Xiaogang has a tough temper and is very demanding during filming.

For this reason, everyone on the crew calls him "Commander".

In addition, You Xiaogang has a loud voice, and when she shouts, all the actresses remain silent, they are all afraid of her.

But towards Dai Jiaoqian, You Xiaogang was very gentle, always kind-hearted and soft-spoken.

Two months later, when Dai Jiaoqian finished filming, Director You sat down and had a long chat with her.

Finally, leave the next sentence:

Little girl, I am very optimistic about you, come to work here, I will definitely make you famous.

For this reason, Dai Jiaoqian's parents rushed to Beijing, had an in-depth talk with You Xiaogang, and then handed over their baby daughter to "Zhongbei" (Beijing Zhongbei Television Production Company).

You Xiaogang is indeed a man of his word. Ever since he signed Dai Jiaoqian into his company, he has always been "careful" about her.

At the end of 2002, while filming the TV series "Arhat", Dai Jiaoqian was involved in a car accident and suffered a broken nose.

After hearing the news, You Xiaogang immediately called to comfort him: "Many actors only become popular after breaking bones. This is a precursor to your popularity."

In order to make Dai Jiaoqian "famous", You Xiaogang has tailored TV series for her such as "The Phoenix in the Rivers and Lakes", "The Secret History of the Crown Prince", and "Love in Shanghai".

"Phoenix in the Rivers and Lakes" wants to praise Dai Jiaoqian as the "eccentric little phoenix" and surpass the "little swallow" in "Huan Zhu Princess".

As a result, "Phoenix" had no fighting power and fell into the street.

"The Secret History of the Crown Prince" can be called the "sequel" of "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang".

Ma Jingtao, Liu Dekai, Hu Jing, Wu Qianqian, Lu Zhong, Jing Jing, Shu Chang... were all invited to support Dai Jiaoqian, the new female lead.

During the filming, "Roaring Emperor" Ma Jingtao continued to contribute his "passionate" acting skills. In one scene, the phoenix crown on Dai Jiaoqian's head shook off, scaring her to "jump" frequently.

The thought of having a kiss scene with Ma Jingtao gave Dai Jiaoqian an even bigger headache, so she asked "Daddy You" to cancel it.

No one else has this privilege.

Unfortunately, the results of "The Secret History of the Crown Prince" are far inferior to those of "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang". You Xiaogang got twice the result with half the effort and wasted a lot of effort.

As for "Love in Shanghai", it is obvious that it wants to copy the prosperity of "Shanghai".

Although Qiao Yiyi, played by Dai Jiaoqian, is very "Feng Chengcheng", she is not Zhao Yazhi and continues to hit the streets. 03

After Dai Jiaoqian's contract with "Zhongbei" expired, You Xiaogang introduced her to Emperor Entertainment Company.

The Emperor has more tricks to support artists than You Xiaogang, who can only make TV series.

In order to make Dai Jiaoqian famous, she was given the title of "Little Cecilia Cheung".

Later, the Emperor of China and North China cooperated to create the "Emperor of China and North China".

In order to increase the popularity of "Little Cecilia Cheung", on the day when "Northern Emperor" was established, Dai Jiaoqian and Nicholas Tse were arranged to go on stage hand in hand.

But Dai Jiaoqian didn’t want to get involved in Nicholas Tse’s scandal, so she asked “Daddy You” to cancel it.

Later, the two collaborated on "The Great Sage". It was obvious that one was the male lead and the other was the female lead, and each had an official supporting role in the movie.

But in reality, the two people were formed into a "CP", and news about Nicholas Tse and "Little Cecilia Cheung" rekindling their love was flying everywhere.

Unexpectedly, at the movie press conference, Dai Jiaoqian took the initiative to clarify:

He is so cool! Not even humorous.

I would definitely not choose someone like him when choosing a boyfriend.

In addition to Nicholas Tse, Dai Jiaoqian was also arranged by the company to form a team with Tian Liang.

At that time, the media were talking about the two people having a "husband and wife look" and being the "new golden boy and girl."

I hope the "Qianliang" combination can replace the original "Shining Jingjing".

But Dai Jiaoqian didn't buy it. Soon after, she stood up and clarified, "Tian Liang is my idol and I don't dare to climb high."

In order to clarify this series of scandals, she also told the media:

My significant other will not find a director. The director is too smart and he feels unhappy when he is with beautiful girls every day. Solid;

Don’t look for handsome guys, handsome guys are unreliable;

If you want to look for someone, look for someone who is a bit silly, preferably someone who gets off work on time, such as a doctor or an engineer. 03

You may say so, but Dai Jiaoqian’s scandals in the entertainment industry have never stopped.

In 2007, Dai Jiaoqian and Bao Jianfeng*** both starred in the TV series "Once Upon a Time in a Small Town".

Because both of them are from Shanghai, they collaborated very smoothly, and in the end they formed a "Bao Dai" combination.

Since then, Dai Jiaoqian has been calling Bao Jianfeng "Brother Bao".

At that time, Dai Jiaoqian was in a lovelorn period and was in a particularly low mood. In order to make her happy, "Brother Bao" often acted cute and cute on the set.

Because they are fellow villagers, "Sister Dai" and "Brother Bao" are also very close, and they are close friends, but they never call.

They have collaborated in three dramas and played the role of a couple three times. But in reality, they have no story at all. They have always been a socialist brother-sister relationship.

In 2009, "Brother Bao" married actress He Jiahao, who had been in love for many years, and "Sister Dai" was completely out of luck.

When they collaborated later, Bao Jianfeng, who was famous and had his own boss, even teased Dai Jiaoqian:

My brother is already someone else’s boss, who told you not to hurry up at that time.

You are the best among the leftover women. You are an outstanding leftover woman. Why didn’t Zhenai.com find you?

Zhenai.com did not find Dai Jiaoqian, but Wu Qilong did.

In 2010, Wu Qilong's "Straw Bear" invested in the filming of "The Perfect Husband" and selected Dai Jiaoqian to play the female lead. Moreover, the salary given was higher than the market price.

Dai Jiaoqian even praised in public, "Boss Wu has a sense of responsibility and responsibility" and is a "perfect husband".

Boss Wu also cares deeply about this "female employee".

In January 2013, it was revealed that the two of them were locked in arms and entering and leaving a five-star hotel.

As soon as the news came out, Wu Qilong immediately stood up and clarified:

That was a photo of the two when they attended an event in April last year. There is nothing wrong between him and Dai Jiaoqian.

Although it’s okay to say it, the scenes of the two of them in the same frame from 2010 to 2013 are somewhat sweet.

Later, Wu Qilong fell in love with Liu Shishi, and there was no contact between the two. 04

Time flies, the sun and the moon fly by.

In the blink of an eye, Dai Jiaoqian has been in the industry for more than ten years, and her stardom has become increasingly dim. She has begun to play supporting roles for new stars such as Zhao Liying and Yuan Shanshan.

In 2014, before the release of "The Palace", she had a "war of words" with Yu Zheng.

When the outline of the script for "The Palace" came out, it was accused of plagiarizing Qiong Yao's "Plum Blossom Brand".

In this regard, Yu Zheng initially called him a "stubborn duck" and tried to explain it, but refused to admit it.

But Dai Jiaoqian, an "upright girl", bluntly said in an interview, "There are indeed some plots in "Gongsuo Liancheng" that are similar to "Plum Blossom Brand".

Accidentally, I slapped "Mom Yu" in the face.

Yu Zheng has always been a "revenge" person, and he is even more merciless when it comes to exposing an actor's background.

As soon as the report came out, he immediately posted on Weibo, saying that Dai Jiaoqian was blackmailing Yuan Shanshan in "The Palace" because he didn't take her to "Happy Camp".

And asked her, "Can you really make yourself famous if you are obsessed with hype?"

Insinuating that Dai Jiaoqian has not been popular for many years since her debut.

Not only that, Yu Zheng also used Dai Jiaoqian's age as an excuse.

She said she was born in 1979 on her ID card, but she claimed that she was born in 1981, and she was old enough to play the role of a mother.

As expected of "Yu Ma", she is really a little bitch and a bitch.

It was pitiful that Dai Jiaoqian was attacked like this for just telling the truth.

Although Yu went too far in doing business, his words were considered sincere.

Dai Jiaoqian has been in the industry for many years, but has never become popular. Now she has reached an embarrassing period for actresses:

She looks old to play "Flower", but too young to play "Mom".

Her career is ups and downs, but life is sweet for Dai Jiaoqian.

Because in this year, she married her outsider boyfriend who had been chasing her for 10 years and was 10 years older than her.

Dai Jiaoqian’s husband can be said to be very affectionate towards her.

After falling in love at first sight, the long and bumpy road to pursue love began.

In the beginning, Dai Jiaoqian was indifferent to him and did not take him seriously at all.

But the man "doesn't know where the love begins, and it goes deep" and is willing to be a spare tire.

Even if Dai Jiaoqian had a boyfriend, he would still pursue her.

After years of hard work, although he failed to impress Dai Jiaoqian, he impressed his future mother-in-law.

In order to support him as his future son-in-law, Dai's mother also recognized him as her godson.

As soon as her daughter made any move, she would immediately report it to her godson.

Since then, as a "family member", he has always interfered with Dai Jiaoqian's love affair.

She also said that even if she married that man and had children, they would definitely break up.

He also has a chance.

Sure enough, under his "curse", Dai Jiaoqian broke up with her boyfriend.

Even so, Dai Jiaoqian did not consider being with this "godbrother".

It wasn't until Dai Jiaoqian's father fell ill and was hospitalized that he put down all his work and waited on the hospital bedside like a family member. This touched the beauty's heart.

After her father recovered, Dai Jiaoqian agreed to the man’s proposal.

Two years after their marriage, the two welcomed a little princess named "An Xin".

After having her daughter, Dai Jiaoqian wanted to be by her side 24 hours a day, and she no longer had the ambition she had in the past.

In the past two years, production has been significantly reduced, and she is rarely seen on the screen.

Now, Dai Jiaoqian has found her own stability in this world, and whether she is popular or not is no longer important to her.

Dai Jiaoqian has been in the industry for more than 20 years. In terms of career, she has always wanted to be popular, but she has been tepid all the way.

In love, I have always wanted to wait for the right person, but suddenly I look back and realize that that person has been by my side all along.

This is generally the case in life. What comes to you will always come, but what is not yours will not come even if you look through it.

All we can do is to let nature take its course, and we will be lucky if we gain, and we will lose our lives.