The journey of transformation

Hello classmates in front of the screen, first of all, thank you for taking the time to share my growth and transformation. The emotions I share are my most real feelings. These few days of studying at Fenma have been really exciting. The feeling is very fulfilling and satisfying. I also hope that my sharing can provide you with some help.

? There is such a person, she used to be a timid and cowardly person, but now she is a brave and determined person; there is such a person, she used to dare not try new things, but now she is a People who are willing to try; there is such a person. In the past, her logic was simple and short-sighted, but now she is a person with a broad perspective and an expanded vision. This person is me, my name is Tan Chengzhen, Tan is Tan Sitong, and Cheng is a promise. Chengzhen, chastity is loyalty. Knowing me, Chengzhen, all dreams come true. Knowing me, Chengzhen, all friendships are as deep as the ocean.

Fenma’s offline activities are the first time I have participated in such an event since I was a child. I was born in a rural family. Before going to college, I had always longed to go to a big city, so in the first After I failed the college entrance examination, I went to repeat my studies. If I didn't have that desire to come to a big city, I wouldn't have been admitted to the university I am now at, I wouldn't have come to Changsha, and I wouldn't have met Fenma. With the idea of ??being unwilling to be ordinary and wanting to change, I have been looking for opportunities to improve myself, until one time a classmate shared a course with me, so I came into contact with Fenma. Through the experience class, I came into contact with Viagra and experienced I was greatly encouraged by Viagra's passionate and upward power. Therefore, I also signed up to participate in the youth leadership training event. From the confusion and fear at the beginning to the reluctance and gratitude at the end of the day, these five days and four nights, although short, really transformed me.

In fact, I was very entangled before deciding whether to participate in the training camp. It seemed that there were hundreds of thousands of different voices talking to me in my heart. I was very scared because I didn’t know what I would encounter. , but at the same time I am eager to change, go out and see the world, and improve myself. Just when I was hesitating, a sentence came to my mind: "When facing a decision, you must have a long-term vision, and only the correct result will be satisfactory." Yes! The online experience classes these days have made me feel that Weige is a positive and different speaker. He said that speaking is to speak for yourself. Oh my God, I have never thought about it because I am an introvert and obedient person. My child, I liked giving speeches at first because I liked the attention of people standing on the stage and the applause from the audience, but I had never lived for myself. Weige’s words touched me deeply, so I I made up my mind to join Fenma and participated in the Youth Leadership Camp. Come here to see comfortable hotel accommodation, well-prepared classrooms, and affordable prices. Everything was so thoughtful and beautiful, which completely dispelled some of my concerns about Fenma.

Open up new ideas and improve the situation

In the past, my thinking was limited, the structure was not big, and the outstanding people I met were limited. I never knew the stories behind them, but Being at Fenma allowed me to understand the success of these great people. They are just like us ordinary people, with flesh and blood. They can succeed, but they are more determined, harder working, and more able to endure hardship than we are.

Mr. Wang Jun, the general manager of William Castle, was also born in a rural area. In the early days of his business, he worked hard. He said that a person must have a firm ambition and a clear goal. In my opinion, a goal is like a beam of light in the darkness, illuminating the way forward. Having a clear goal will give you motivation. Once you set a goal, you have to work hard. The better the person, the harder it is. I always worked hard in the past, but then slowly due to the influence of people around me, I started to relax. I slowly felt that life had lost its fun, until this day. After a sharing from Brother Jun, I realized that there is nothing wrong with hard work. If you have tried hard but failed, don’t be depressed. Maybe your efforts are not all-out, maybe your efforts have not met the requirements for qualitative change, so if you decide If you have achieved your goal, then go ahead and fight bravely, and don’t care about the opinions of the outside world.

Because your life is in your own hands. Brother Yue said that you should have a horn in your heart that can break through the ceiling. This horn is your unwillingness to be ordinary, your unwillingness to be at a low level, and your desire to succeed. The idea is that if you want to be different in life, the university must stand out, so you must make a difference in university. Of course, having a dream is not enough, you must also take action. The experience of successful people tells us that they are all working hard and giving, and they are not just talking on paper. Just like learning, it is not the final result that you understand it. The final result is that you can practice it and apply it. Learning at Fenma is the same. In addition to classes every day, we will also be given opportunities for practical exercises. We can learn and use them at the same time. This kind of learning efficiency is the highest. Senior Tong Luo insisted on what he loved and finally got the job he loved. He said that when your heart is strong enough, you will not be changed by the people around you, but will change them. Sometimes you miss a lot because you are not firm. In the future, I will follow the example of Senior Tong Luo, work hard, and stick to what I love. The harder I work, the more grateful I will be, and the luckier I will be. This sentence has been deeply engraved in my heart. The better the example, the longer your motivation and persistence will be. My thinking and pattern have been reopened.

Viagra's interpretation of human nature and analysis of the relationship between people and the environment opened my mind. Especially on the bracelet that Wei Ge gave us, it says: "I am the cause of everything." Many times misunderstandings occur because we don't know how to reflect on ourselves and only know how to find reasons from the outside world. This sentence from Wei Ge gave us It gave me new ideas and opened up new ideas for dealing with future troubles and making decisions in the future.

Learning professional knowledge to improve abilities

English is not difficult for me, but it may only be compared to the exam. We have always studied English as a subject of knowledge. , rather than a language, so our improvement in English is also limited, and Brother Dongdong told us in his English that we need to find the right attitude and method to learn English. To learn English, we need to find interest, and we need to constantly imitate and practice. . Brother Dongdong’s class was very interesting. We were learning and playing at the same time. I was completely impressed by Teacher Dongdong, especially the rap with phonetic symbols, which rekindled many people’s interest in learning English, including myself.

Professor Wei Ge’s eight opening methods, four midfield stories, self-introduction, four speech methods, and the end of the speech also include speaking speed, rhythm, gestures... Starting from every detail of the speech, it is very Professional and very practical. Of course, it also includes Zhiqiang’s morning practice every morning, which can not only learn knowledge but also be fun. And Brother Zhiqiang is also very powerful. Three feet of ice cannot be frozen in a day, so you need to persist every day to achieve results.

I have always been afraid to go on stage, but it was the first day I came to Fenma. I got on the stage. Although I was called by Wei Ge, the moment I stood on it, I found that the stage was not scary at all. So in the next five days and four nights, I also worked under the guidance of my assistant teacher Jiaxing Sister. With the encouragement of others, I bravely rushed to the stage and seized every opportunity to be on stage. Unfortunately, I rarely got the microphone because my determination was not firm enough. This tells me that true bravery is to be seen. It can be seen from your eyes that your determination is not for others to see, just like sometimes your efforts should come from the heart instead of working hard for the praise of others.

My presentation was terrible at first, but it has improved. Through several PKs in the group, I also discovered the shortcomings of my speech, so I continued to improve and improve myself. My speech ability has been improved. I will also pay attention to various gestures, sounds, and rhythms. Also included is my own pronunciation, which now fails my speech skills.

In the past, I didn’t want to make friends, but when I came to Fenma, I found that the friends here are very enthusiastic and they are all excellent.

In a few days of contact, I was gradually infected, so I took the initiative to chat with them and make friends with them. This was the first time I took the initiative. As Brother Xiaowen said, every initiative will have consequences. Different gains, different stories.

001 Team Night

There are three games in team night, namely bracelet removal and trust back wrestling, each of which is unforgettable and each of which is challenging. Untying the bracelet tests team wisdom. Our team has shown strong cooperation in this environment, so we have always been in a leading position in this link. Through this game, I felt the wisdom of our team, and everyone expressed their own opinions. Opinions Everyone brainstormed and solved the problem together.

Taking advantage of the excitement from the previous round, we brainstormed and kept trying how to sit more firmly and last longer. Everyone was insisting, especially the boys. There were very few boys in our group, but they took the initiative to say, sit down and put all the weight on our side. We were particularly touched at that time, although there were not many boys in my opinion. After the game started, everyone in our group encouraged each other and supported each other during the human-human attack. They gritted their teeth and persevered. No one in your group said they would give up. I felt the cohesion of the team.

My favorite game is trust fall. Can you imagine falling from the chair with your hands tied? That feeling is actually a bit scary. But I was the second one to rush forward. I don’t know where I got the courage at that time. It might have been my trust in my partners or my decision to break through. When I stood on the chair, my friends cheered me on. The moment I fell, my heart was very uneasy. It wasn’t until the moment I was steadily caught by my friends that my heart It was extremely relaxing, and the feeling at that moment was indescribable. After I came down, I immediately high-fived them, thanking them for encouraging me, and thanking them for catching it. I believe in team strength and my teammates.

002 Leader’s Night

At first we thought this was a new game, but before we started, Viagra’s serious words told me that this would definitely not be the case. It's very simple. At the beginning, we played a counting game. If the number was wrong, the leader of the group would be punished. We didn't think much of it at first. Until the second round, the male leader of the second group tried his best. The team members put aside their mistakes and fell down and got up again and again. Slowly, they lost strength. Yes, a leader is not as glamorous as he appears on the surface. He must bear the responsibilities he should bear. If you want to wear its crown, you must bear its weight. Yes, so are the leaders in our lives. They shoulder the responsibility and pay silently, but they never complain. They hold up a world for our lives. What touched me the most was the video of my mother setting foot alone in a strange city to spend the last Spring Festival with her son. So how lucky we are that our parents are still with us and we still have the opportunity to express our love. "A tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop; a child wants to be nurtured but cannot be loved." Don't wait until you lose something to appreciate it.

003 Cross Fire

What is Cross Fire? At the beginning, we experienced crossing the real line of fire, but the real challenge for us was to cross the line blindfolded without being able to touch the line of fire. My first thought at that time was to crawl over, I think that is the fastest. The best way but later I realized it was wrong. The real fire line is the difficulties set by yourself in your heart. When there is no fire line in your heart, you can calmly and confidently walk towards the other side of your dream. Sometimes the biggest difficulty does not come from the outside world, but from the outside world. It’s in your heart, just like when you stand on the stage, when your heart tells yourself that you are the best, your performance on the stage is incomparable and you can’t bravely rush to the stage and when you really stand on the stage, everything feels like Paper tiger, all difficulties are set in our own hearts.

For 18 years, there has been a live wire binding us in our hearts and we dare not move forward. But will we continue to be bound? When will we set off? No, let us break through the inner fire line together and bravely rush to the other side of our dreams!

? There are many difficulties in life, but we can all solve them. Don't set limits for yourself easily or give yourself psychological hints.

Thanks Viagra ?. Wei Ge, your passion and positive energy make me full of passion and motivation when I go to class every day. Every class and every activity of Wei Ge is done with care, so that I can learn in practice and grow my thinking and thinking in games. The pattern is constantly being improved. The unique teaching method has made me gain a lot. Wei Ge is really awesome. Thank you for your hard work. Mei Ge is my idol. Thank you Wei Ge.

Thank you, Sister Jialing?. The story of Sister Jialing’s transformation gave me a lot of motivation. His transformation told me that college should plan reasonably instead of blindly working hard. During the past few days of participating in the training camp, I cared about us every day and paid attention to our daily situation. Every detail goes deep into every detail.

Thank you to every teacher who came to share. We are very grateful to them for taking time out of their busy schedules to give us sharing lectures. It not only enriched my knowledge, but also enlightened my mind. My thinking pattern has changed a lot. Thank you teachers.

Thank you, Sister Jiaxin?. Sister Jiaxin must have had a deep understanding of us before we started because we were working. After I introduced myself, I could immediately remember what we were doing. I can imagine that Sister Jiaxin must be a dedicated teaching assistant. Sister Jiaxin does what we do for us every day. Record, record every bit of our growth, encourage us to stand on the stage bravely every time, encourage us to break through ourselves, be very responsible and take good care of us every day, thank you, Sister Jiaxin

Thank you to everyone A teaching assistant and lecturers have arranged everything for us in advance to serve our life and study. Your silent efforts have brought us never say anything, but you are our leaders. And this event is great, you are all the best, thank you!

Thanks to every friend in a group, we are fighting for the championship group every day. Everyone uses their own actions to add points to our group. Although we lost to the championship group by a narrow score, In my heart we are already the championship group, and everyone in our group is the best.

Thank you to every friend I met in Fenma. Every time you share, I feel that I have found many like-minded people and I have found my circle. Your efforts and motivation have created a good learning atmosphere. This event is inseparable from every friend of Fenma. Let's keep working hard and see you at the top.

Thanks to Fenma, Fenma provides us with a good platform and a good opportunity, allowing me to grow and transform.

1. Set a clear goal and look at it every day.

2. Learn to speak. Practice speaking including gestures, movements, rhythm, sounds, etc., and implement every aspect.

3 Reading, reading can broaden your horizons and improve your cognition. Keep reading for two hours a day, and slowly increase it.

4. Summary every day, review the day's gains and today's shortcomings, and make correction plans.

5 Set a role model and learn from her.

Finally, I would like to thank you in front of the screen for your patience in reading my sharing. What I share is my truest thoughts during these five days and four nights. My growth and transformation are just one of Fenma’s friends. If you want to experience growth and transformation in person and more truly (because after all, experience is king), if you are not willing to be ordinary, if you want to change, if you want to improve your thinking pattern, then join Fenma! Fenma will give you a feeling of rebirth and allow you to become an excellent version of yourself.

I believe these five days and four nights are just the beginning, and there will be more opportunities to grow and transform in the future.