The doctor's mother's "wonderful" way of bringing a baby makes the child a "little prodigy", which is admirable.

I grew up with my best friend. Her home is next door to mine. She belongs to that kind of "other people's children" since she was a child. Every exam is either the first or the second in the class. Teachers praised her for her outstanding talent and promising future.

Relying on her own talent and hard work, she was successfully admitted to the top 3 universities in China, and persisted in studying for a doctorate all the way, becoming the only female doctoral student in our town. In the eyes of the villagers, she will either be a big official or a scientist in the future.

But what many people didn't expect was that after reading the blog, she chose to marry her classmates and be a full-time mother with peace of mind.

Many people are puzzled by her choice and think that she has completely wasted more than ten years of studying hard at the cold window. I once asked her what she thought because of this question. Unexpectedly, she simply said, "Everyone has something he wants to do. The reason why I read a PhD is to do what he wants to do. "

However, bringing a baby is not an easy task, especially in the eyes of her mother-in-law. It is a complete waste of "talent" for an open doctoral student not to go out and make a lot of money and take care of the baby at home.

So her mother-in-law doesn't like her anywhere, especially after seeing some "wonderful" educational methods of my best friend, her mother-in-law thinks she is doing nothing.

The "wonderful" way that doctors and mothers take care of their babies makes their mother-in-law dissatisfied and thinks it is inaction.

As a result, the child was cultivated into a "little prodigy", which made people admire.

In the eyes of many people, for a female doctor like my best friend, bringing a baby is definitely a very "high-end" way, either teaching the baby all kinds of subject knowledge or giving the baby various early education classes.

To the surprise of many people, the girlfriend's baby is free-range. Not only did I not give my children early education classes, but I also bought many stickers for them to play with.

My mother-in-law is even more dissatisfied with this and often complains to her that children of the same age in the community are already learning abacus and drawing. Only her own children play with stickers all day, and her mother-in-law has quarreled with her for this. The relationship was once very stiff, and some good neighbors in the community also talked about it and began to question the way my best friend took care of the baby.

Children become prodigies in the class after entering school, and the credit behind them is actually stickers.

Fortunately, girlfriends don't care about other people's opinions, and they still bring their children according to their own policy of bringing children.

A year has passed quickly, and it's time for children to go to kindergarten. My best friend sent the children to the kindergarten near the community. Unexpectedly, just one month after the start of school, the teacher praised my best friend's child in the contact group at home and school. He was very serious in kindergarten and knew a lot. He completed the tasks assigned by the teacher faster than other students, just like a child prodigy. Children in kindergarten like to play with him.

The teacher's praise surprised the neighbors in the parents' group, thinking that her children didn't enroll in the early education class? How can it be better than the children in my early childhood classes? Is there really such a thing as a gene?

I was also curious about this, so I asked my best friend what tricks she played with the baby. Unexpectedly, she smiled and said, "What's the trick? They are all attached to play! "

At first, after listening to my best friend's words, I still looked incredulous, thinking that she was just joking. After all, how can you cultivate a child prodigy by playing with stickers?

But after listening to her patient explanation, I believe that playing with stickers has so many benefits for children.

Many children's poor grades are not because he is stupid, but because he is not focused enough, especially four or five-year-old children. When attending classes in kindergarten, I often get distracted, which seriously affects the learning effect.

By playing with sticker books, children's concentration can be improved, because in the process of playing with sticker books, children need to find the corresponding graphics in the books, and then carefully aim the stickers at them. In this process, children not only need their hands and eyes, but also need their full attention. Over time, children's concentration and observation will naturally be brought up.

Moreover, children's thinking ability and observation ability are gradually improved in the process of playing, because the patterns of stickers need to be matched one by one to be completely matched. Therefore, this process requires great concentration and careful observation to complete.

In addition, when children play with stickers, they need to constantly think, compare and observe the patterns of the stickers in order to find the correct position of the stickers, and their memory has been improved invisibly.

For example, there are many patterns of different shapes in the sticker book, including animals, plants and graphics, and the number and shape are different. When you play with them, you will know a lot of animals, fruits and graphics, and your cognitive level will also improve.

After listening to my best friend's explanation, I also came up with the idea of buying a sticker book for my children, but I don't know how to choose. After all, there are too many kinds of sticker books on the market.

My best friend saw my worry. She said that books are not expensive, but the best ones are suitable for children. This set of stickers is compiled by a professional parenting team, which can effectively develop children's intelligence and let children exercise their hands-on ability, analytical ability, thinking ability and creative ability in play.

It is different from the traditional sticker book. It is divided into 16 parts and contains more than 3000 stickers. It includes not only common life knowledge and fairy tales, but also language training and math training, so that children can solve practical problems in the process of mapping, thus subtly improving their abilities.

After I bought this set of stickers for my children, the biggest feeling is that the children have become "quiet" a lot, sitting on the sofa and playing with stickers honestly, not as noisy as before.

However, to my surprise, about two months after I bought this set of books, my child won a certificate of "good baby" in kindergarten, and the kindergarten teacher also praised my good education, saying that my child not only knows more than other children, but also pays attention to class.

At present, this set of sticker books is doing activities, and 16 can be bought in less than 50 yuan, and each one is about 3 yuan, which is very cost-effective. You can let children play until they are 5 years old and give them a chance to improve their attention. Parents are advised to start with a set.