Chen Peng's dream interpretation: How can you have a spring dream when your lover is lying beside you?

Spring dream is a thing that makes people's heart beat faster for everyone who dreams. What they saw and experienced in their dreams were wonderful and unexpected. But for Mr. Zhang, this is not good. Mr. Zhang, 32, said: "I am married and have a good relationship with my wife. I've been having spring dreams recently. What's wrong? "

The word "spring dream" is not enough to explain the specific content, and it is necessary to understand the truth of dreams. One of Mr. Zhang's spring dreams is like this.

"I dreamed that my wife's girlfriend and I walked into the hotel hand in hand, and naturally went to bed, and naturally made love together." Wet dream phenomenon after waking up. Spring dreams are made every half month. It's been going on for months.

All dreams have a reason, and so do spring dreams.

What kind of people have spring dreams? It seems that someone has never had a sexual dream. Of course, there won't be one after puberty.

When we are still young, including when we are single, we always have certain expectations for spring dreams, because at a certain stage, spring dreams will begin, people will become more impulsive and feel strange when they see the opposite sex. If you are watched by the opposite sex for a long time, you will feel strange.

Why? Chen Peng's dream interpretation tells you that this is the relationship between pheromones. When a person's sex hormones accumulate to a certain stage, pheromones, or pheromones, will be particularly rampant. Will be particularly sensitive to the opposite sex, will be particularly sensitive to their own sexual characteristics, if this time that men are "sperm brain", then women are "particularly coquettish" stage, without him, pheromones lead.

When you are psychologically sensitive to the opposite sex and your own sexual characteristics, spring dreams are easy to come. Therefore, the first reason that will lead to spring dreams is caused by physiological needs! Common in the period of sexual repression, what is sexual repression is the period of sexual insufficiency. At this time, if there are some information related to the opposite sex, it is easy to have spring dreams. Wet dream phenomenon often appears in men's spring dreams.

Is it necessary to accumulate sex hormones to cause sensitivity to the opposite sex? That's not true. There are also some people who show a special desire for sex, such as sexual hunger. Here, some people are healthy because of sexual curiosity or physical function, while others are unhealthy because of excessive sexual desire caused by endocrine disorders, nervous system diseases, or imbalance of kidney qi and yin and yang.

This situation will make you sensitive to the opposite sex during the day and have frequent spring dreams at night. The unhealthy body, especially the imbalance of kidney yin and yang, and the frequent and tragic results of spring dreams caused by kidney deficiency will lead to death. This is the case with Gary's death in A Dream of Red Mansions. Gary secretly loves Wang Xifeng, who teases him again and again, and even makes people throw shit at him. Even so, Gary is obsessed with Wang Xifeng. Later, he finally got lovesick and became seriously ill. After passing by, this lame old road taught Gary's grandfather Jia Dairu a romantic lesson and told him to look in front of the mirror. Unexpectedly, there was a skeleton in front of the mirror. Gary was so scared that he took a picture behind the mirror. I didn't expect Feng to be in the mirror, and Jia Rui entered the mirror without thinking (dreaming) and had sex with Feng. After each time, he left a pool of essence, and then he finally died. Wet dream's death is not uncommon.

These two don't fit Mr. Zhang's dream. Because Mr. Zhang looks good and healthy.

Because wet dream involves Mr. Zhang's sexual dream, this is the reason why Mr. Zhang is very upset, because his family, like most families, is a woman, that is, his wife is taking care of clothes. There must be something hidden here. At the age of 32, it is normal for him to have a spring dream. The so-called husband and wife have a good relationship. Living together and then wet dream is not normal.

Chen Pengmeng asked him a question directly.

"You have sex less than twice a week."

Mr. Zhang looked embarrassed and said, "Once a month."

"Did your wife start to enter this frequency after she got pregnant?"

"yes."

I have the answer.

The lack of sexual life and good quality of life and diet lead to normal physiological needs.

Why do many couples have problems after pregnancy?

After pregnancy, a woman's body changes greatly. Due to physiological reasons, they will have personality changes and become anxious and suspicious. Because of the need of child-rearing, there is less and less physical and mental communication between husband and wife, especially in 1 ~ 2 years after delivery, too many parturients languish for their children, and the organ disharmony caused by childbirth is increasingly rejecting the husband and wife's life because of the lack of effective communication. Mr. Zhang said that the relationship between husband and wife is still good, because he provides sufficient financial support to his family every month and goes home every day. Every day when he comes back, he will play with the children and help with his studies. "Dreams are more real than people say!" In Mr. Zhang's spring dream, he reached out to his lover's best friend and his female colleagues, except his wife. Psychologically, he is still thinking about this family and maintaining it. The physiological needs are not met, but in the dream, I find other women I can meet in my daily life to release.

In essence, the physical and mental communication between husband and wife is still problematic. If there is a problem, it must be solved. Therefore, I gave Mr. Zhang a lot of advice on dream interpretation. Professional dream interpretation has achieved the function of solving problems.

There are other reasons why a lover will dream of spring when he is lying beside him, because dreaming of spring is not only for release, but also for quality. For example, a couple who are used to fighting in the bedroom, one of them will dream of fighting with her husband on the balcony, which is caused by the subconscious demand for environmental changes. There is a woman's spring dream, colorful and well-equipped, but she has a boring old pedant husband who regards sex as an obligation, but it is only an obligation, and it is completed without any skills and foreplay. This spring dream is caused by the subconscious demand for technology.

My lover is lying beside me, still dreaming of spring, romantic. When I wake up and look at the people next to me, my heart is not so calm, and the signal of marriage crisis is obvious.