How humble is it to be a nanny in someone else's house?

My sister-in-law worked as a nanny, and came back less than half a month later, saying that she couldn't stand that anger.

Xiao Yan said, "You are not allowed to serve dinner. I cooked the food and set it on the table, cooked it for the three of them, and then made myself a bowl of rice. When I sat down to eat, my female employer woke me up and said that I couldn't eat until they were full. I can only wait by the side, feed them from time to time, make soup for them from time to time, and finally eat what they have left in the kitchen. "

"and their children, her mother spoiled her, and she couldn't listen to her crying, and she had a big temper. Once I helped her take a bath, she wanted to play with toys. I was afraid that she would catch cold after playing for a long time, so I told her not to play, and I would help her clean up first. But the child was so stubborn that she just wouldn't listen to me. I directly raised her hand to wash her crunch nest and accidentally dropped her toy. She stood up and slapped me in the face. A four-year-old girl slapped me. Who can stand this anger? "

From my aunt's narrative, I really feel that she is wronged. She eats the leftovers from her host's family and gives the little girl a bath with kindness, fearing that she will be slapped if she catches cold. However, despite the aura of family, I don't think my aunt is innocent.

As far as eating leftovers is concerned, Xiao Yan, as a nanny, should consciously not go to the employer's table to eat. After cooking, she can type out what she wants to eat and put it in the kitchen. First, put yourself in the right position. Going to the employer's house is to be a nanny, not a guest. Not only do I feel aggrieved that I can't eat at the table, but I feel that it is easier to eat alone in the kitchen.

If we eat at the same table as our employer, we will be afraid that people will dislike our big appetite if we eat too much. If we eat too little, we will have no energy to work, and if we like food, we will be afraid of robbing our employer. It is more free to eat alone, and we don't have to worry about whether our eating will affect them, let alone what table manners our employers have that we don't understand.

As for the little girl, her own mother likes to spoil her, but she doesn't like to make her children cry. As a nanny, we just do what the employer wants. You can add some hot water if you are afraid that the little girl will catch cold. Why do you go against a little girl with a big temper? In the end, I ended up in a thankless situation. I was well-intentioned and afraid that she would catch cold and was slapped. I was also deducted from my employer's heart, which was not worth the candle.

People who feel humbled by being a nanny in other people's homes are not in their proper position. They work in other people's homes, not as guests. Even if they work in other places, the boss will make various demands on us. Working as a waiter in a restaurant is also about filling meals and making soup for guests. Why can't you go to someone's house to be a nanny?

Working in a factory is also managed, which requires discipline, as well as the quality and quantity of the products you make. As long as you know that you are here to work, the boss has the money to give it, and you don't have to care so much about the rest.

if you do your own thing well and suit your employer's wishes, they will treat you well, for fear that you won't continue to help them. After all, for employers, it is not easy to find a nanny who is willing to do things well.

Let me answer this question, (I write in the first person, I, it seems that the article is closer)

How humble it is to be a nanny in someone else's house. It's hard to say this question. I'm a nanny. I want to do what a nanny should do for my host! I wrote it when I hired a job.

My job is to take care of a two-year-old female corpse, which I take care of by myself during the day and her parents take care of it at night, cleaning and cooking. They don't eat at home during the day and come back for dinner at night, and her parents take care of it when I cook.

working hours start at 8 o'clock in the morning, and I live in their house until 8 o'clock in the evening, with a salary of 4, yuan! I don't think I'm humble at all. They respect me very much. I take care of the children, do a good job in hygiene and food. They all praised me for my aunt's delicious cooking.

I'm fine in their house, living in a foreign building and taking a luxury car. They also take me on a trip, and I'm not humble at all.

when you work in other people's homes, you should do your own thing well, and others pay you such a high salary. More importantly, keep it a secret for your family. You can't tell anyone about your family. Do this well, you are not humble in other people's homes. Nanny should give herself dignity! Just do your job well, and you don't care about anything.

there's nothing humble about being a nanny in someone else's house! I give myself dignity and do what I do! Do not leave. Everyone is equal.

My former aunt went to work in a family a few months ago. Here are some things that happened to her.

once when I went to have my teeth planted, the dental clinic gave me a place where an accompanying person could have a dental cleaning. I asked my aunt if she wanted to go, and she was very happy, because she always wanted to experience dental cleaning. But when she went to her employer's house for leave, the family told her that if she went, she had to have a nucleic acid test before coming back. My aunt said that she didn't go to the hospital but the dental clinic, but the other party said that it was no good, and finally the matter had to be abandoned.

Recently, my aunt accidentally broke a cup in that house, and the other party directly gave her a link, telling her that the price of the cup was 8 yuan, which would be deducted from her salary. My aunt was very angry and felt that it was too impersonal. The cup was used, and at least a discount should be given. When she told her this idea, the other party was furious and finally ended up with her resignation.

When my aunt did it in that family, the other party scolded her almost every day for something she didn't do well, but because she did it every day for five hours at a time, she still earned a lot of money, so she kept putting up with it for months. This cup thing is probably too painful.

When the agency introduced this employer, it charged 12 yuan for the introduction fee, plus 8 yuan for the cup compensation. These two expenses still account for a lot of income in recent months.

humble what? Take your own physical strength and time to earn relative wages, justified, and don't steal or rob, upright. It's just that some employers have different qualities, but think about it, it's normal to be wronged if you earn money from others, as long as you don't push it to the bottom line. To tell the truth, which line of work is not wronged now? Just want to drive. After all, they grew up in different cultural backgrounds and have different views on things. Sometimes it is enough to understand each other. If you feel wronged, don't work here and prove that there is no fate. Just find a suitable employer and keep working. After all, if you treat others sincerely, you will be rewarded.

I don't think it's humble to be a nanny. I get paid by my own work. My mother hired a nanny to take care of two old people. This year, my mother fell and couldn't take care of herself. Although I have a nanny to take care of me, I go to my mother's house every day to help me change my medicine and cook lunch. I am polite to the nanny, for fear that others will quit. Now it is hard to find a nanny who is kind to the elderly. The income of the nanny is higher than that of some working young people. What's so humble about being a nanny? Nowadays, many nannies earn more than those who work in high-end office buildings. < P > My cousin, who graduated from a 211 university majoring in nursing, is now working as a nanny in a rich family with a monthly salary of 2K+. Does she feel inferior? She is radiant every day and walks with wind. When relatives and friends ask about her career, she never feels inferior, but she confidently tells others about her daily work.

Before becoming a nanny, my cousin worked as a nurse in a private hospital in a first-tier city, but later she resigned because of the low salary and many things. Later, under the introduction of a friend, she came to the present employer's house to be a nanny. Of course, this is no ordinary nanny. Besides three meals a day, she needs a balanced nutrition, and she also takes care of her body and reads newspapers with her, because the employer is a 7-year-old woman. Just retired from the position of chairman of a large company, so I pay more attention to food, clothing, housing and transportation, so I have higher requirements for nannies, and my salary is considerable. The most important thing is that the old lady is living alone now, and everything else is fine except for being picky about food, so my cousin is very happy here. The old lady also likes her cousin very much, and she doesn't treat her as an ordinary nanny, but as a granddaughter. Every year, holiday red envelopes and birthday red envelopes are a must.

So no matter what profession, as long as it can create value and does not steal or rob, there is no need to feel inferior. Compared with those who wear glamorous clothes and go in and out of high-end restaurants, they actually live in dilapidated rental houses and eat instant noodles every night. This vain person should feel inferior.

I'm also a domestic worker. At first, I felt inferior, and I gradually got used to it. It's not easy to see sisters from all over the world coming out to break in. It's just that this broken silver has ensured our group's life. Parents are no longer worried about No Country for Old Men, and children are not afraid of lack of clothes and food.

nannies are uneven, and so are clients. Money does not mean quality, and capitalists are not all good people.

In fact, no matter what kind of work is smooth sailing, don't worry about humility, don't compare with others, and you will never feel inferior if you live in a circle that suits you.

coordinates are unsealed! I remember a friend of my mother's in Kaifeng's richest man's house. Let's call her Aunt Liu.

ten years ago, I worked as a nanny in a family in Shanghai for five years. Both employers and employees belong to the elite in the workplace! Aunt Liu has worked here for five years, cooking and taking care of the children. In Shanghai, this kind of family is generally fastidious and picky. Fortunately, the employer and his wife are very good, and Liu Yi is also diligent and eager to learn. The employer also praises Liu Yi! After working for five years, I quit my job and returned to Kaifeng because I had to go home to take care of my grandson. Although the employer was extremely reluctant, there was nothing he could do. I bought a lot of gifts for aunt Liu before I left, and I also gave thousands of dollars more! After I came back, I also taught my mother a few Shanghai dishes I learned. Aunt Liu taught my mother chicken feet with pickled peppers.

After returning to Kaifeng for two years, the child was a little older, so Aunt Liu thought she had to find something to do. After being introduced, I still started my old job! Before I went, I said to my mother, "Someone introduced a job or worked as a nanny. The salary can be said to be far beyond the salary standard of the local nanny industry. That is, the object of service is an 8-year-old lady, which is a bit embarrassing! " My mother said that you have worked in a big city like Shanghai, not to mention our job here. Can she be more particular than Shanghai? Aunt Liu thinks it's quite right. She's not lazy, and she cooks delicious food. She can't cope with anything. Then I went to my employer's house the next day ...

A few days later, Aunt Liu went to see my mother. After meeting, I asked Aunt Liu if it was a day off. Aunt Liu was so angry that she said, "Forget it, quit", which made me quite puzzled!

It turns out that the employer's house that Aunt Liu went to the next day was a villa in the "North and South Eighty Courtyards" in Kaifeng. In front of the courtyard are Tianbo yangfu and Long Ting, behind the courtyard is Longevity Mountain Park, and to the west is Pullman Jianye five-star hotel. It belongs to the first batch of high-grade villas in Kaifeng city! The employer is Mr. H, the boss of Jianye Group-my mother! [covering her face]

I said yes, Aunt Liu, and she got into the circle of the richest man in Kaifeng. Ha ha! Aunt Liu cursed and said, "This wife is really hard to serve. I didn't know that I was the fourth nanny that week until I went there." The other three most ran after half a day! H always knew that his mother had a bad temper, so she was paid a high salary. And it took two nannies to cook and clean, so I still can't keep anyone. "I said that she has a good temper and she can't finish it. People are a little stubborn when they are old, not to mention people are so rich! I didn't know until I heard Liu Yi finish. This wife didn't mean to have a bad temper. But as long as you swear before you speak! In the morning, I came together to scold the nanny Liu Yi for eating too much, or "Damn B, this place is dragging on" or "I'm here to earn money from my family again" or "What kind of food is this made by Niang Na B". Scold Liu Yi, another nanny, for being as slow as an old turtle. Washing clothes is too much water, cooking is too much meat, and hygiene is too dirty. The nanny took a break and said that she had raised idle people! Haha, anyway, getting up every day is all kinds of difficulties and curses, from morning till night! After working for a few days, Liu Yi really can't get along, so leave now and quit!

aunt Liu also lamented: once this person has money, he really has a lot of things to do, and I can't afford to wait on B.

It's not humble at all. A competent and kind nanny is very precious. Now, with the pressure of life and the advent of an aging society, it is rare to find a responsible and caring nanny to take care of the elderly and children. Moreover, there are still many high-quality people, and there are only a few people who discriminate against nannies. It's not humble to work hard and get paid to be a nanny!

I'm not humble. I earn money by my own ability, and I don't steal or rob it. No matter what I do, I have to put my mind right. I also work at home. If my employer looks down on me or makes things difficult for me and leaves directly, I work hard to earn money, and I feel like a live-in nanny.