My wife and I have been married for eight years and have two children, a man and a woman. She has been working as a cashier at the front desk of the hotel for the past two years, and I opened a shop t

My wife and I have been married for eight years and have two children, a man and a woman. She has been working as a cashier at the front desk of the hotel for the past two years, and I opened a shop to do some small business. Life has entered a severe period. Let's sit down and talk. First, let's see if we can live according to the principle of thinking for our children. Second, find out the reason for changing wives, whether it is inner emptiness or not doing well enough. Think more about her goodness. Change does not happen overnight, but over time. We must find out the problems before we can have countermeasures and solutions. Third, the concept of daughter-in-law being beaten is not feasible. The daughter-in-law who was beaten took it orally, and the daughter-in-law who was in pain was convinced; Apologize to your daughter-in-law and explain your recent feelings; Fourth, if it is inevitable, there is no need to keep it too much. It's still a long time, so it's good to be together. It's not impossible to think more about children. Sometimes it is not impossible to separate properly, so that the impulsive party has time to calm down; Divorce can be negotiated after separation for one or two years, but it is only a formality. If she and you are calm when they are separated, it will not only reduce the workload of the Civil Affairs Bureau, but also save each other a lot of trouble.