Girls go to their boyfriends' houses and stay in hotels.

Live at home if you can, and go to the hotel if you have no place to sleep.

Girl, it's your first time at home. You should keep your self-esteem and image. Sleeping alone or with male and female relatives, in my opinion, is the only correct choice! Even if the relationship was very close before, you should consider yourself for the first time. Not hypocritical, not melodramatic. In China, where social civilization and ideas are updated, there are still requirements for girls.

The man's family is satisfied with you, the situation is urgent and the living conditions are bad. When you come to the door for the first time, you should be neither humble nor supercilious. As the saying goes, self-esteem is given by yourself!

Put yourself in others' shoes. If the man has a daughter and your boyfriend has a sister, she doesn't care if she goes to her boyfriend's house for the first time. No criticism, just pretend I didn't say anything!

The first time a girlfriend goes to live in a man's house, she can see how the man's house is decorated first. I stayed at my husband's house for the first time before marriage because we came back late from taking wedding photos in other places. We arrived at the county seat at 1 am, and our in-laws met us at the station and went back to his house for dinner. I said I wanted to stay in a hotel. Although I'm getting married in another month, I still don't think it's appropriate to live in their house.

My mother-in-law said that I was worried about living alone outside and was going to have a good room on the second floor (building my own house). There are three rooms on the second floor, and my husband and I are not arranged together. At that time, I felt very considerate and grateful to my mother-in-law for respecting me and not letting me live in a room with my husband privately.

If the man has nothing to say at home, even if some family space is small, you and your boyfriend have to share a room. After all, you are willing to live in his house, so be prepared for what will happen. We are all adults, there is no need to hide what we said.

But I still advise girls not to go to the man's house before marriage. Although the society is open now, many people don't care, but it will definitely get more points than girls who live in the man's house for a long time before marriage. Of course, I don't mean to discriminate or insult. After all, personal circumstances are different, but we just stick to the tradition in China.