What will it be like for a boy to work in a unit where almost all female colleagues work?

This question reminds me of my buddy's first job after graduating from college: foreign trade salesman.

There are 20 people in the company, plus the boss, and there are 4 gay men, which basically meets the meaning of the question ~ My buddy has worked in that company for more than a year and spent all day in the legendary powder pile.

The biggest experience is: chaos.

It is said that three women, more than a dozen women, especially the life after 1995 to 1960, can be described in one word: the Manchu-Chinese banquet.

This group of people are talking about their parents' shortcomings in the office, whose children don't study well, whose girls break up, whose old people become demons, where to play during holidays, which to buy, what to eat in the morning, what to eat at noon, where to eat at night, who to eat with, when to eat and what to do after eating.

If what is said in class is the shortcomings of parents, then it is intrigue after work. There was a shuttle bus to and from work. The shuttle bus is a special vehicle for running business in the company, which is used to shuttle employees to and from work.

Once or twice, basically every train is full of fixed people, plus drivers. Commuting by bus is boring, especially when there is traffic jam. People in the class, who don't go to work, just get off work, work overtime, who is superficial and behind, how many orders have been opened this month and how much money has been earned, who is really a nobody, stay away from her. . . Listen, man, that's a cold sweat. I don't know how to interrupt. .

The second experience, perfume.

It will be more real when it comes out, ha. A bunch of all kinds of lesbians, all kinds of perfume, mixed perfume is all over the house from the morning when I enter the office, especially after the temperature rises, I can smell it in the corridor. . . .

It's really boring I have worked in such a unit. It lasted for four years. This unit is a hotel, which specializes in night shift. It works at night, from 4 pm to 1 p.m. Why do you say our job is mainly to serve the ballroom? We call it a day, the guests are gone, and our job is to serve the kitchen and ballroom.

*** 10 people, only I am a man, working as a chef,: The other nine are female employees, few are married, and many are unmarried. In this unit with many boys and girls, there is no problem at work. The biggest problem is that after eight hours, nine female employees are divided into three factions, which is really a tripartite confrontation. When eating, three tables sit down, and when resting, they are divided into three groups.

The boss also came to mediate, but failed. Nobody wants to be a foreman here. I sat at your table at dinner, and the beautiful women at those two tables sarcastically said that someone was cheating. When I went to that table for dinner, I should say that someone was cheating, which was very ugly. How can such a work unit steal quickly? How can we unite? But fortunately, this group of people invited me to have a snack tonight, and another group of people invited me to have a snack tomorrow night. I never need to pay the bill, and I never worry about supper. They treat each other in turn, but they don't eat for free. All the heavy and dirty work is mine. Even the local beauty invited me to cook, and of course I got a big red envelope, usually about 200 yuan for ten seats.

Not bad either. Finally, a married female employee secretly called me and added me to WeChat to make friends with me. God knows, I don't know, there are three * * *, all of which are single-line contacts. Like today's underground activities, it is also as mysterious as a thief. It's very exciting, and sometimes they feel nervous. Anyway, I don't like the unit with more women and fewer men, and I don't like the work with more women and fewer men. This is my solid conclusion!

I have had such an experience, which is really "cool"!

I used to work in a company. All my departments are female colleagues except one male colleague.

Because I am a little handsome, many lesbians flirt with me every day. I am shy and often blush. Sometimes I hear them say indecent things and really want to find a place to sneak in.

In addition, what makes me even more embarrassed is that there are several beautiful women in these lesbian affairs. They often go with me, alas! Don't mention how sad I was. I was thinking, I'm just a bee who doesn't know how to collect honey. Faced with so many beautiful flowers, I don't know what to do.

More importantly, I am often invited to eat and watch movies. Don't mention how cool this day is!

The only thing that makes me dissatisfied is that I often do manual work, such as express delivery and moving tables. I don't want to do it, but every time I hear my sister's left brother and another brother shouting, I can't stand it, I can only grieve myself.

Having said that, I just want to make it clear that you must not swim around in the flowers, because the flowers are full of thorns. Ha ha!

This problem is quite prominent in some departments of the hospital, especially in internal medicine. In the case that most of them are female nurses and doctors, male doctors become rare animals with few women.

Some male doctors are more popular, while others are more annoying. There are also many people who think that male doctors are like bees entering a honey hole, but they are not necessarily. So let me talk about my sister, the male doctor in her department.

I divide it into popular and annoying.

Let's start with the annoying male doctor.

Whether it's popular or annoying. This has little to do with age.

Male doctors who are usually hated have the following categories.

Irresponsible, muddleheaded, look down on female doctors and nurses, stingy.

Irresponsible, muddleheaded: some doctors say one thing in front of patients and another in front of others, leading to contradictions, and then others do it. Or sometimes the promise is good, and then he turns his head and doesn't accept it.

Look down on female doctors and nurses;

There are quite a few of these medicines. For female doctors, he thinks that women should take care of their children at home or women are not suitable to be doctors, which is a heavy workload. For a female nurse, he will think that anyone can do such a simple job. You nurses also feel that you have a high degree, and don't think it's just a job like a nurse.

Cheap, not to mention stingy. Usually doctors and nurses are on duty together, during meals. Some doctors like to come to the nurse station to persuade the nurse to have dinner and snacks, and let him invite him back. Every time he promised well, he ran away every time. Sometimes on holidays, everyone will go to AA to raise money to celebrate. He has nothing to give, but he has something to get.

Next, the popular male doctor.

Good attitude, sweet mouth.

These male doctors are just the opposite of the above, and some of them are sincere although they are not very skilled. "Sister, teacher" is not listening, and her mouth is very sweet. It would be great to meet those skilled male doctors.

Some old-school directors have great respect for female medical workers and are very gentlemen.

In fact, most of the popular male doctors now have strong communication skills and know how to empathize, which is very popular among female medical staff.

In fact, in the workplace, whether men or women, as long as they can think more about each other and use gentle language, they are actually quite popular, and there is no difference between men and women.

For male employees, female employees are in the majority. When they enter public places for the first time, they feel like entering flowers. In fact, it doesn't make much difference after a long time.

But sometimes working with men may have different communication methods and working methods, and it will be easy to get used to it after a long time.

Cool, I'm a woman. Where I work, real estate sales are just more men than women. That feeling is the same as a job with more men and fewer women. Whoever has a small proportion is more popular. At that time, the factory was full of women, 95 women, 100 people and 5 men, two of whom were married.

So working in a company with many girls, first of all, you don't have to worry about personal problems. If you are handsome, there will be many girls chasing you. Even if you are ugly, you can take the initiative to chase girls, and beautiful ones can catch up.

At that time, there was a beautiful girl in my workshop with two dimples. She was chased by the short and yellow male employee who was still awake. It only took half a month to catch up. Can you imagine that speed? This is not experienced in companies with equal proportions of men and women.

Also, you will have a sense of superiority. Most men feel inferior in companies with many men. After all, same-sex people like comparison. You are a national treasure in a company with a majority of women. Maybe there will be women fighting for you (I've seen that man get married, awesome). Over time, you will feel attractive and confident.

Therefore, if you want to find a wife, you can try to work in an electronics factory in Shenzhen. It's easy to find a girlfriend, but the salary is relatively low. If you find it, just resign and change jobs.

You may be too happy to sleep when you just apply for such a unit! I'm afraid you may be unhappy after you really go to work for a while.

I have a cousin who works in a bank branch. There are a dozen or twenty people in the team, only one boy. I once teased him and said, "Isn't it very happy to be a green leaf in such a flower?"

My cousin said with a wry smile, "How dare you say that you are unhappy? Otherwise, you will say that I don't know if I am blessed! "

I listened to his story with great interest, and I want to share it with you in combination with this topic.

My cousin said that he has worked in a bank for more than two years. Besides clients, he spends all day with his female colleagues, and some of his original hobbies will be assimilated!

For example, female colleagues at work like to enjoy flowers at activities, but my cousin doesn't like it at all, but there is no way. A big man's voice is so weak that his suggestion of climbing the mountain has long been drowned out. So I went to see the flowers, and the frequency increased. I don't like looking at flowers, but I gradually learned to spend.

Once I went to a class reunion and talked about plants, my cousin subconsciously introduced the types of flowers to several male students, which scared them. When did this 1.8 meter man become so literary?

For example, a female colleague loves to drink milk tea and intentionally or unintentionally brings her cousin to drink together, so he gradually becomes a boy who loves to drink milk tea. Once I went to play basketball with him. When I was resting on the sidelines, my cousin invited me to drink milk tea, and everyone drank just right. ......

There are many such examples. My cousin said that some habits are unconsciously assimilated. More seriously, the way of speaking seems to be more like a girl's. It's terrible to think about it!

I also jokingly asked him, "There are many beautiful single girls in your bank. Why not find a girlfriend internally? "

My cousin smiled helplessly: "Brother, people have been with me for a long time and don't treat me like a human being!" You said I still have a chance! "

My cousin said that the working environment is similar to that of boys in Chinese class in high school. At that time, he was in a science class and always laughed at the sissies of boys in liberal arts classes. But now he has been assimilated into a "sissy" and is considering whether to change his job.

My cousin told me the second thing that bothered him was that his female colleagues always asked him for help.

He was really happy when he first started working in a bank. He wants to show a little masculinity, and he is almost responsive.

But then slowly he found himself falling into the pit! Because female colleagues everywhere ask him for help, they all regard him as a little brother who works!

First of all, the leader of the network, a middle-aged elder sister, always asks him to be a driver and bring information every time he goes out to drive.

The female leader said, who let you be the only boy in the network? Girls are not very good at driving, so it will be difficult for you to own a car. Anyway, the unit will subsidize your gas bill.

Secondly, familiar female colleagues will be asked to do trivial things, such as copying materials, ordering takeout, and even delivering breakfast!

My cousin is a bit flattering at ordinary times and doesn't know how to refuse others, so she has suffered too much and is used to it. When I asked, I poured out some of my inner grievances. Let me think about it. This young man is really not simple. It's really hard to mix among women!

My cousin is also very idealistic and wants to do something in the financial circle in the future.

But in an environment where all female colleagues participated, he found that others were not so hard in their careers. Apart from doing their job well, they seldom take the initiative to study. The content of the chat is either gossip news or women dressing up to buy clothes. He wants to talk about improving work skills or career development.

My cousin said that after working for more than two years, I almost forgot my original career goal. Some of them muddle along and work hard. I can't say that I didn't work hard, but I feel strong.

I can understand his thoughts, just like I usually have dinner with a few buddies, and the topics I talk about are all related to my career, but I can't talk about these topics with women when I attend a party at my wife's and my little sister's house.

I feel the same way, not to mention that my cousin is the environment where we get along every day.

I also advised him not to forget his initial heart and not to make excuses for himself. There is no such atmosphere of learning and communication during the day, and you can find new friends in your spare time. Let's work together.

Recently, my cousin said that he would be transferred to the superior branch office soon. I heard that there are many male colleagues there, all of whom are excellent predecessors. He is very much looking forward to the new working environment.

There are many female colleagues, which is both a good thing and a bad thing, but in the final analysis, it is how you position yourself and become the person you want to be.

The above are my thoughts and suggestions on this topic, hoping to help everyone.

I have had such an experience. Generally speaking, nothing. Just get used to it. Say a few thoughts and feelings.

There are many female colleagues around you, so don't make fun of them. Because you don't know if your jokes will affect others, after all, they are naturally willing to gossip.

Once I took the elevator upstairs and happened to meet a male leader and another female colleague.

When she came out, a female colleague said, "Well, Xiaoling and the beauty of our company are in a narrow space."

Me: "No, no, no, and leader X, I am a third wheel."

I was happy even if I spoke fluently, but everyone mistakenly thought that female colleagues and male leaders might be in love. For this matter, I solemnly apologize to them and solemnly declare that I am talking nonsense.

Many women are very talkative and love to brag.

This kind of boasting ability can really "see the needle".

A new employee has come to our company. Because I have been an exchange student abroad, I successfully said "study abroad for further study" when chatting with people.

The parties explained frequently, but the big sisters still looked serious and full of praise.

Many times, in fact, everyone is praised by female colleagues, with exaggerated elements and a lot of water, but it is still very comfortable. After all, everyone loves to hear good things.

I found that the vast majority of female colleagues, although they may have a lot of dissatisfaction and complain back and forth when taking on the task, are almost tolerant in the face of the public roar of the leaders.

After enduring it, I can still crustily skin of head and continue to lead the task.

Male employees may not be able to do this. If they feel unfair, they may refuse in public with their own "masculinity" or be passive.

Therefore, under the same circumstances, female employees can complain. But it is still controllable.

It is both your luck and your misfortune to meet a female leader at work.

Unfortunately, every job you do, he may ask for everything, even if many things are unnecessary.

Fortunately, getting along with her, no matter what mistakes you make in the future, it will be easy to pass.

Because female leaders are emotional, when you make a mistake, even if it is a serious mistake, you just have to "sell badly".

Maybe the female leader can scold you a few times, but in the handling of things, it must be influenced by emotional thinking.

To sum up, it's nothing special to have female colleagues around you. It's mainly about people's personality. After all, there are hundreds of people.

With respect and understanding, I think a lot of troubles can be avoided.

I'm Zi Ling Jr.

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I have the most say in this: my current work unit is not only a girl, when I was in college, there were 38 people in my class, and I was the only boy!

I majored in English in college, and I worked as a teacher's assistant to see the placement list. After a class, I found that there were only five boys in her class. At that time, I thought: there won't be only one boy in any class. I stared at the gender one by one, female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female female, my god, who is so unlucky? I looked at the name column, and it was my name!

They all laughed and said that I would never skip class again, which was almost true. The teacher didn't call my name in class, but just said, "Boys get up and answer the questions."

I was also famous in the same session (covering my face)