Why do women stick out their tongues when men and women kiss?

I believe many people will find a phenomenon, that is, girls are willing to stick out their tongues when kissing. In fact, many people don't know why girls are willing to stick out their tongues when kissing. There are a lot of things to pay attention to. This includes physical and psychological aspects. Physiologically speaking, sticking out your tongue during kissing actually helps increase pleasure. But judging from psychological research, being willing to stick out your tongue when kissing actually gives you a kind of spiritual satisfaction.

There are many ways to kiss.

I believe anyone who is in love knows that kissing is actually a very wonderful thing. And there are many ways to kiss, including a gentle kiss, a kiss on the nose, a kiss like a dragonfly touching water, and a passionate and affectionate tongue kiss. So sticking out your tongue when kissing is actually a type of tongue kiss. Generally speaking, if a girl takes the initiative to stick out her tongue, it means that this girl has very deep feelings for you and she wants to have a further relationship with you. develop.

According to research, if you kiss just briefly, it will not actually promote the relationship between two people. And kisses that are like a dragonfly usually only appear in the situation of good morning kiss or good night kiss. This is actually a perfunctory kiss. The reason why good morning kisses and good night kisses use this kind of quick kiss is either because you have to go out to work in the morning, or because you are anxious to go to bed at night. Therefore, these two situations are not suitable for intense tongue kissing to express your love.

If a girl is willing to take the initiative to stick out her tongue during a kiss, she is very satisfied with you.

In the relationship between the sexes, women are generally in a passive position. No matter what she does, she hopes that the man will take the initiative. This may be related to the reserved nature of women since ancient times. In ancient times, if a woman was too proactive, she would be considered unrestrained by others and would be taken out of the pig cage. Therefore, the traditional culture has actually placed great constraints on women's nature. It is only in recent years that women's status has continued to improve, so they have gradually gained more independence and the right to pursue love independently.

The continuous improvement of women’s status in society now actually gives women more freedom of choice. For example, women can take the initiative to choose their lover, or express their love for a man in their own unique ways. Of course, in many traditional areas, it is still considered a bad thing for women to be too proactive, and it is a very disadvantageous thing. But many developed cities no longer think so. They believe that boys and girls are equal and have the right to pursue love and choose love.

So generally, if a woman takes the initiative to stick out her tongue during a kiss, it must mean that the girl wants to know more about you. Another aspect shows that this girl's education or the city she lives in is a relatively developed city, so she has had the awareness of equality between men and women since she was a child. In other words, she has known since she was a child that what she wants can be achieved through her own efforts.

So from this aspect, I think if a girl takes the initiative to stick out her tongue when kissing a girl, it shows that the girl first has a very strong self-awareness, and she has a very strong awareness of equality between men and women. Heavy. This also shows from the side that the education this girl has received since childhood, or the education level of the city where she is located, is relatively developed and more advanced.

Girls mature earlier than boys

Many boys will be nervous when they kiss a girl for the first time. At this time, some girls will take the initiative to stick out their tongues to teach the boys. Come how to kiss. This is because women generally mature earlier than boys. Their physical development begins in junior high school, while men generally develop later than women. So this is why many girls understand love earlier and more maturely than boys.

If it is the first time for two people who are in love and have no kissing experience to kiss, it will definitely be the girl who sticks out her tongue more often. This is not because this girl knows a lot about the two genders, but because of an instinctive situation. As for why girls develop this instinct earlier than boys, I think there is no clear conclusion yet. But because society was a matriarchal society at the beginning, I think it may have something to do with it.

The origin of kissing

There are many different opinions about kissing people. The most important ones include the instinct theory, the theory of body differentiation consciousness, and the theory of human beings and customs. Legacy or consciousness theory. Different statements have corresponding evidence to support the establishment of the statement. Among them, I said that humans are actually a large mammal. In the beginning, the feeding method between mother and baby was through mouth-to-mouth feeding. So this is a way to express intimacy, but it evolved later into a way for men and women to express their love through kissing.

Body differentiation consciousness, or the theory of consciousness, actually originated in Europe. Their research shows that human kissing is an instinct of the body, or a behavior led by consciousness. In fact, I personally think it may be easier to understand if I say that any consciousness is driven by instinct. So I think no matter how strong your consciousness is, you still can't resist your instinctive impulse.

In fact, this is also the case in real life. Whether you are a man or a woman, if you see the other half that you like very much, you will definitely express your love for the other person through kissing. A feeling of affection. This actually has nothing to do with consciousness but a physiological impulse. When you see the other person, you want to express your love through kissing. So I think the current human kissing behavior is actually more due to instinct. of drive.

Based on what I said above, I think if a girl is willing to take the initiative to stick out her tongue when two people are kissing, there are actually two reasons. On the one hand, the reason is physical, and on the other hand, it is mental. The physiological reason is relatively simple, that is, she will have an instinctive physical reaction that prompts her to perform this behavior.

The mental reasons are much more complicated. It may be because she likes you more, or she wants to develop further with you, but in a word she is not. I don’t exclude further intimacy with you. In fact, this is very easy to understand. If a girl refuses to have an intimate relationship with you, how can she say that she wants to kiss you, let alone stick out her tongue during the kiss? So this situation usually happens when a girl is relatively satisfied with you.