Su Jian

This family has a daughter. Let her know the bottom line of life, so that she won't take detours in the future. Abide by the Body Bottom Line Once upon a time, there was a couple of college students in China who stayed in a hotel wearing school uniforms and carrying schoolbags. These two "ignorant" children simply don't realize what kind of bad influence their personal behavior will cause. When campus loans were rampant, many girls were very vain. In order to buy famous brands and take indecent photos to borrow money, they never thought about the adverse effects. In order to make themselves look more beautiful, many girls cut their faces and bodies for no reason, leaving inevitable disabilities and even losing their lives.

Loving your body is the most basic bottom line for loving yourself. We should make children understand that a brain and meaning are very important, and the surface is only extra points, and nothing else is certain. We should educate our children not to sell and hurt their bodies for anything or anyone. If a person doesn't even know how to cherish his own body, his future must be sad. Don't betray or hurt your body at any time, otherwise only regret will be left.

A girl who needs to know the bottom line of life is just a housewife after marriage, and she can take care of her family with her baby at home. Everything seems so simple. However, in the eighth year after marriage, her husband had an affair, so she had to turn a blind eye and was afraid to file for divorce. Because he has no financial resources, the two sides divorced, so she can't get custody of the two children, and the annual expenses of the two children are almost 65438+ tens of thousands of yuan. She couldn't afford to raise children or herself, and finally she chose to endure.

I hope my daughter will be happy in the future The first step is to let her learn to be independent. The road of life can't depend on everyone. Even after marriage, she should have the ability to earn money independently. But now many families believe in "raising rich women" and have a good relationship with their daughters, but they are reluctant to spoil them. This kind of support is not to educate children, but to hurt them.

Life is realistic and cruel. Cultivate your daughter into a flower in the greenhouse, pampered and pampered, and the pain is unbearable. When she got rid of the greenhouse to cope with the wind and rain, she didn't have the courage and ability to survive. We can't spend our lives with our daughter. This flower in the greenhouse, one day you are gone, how can it survive? If you raise a son, you should also be poor, independent and decisive, physically and mentally healthy and cheerful, confident and capable. Such a girl can be regarded as a bully of life.

Abiding by the emotional bottom line, Bao, a girl from Peking University, committed suicide by taking medicine because of emotional problems. In the face of her boyfriend's brainwashing, Bao made concessions again and again and eventually went to misfortune. Everyone must let girls know that feelings are never the whole of life. Don't worry about an unworthy person. Let go when it is time to let go, and turn around when it is time to go out. In feelings, no attention, no will, is a better commitment to yourself.

Some people say that marriage is a woman's second reincarnation. It's true. A wrong marriage will destroy a woman, and a happy marriage will rebuild a woman. Love a person, smile more than tears, meet the wrong person, you are not even qualified to cry! You don't have to encourage your child to become a dog, you can control your face, you can coordinate your emotions and life, and you can choose the right person for you. This is a very clever girl!