How to meet someone you like and create a chance encounter

How to meet the person you like and create a chance encounter

How to meet the person you like and create a chance encounter. If you like someone, you should pursue it bravely, but when you are not familiar with both of them, How can you create an encounter and get to know the other person? In fact, it is not difficult to create an encounter. What is difficult is whether you pay attention. Let’s take a look at how to create a chance encounter with someone you like. How to meet the person you like and create a chance encounter 1

The first one is the place where the other person appears frequently. If you want to go to the place where the other person appears frequently to create an accidental encounter,

First of all, you need to pay attention to one thing. , you need to understand the other person's recent life patterns, such as what time the other person usually gets off work, where they usually go shopping, or which places they often pass by, etc. How do you get this information? First of all, it can be based on your usual understanding of him. Secondly, you can also ask from his friends. You can even go to the station every day to accumulate and calculate time. Of course, this last point is a bit time-consuming, but in order to create a chance encounter, we You might as well give it a try. After understanding the necessary information, the next step is to determine the location of the encounter. It is best not to choose an indoor environment for a chance encounter, especially in a restaurant or office, because such a chance encounter can easily make people feel that it has been planned for a long time, and the other person may have a way of being constantly attracted by you. Obsessed with the feeling that my private life has been seriously crossed and violated! It is best to choose an open place. For example, on the way to and from work, if you inadvertently look up and startle, when you see the other person, you should pretend to be casual, walk up to the other person, and look at him with a surprised and incredible expression. other side. If the other party doesn't avoid you at this time, you can greet the other party appropriately. If the other party glances at you, turns around and walks away, of course don't be discouraged. Just smile and leave! No matter how you feel, you should feel natural and generous, so that when the other person has calmed down for a while and meets you again, it will positively strengthen your impression in his mind.

The second method is to choose friends with the same preferences to create a party.

Since you are pursuing the other person, it at least means that you have been in love for a long or short time, and you have some understanding of each other's friends or life circle. Some couples are even introduced by former friends or classmates. Because the same circle exists, the difficulty of organizing a party will naturally be greatly reduced. Then you only need to find your same friends. Just explain your purpose of visit and ask the other person to help organize a party or activity. What should I do if I don’t have the same *** friends as the other party? Don't be anxious, you can also try to contact the friends he was familiar with during your relationship in a roundabout way, and then try to persuade them to help you create this party. Then when the party is decided, on the day of the party, it is best to arrive at the party location a little later to ensure that the person you are pursuing has already entered the party location before you enter again! After entering the venue, don't look for her directly with your eyes. Instead, take a seat while greeting everyone as if you don't see her, and then inadvertently raise your head to look at her again! Remember, even if it is a party you deliberately create, you should still pretend it is an accident and it just feels like everyone is attending the same party! Don't deliberately talk to the other party at the party. This can avoid talking too much and exposing your own purposes and inappropriate needs. Of course, you can also avoid the possibility of being seen through by the other party, but you can still raise your head inadvertently. , even looking at each other accidentally. And these small actions may often bring back memories of your past. You can even pretend to go to the corridor to answer a phone call when the other party is going to the bathroom as if nothing happened, creating an opportunity for close contact. In this way, the Women's Federation can say that it is So close.

The third type is a chance encounter in a different place.

Talking about encounters in different places may sound a bit confusing and confusing.

For example, the recently released debut film of Director Rene Liu, Among Us, opens with the encounter between the male protagonist and the female protagonist on the plane on their way back home, and the two inadvertently turning back and smiling at each other after taking their seats. This is a very classic scene of encountering someone in a different place! What is a chance encounter in a different place? A chance encounter in a different place refers to an encounter where two people do not live in the same place! Of course, in addition to what we just mentioned, the male protagonist and the female protagonist in our later encounters on transportation can also meet at each other's business trip and hometown. Babies can often pay attention to each other's Moments Weibo, or even the information posted by the same friends' Moments, to understand each other's dynamics and prepare for a chance encounter with each other in a different place.

For example, the story of my student Mia. He has been helping his ex to book tickets and hotels for a long time. Once when he was booking tickets, he accidentally logged into his ex. account, and found that the other party had gone to Hangzhou that morning, so Mi quickly flew to Hangzhou. Of course, with the mentality of giving it a try, he stayed in a hotel not far from his predecessor’s branch! After waiting for two days, she finally met her predecessor in the hotel lobby. At this time, Amiya looked at the other person in pretense of surprise. She was stunned for a while before she said, "I love you, do you want to come on a business trip too? I came to Hangzhou for a meeting. Unexpectedly, I met you. What a coincidence. After exchanging pleasantries, Mia turned around and left! Let's go now, I have to go home in a hurry. Just in the evening, the phone in Mia's room rang. It was her ex who came to invite him to have dinner together. The two of them were like old friends and had a very happy conversation. Of course, the pursuit of things was not a problem. . How to get to know someone you like: Create a chance encounter 2

1. The premise of creating an encounter is that you must first understand the other person, but you must not let others find out, so you must inquire from the side. This step is the foundation for success. Basics!

2. After understanding the other party’s basic information, creating a place for a chance encounter will definitely not succeed. This requires a lot of patience and skills. You must not let the other party discover your intention but also let the other party be able to Gradually remember you. Only when the other person remembers you will you really start to get opportunities

3. After creating the first chance encounter, it is time to start the second chance encounter. It’s time to change places for the second time. At this time, you can carry something that the other person is interested in to make the other person pay attention to you. Remember, you must stay calm and casual at all times and don’t let the other person find out that you are deliberately approaching. The other person

4. After the second time, you may have attracted the other person’s attention. Be sure to pay attention at all times, don't act too hastily, and stay calm at all times. Ways to attract the other person's attention are such as meeting each other by chance, and then looking at each other and smiling. Just look at each other and smile. There is no need to do anything else

5. The third time, after you looked at each other and smiled last time, It’s already a basic understanding. For another chance encounter, you can choose the place where you met for the first time. At this time, you can greet the other party naturally, make a simple self-introduction, and try to leave the other party's phone number.

6. Finally got the other party's phone number. In fact, often when the story has developed to this point, you have left a relatively deep impression on the other person's mind, and you may even become a person that the other person talks about. Because you are strangers to each other but you often meet by chance, it will definitely give each other a sense of mystery and a wonderful sign of what may happen

7. Find an opportunity to dial the other person’s phone number and ring. Ring three times and then hang up. If the other party gets through, just pretend that you made a mistake and call a friend of the same sex by name. Although this trick is really old-fashioned and scummy, at least you have found a breakthrough to contact the other party, right?

8. I believe that if the other party picks up your call, they will definitely talk about that. The place where you have met by chance many times. At this time, you can pretend not to know anything, pretend to be surprised, and then lament how fateful the chance encounter between you is.

9. You have already started your first relationship. Chat on the phone. Don't rush to confess next, otherwise all the previous efforts will be in vain if you fall short.

You can occasionally ask questions and make next plans based on the other person's reaction, but I think it's almost done at this point. The other person must have warm feelings towards you.