What should a boy do when he brings his girlfriend home to meet his family for the first time?

I saw a piece of information when I was watching videos the day before yesterday. After reading the content, I felt a lot. The video shows that a boy from Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, brought his girlfriend home and was taken seriously by his family. Ms. Jiang (the boy's sister) and her mother cleaned the house, prepared enough fruits, and cooked a large table of vegetables.

Ms. Jiang’s self-report said, “Even the legs of the table were tied with “shoes” knitted by her mother. The whole process took more than ten hours. She was busy from last night until the early morning, and she even got up early to buy groceries. Ten dishes have perfect meanings, and the whole family, including his brother and girlfriend, are very happy. "To be valued by the boy's family in this way, the girl must be full of happiness.

The boy’s family must have contributed a lot to the girl being treated like this, but the boy must have also made full preparations for his girlfriend’s “appearance”. So what should boys do when they bring their girlfriend home to meet their family for the first time? Let me share my views.

1. Communicate with your family in advance

Taking your girlfriend home to meet your parents definitely requires communicating with your family in advance, and you usually have to go two or three days in advance. Said, it is convenient for the family to prepare. For example, the boy in the above story "reported" with his family in advance, and finally achieved such a good effect.

Tell your family in advance that they can better present a neat and clean living environment in front of each other, they can adjust their mentality to facilitate communication between the two parties, and they can "make a fuss" about many details to let them Girls develop a liking for boys' families.

2. Inform your girlfriend and family about some of the other person’s hobbies

The most feared thing during communication is "awkward chat", which will make both parties feel uncomfortable. Telling both parties some of the other's interests and hobbies in advance can help you to be more targeted during the chat, so that you don't all know what to say. The same interests and hobbies will bring each other closer quickly and make it easier to get to know each other.

I remember the first time my cousin-in-law came to my cousin’s house as a guest, it was a rather embarrassing situation. A few people sat there stupidly, not knowing what to say. At most they just smiled at each other. Afterwards, the cousin was "verbally and verbally criticized" by his uncle and his girlfriend, but fortunately, they got married in the end.

3. Always stay with your girlfriend and give her a sense of security.

When a person walks into a strange environment, she must be nervous inside. The people and things in front of her are unfamiliar to each other. At this time, she will hope that her boyfriend will be by her side to give her the courage to continue to stay in this environment.

The first time my girlfriend came to my house, she was very nervous, even though I had cheered her up before. She still stutters when communicating with my parents, and doesn't even dare to ask where the bathroom is at home, so I always stay by her side to "solve problems" for her. When she left, she specially thanked me for accompanying me and making her feel safe enough.

In addition, as a boy, you can also prepare gifts for both parties in advance. After all, a good beginning is also very important. Generally speaking, these are the main aspects. If you do these things well, you will once again "add bricks and stones" to your love.

Of course, it is also necessary to remind your friends here that when you meet for the first time, you must not talk about topics that involve the other person’s privacy, such as the other person’s income and previous relationships. Experience etc.

Love is a matter between two people and requires each other's attention. A girl's willingness to follow a boy home shows that she loves the boy deeply, and the boy considers the girl in every detail, which is also a manifestation of love.