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Praise a boy like this and make him like you more and more.

1. "Detail control" boasts itself.

If you find details, double them! He is more and more willing to deal with details. Formula: exaggeration+detail+emotion.

On such a hot day, the baby is tired from going to work. Remember to bring me iced milk tea when he comes home from work (details). I'm really happy with you (sigh).

My boyfriend will take the initiative to do housework, which is great. And washed socks together. Wow, that's so sweet (details). Having such a boyfriend is really my blessing (sigh).

Boasting with details will not appear empty, but expressing it will make people believe that this boy is light on the surface and light on the wind, but in fact, his heart has long been happy.

2. "Cultivating Edition" boasts itself

Simply put, it is to cultivate some behaviors that you tend to through praise! It's simple! He bragged when he did something that made you happy.

He is not very good at dressing, and he was well dressed one day.

Mistake: I finally dressed like a person today, not bad.

Correct: I told you you would look good in black! Black makes you cool. Cool. It looks good.

He doesn't like doing housework and takes the initiative to take out the garbage.

Error: The sun rises in the west, so you can take out the garbage.

Correct: Did the handsome snail come to my house? Why did the garbage suddenly disappear? Reward the baby with two kisses!

Instead of ordering him to do nothing, he "guides" praise according to our own needs, and he will do things more and more according to our wishes.

3. Exaggerated "small works" version

Occasionally, you can not play cards according to common sense, but use a boasting method that you want to promote first and then suppress. Formula: praise others first+contrast+supplement details.

Praise him for cooking delicious.

Ordinary boast: you cook well.

Interesting boast: My best friend said that her boyfriend's cooking was delicious. Last time I went to her house to eat, I felt really good. But I think your cooking is a hundred times more delicious. Especially sweet and sour ones, I want to eat again today (details).

Praise him for playing basketball.

Ordinary boast: you play basketball very well!

Interesting boast: Wow, I feel that your teammates are quite powerful and conscious (praising others), but they are still not as handsome as you (turning point). That three-point just now was so handsome and great (details)!

Let him feel sour first! Then turn around and promise that occasionally such boasting will make love more interesting.