What kind of experience is it for women to surprise and make friends with men?

* * What kind of experience is it when a woman has sex with a man in surprise? **

? Rui Wang

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A few days ago, I watched a Korean variety show "Wedding Diary", which broke the way that Korean variety shows always assumed love, and truly recorded the married life of An Zaixian and Ku Huishan, star couple, who had been married for seven months. In the first episode, there was a funny scene in which Haicheng Ku filled the trunk of his car with biscuits and snacks that could not be bought in China, hoping to surprise An Zaixian.

The origin of this surprise is this. When proposing marriage, An Zaixian surprised Ku Xixian with a box full of shepherd's purse flowers. So, this time, Ku Haicheng confidently made a snack box surprise for An Zaixian.

The specific process is this: Haicheng Ku walks into the room from the car, and An Zaixian is making noodle soup and dough.

"Busy, busy?" Haicheng ku initiated the first wave of invitations.

"Not busy."

"Then do you want to go to the car?"

"Why did you go to the car?"

"There are many things to bring." Heisen Ku gave a good reason.

An Zaixian's answer to this reason is: "Make up the noodles and leave."

"Go now." Haicheng Ku once again staged the coquetry mode.

"The dough is almost ready, wait for another 5 minutes."

In order to let An Zaixian see his carefully prepared surprise immediately, Ku went out of the door first, but An Zaixian said, "Let's go together." But I still can't stop the dough.

Hye-seon Ku, who had been waiting outside for a while, had to come in and announce that the first phase of the plan had failed, and then pretend that what he was looking for was in the room.

Five minutes later, I thought An Zaixian would leave, but he actually started pouring water into the pot to boil. Therefore, the second phase of Ku's plan also failed. A burst of disappointment struck, and Ku sat at the table and began to origami. When she made a dozen paper rabbits, citron tea handed it to her by An Zaixian and said she didn't want it. An Zaixian was deeply moved. She ran to the car and saw the surprise prepared by Ku for him.

As a result, An Zaixian smiled, took two bags and ran back quickly. An Zaixian said his nose hurts, while Ku said, Aren't you moved to tears?

An Zaixian said, you can't cry when you receive snacks! I think his inner happiness is there, but through the screen, I can feel the process of surprise in Ku's audition, the kind of depression he has, and the embarrassment written in his heart at the moment.

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Speaking of man's surprise, I have to say that he was a good friend of mine in college.

Her boyfriend is her high school classmate and is studying in Beijing. She gave her boyfriend a surprise on his birthday.

She didn't tell her boyfriend that she had gone to Beijing by bus. In order to avoid an accident, she called her boyfriend and said that a classmate had gone to Beijing and asked him to pick it up because she wanted to bring him something.

When the well-dressed female students got off the bus and walked to the exit, they were surprised to know how many people there were.

The two were classmates in high school, and the relationship between men and women was determined after college. They don't meet much, and every time they meet, they are handsome guys and beautiful women. But now the boyfriend who is alive in front of her is wearing a big T-shirt, shorts and flip-flops, looking at her beautiful girlfriend with an embarrassed and confused face.

Then, the real problem came, because it was a holiday, and there were no rooms in the hotels next to the school.

Female classmates and boyfriends wearing flip-flops walked from 9: 00 a.m. to 165438+ 0: 00 a.m. before they found a hotel far from their boyfriends' school.

My boyfriend thought he just took something, with only a bus card and tens of dollars in change. So from the beginning to the end, the female classmates booked their own hotels and invited their boyfriends for lunch and dinner, and the cycle was endless.

After returning to school, the lesbian theory will never surprise men again. The boyfriend with straight clothes made by this surprise is gone, and the feeling of coquetry of girls in love is gone. There are unspeakable embarrassment and gnashing frustration along the way.

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In the days after marriage, I lacked those romantic nerves and rarely created any romance and surprise.

But a friend of mine is very romantic. She spent a lot of time to surprise her husband on her third wedding anniversary.

Because they have been living with their parents-in-law since they had children, she asked her husband to work overtime for several nights, and then went to her small home to decorate the house, hoping to surprise her husband on the wedding anniversary.

Blowing balloons, sticking balloons, hanging various knickknacks, friends working overtime for a whole week, making the room warm and romantic. On the weekend, because my husband wanted to invite other people to have dinner together, my friend had to go back to his small home with her husband on the grounds of going to his house to get something.

My husband's first reaction was, how can I work overtime these days? Then hang so many, how to clean up? Then I guess everyone is here. Let's eat quickly.

The friend was disappointed and said, aren't you moved?

My husband also quickly cooperated and said: I touched it, took a few photos by the way, made a circle of friends, and then stayed in the house where I didn't live for more than half a year and left in less than ten minutes.

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As mentioned in the article a few days ago, Teacher Chen's evaluation of my surprise is "What I give you is not a surprise, but what you give me every time is a surprise!" Similarly, I found that many female friends left me messages saying that the surprises they created were recognized as "scared" by their boyfriends.

Why do women always have this experience when they surprise men?

American writer John? Dr. Gray has clearly pointed out in his classic book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" that men and women have completely different emotional needs.

One of them is that women need consideration and men need recognition. He said that every man has a deep desire to be a hero in a woman's life. He wears shining armor to cut through thorns for a woman, satisfying her wishes and bringing her happiness. Men can be recognized by women, which shows that men have advantages and excellent qualities and deserve women's love. When a man is recognized by a woman, he will add infinite strength and contribute more to her. Women must remember that recognition of a man does not mean that he is obedient to Nuo Nuo.

Therefore, to surprise men is to switch the positions of men and women and turn them into gifts from women to men, so that men like them. As Mr Carnegie said, I like strawberry cake, but when fishing, I never use strawberry cake to go fishing. And spending time and energy to create your favorite surprise for men is just like fishing with strawberry cake, which will inevitably lead to embarrassment.

Then don't try to surprise you by becoming a man. The biggest surprise you can give him is to say thank you and really like him when he surprises you. Recognizing his efforts and abilities is what he wants most.

author

Wang Rui, writer and anchor. A girl with a warm and eloquent voice (in fact, she is already a mother). I work for my dream and love my life. I take care of my baby, read books, write articles, record, make and observe nature every day ... and so on, but the busier I am, the happier I am. In my heart, in the depths of the sea far away from the city, there is a shallow island full of flowers and carefree.