Isn't it good that the age difference between male and female friends is 6 years? I heard that it will be mutual? Is it true?/You don't say. /You don't say.

There is a reference formula for the age of marriage abroad: the age of the woman = (the age of the man 2)+7. It is common sense that men want to get married and women want to get married. What kind of partner to find is the first consideration for every unmarried person. There are many factors to consider when men and women get married, among which the age gap is very important. Some unmarried friends encounter this very real problem when choosing a spouse. People you like, old or young, are opposed by their families. There are also some pressures from public opinion, but they are unwilling to give up and can't make a choice, so they are very upset and don't know how to get rid of it. This situation is very common in marriage. What is the appropriate age difference between men and women? How to understand numerology? First of all, marriage is fundamentally a kind of fate, which can be met but not sought. It is often said that there is no love and hate for no reason in the world. From the perspective of reincarnation, the reason why two people in the vast sea of people can get to know each other and love each other must be that they have met and fallen in love in this life. From a modern point of view, there must be messages of mutual appreciation, mutual attraction and vibration at the same frequency. Some have the same "smell", some have complementary advantages and so on. When men and women first began to have a good impression, it was your love and my wish, without any conditions attached, so the feeling at that time was accurate and pure, which was a good foundation for falling in love or getting married in the future. Secondly, from the perspective of numerology, there is no age limit for men and women to get married. In China, 12 is generally regarded as a small cycle of time, so people below 12 are peers, and it is easy to have feelings in this category. Most couples in China are in this age group, which is the first mating area. If the difference is 12 years old to 24 years old, although it is two small reincarnation, it is also within the scope of emotional, and this kind of couple is not uncommon. This is the second mating area. If the difference is over 24 years old and belongs to two generations, the probability of feelings is relatively low. If there is, it is also because I forgot to make friends, fell in love when I was young, or some objective factors. This is the third mating area. These three mating areas have their own mating characteristics. Even in the first district with a difference of 12 years, not all ages are suitable for marriage, and there are unfortunate facts about marriage. According to relevant statistics, the highest divorce rate occurred in 12 years old. However, the divorce rate in the other two high-age marriage areas is very low. In reality, young people with a small age gap, uncompromising, unconvinced and not understanding each other, are the primary factors leading to marital misfortune; And because of the uncertainty of young people, they often have empathy, do whatever they want, and have extramarital affairs. This is also a factor that leads to the unfortunate marriage; Because they have young capital, they think that love can start again, and they don't cherish fate and established marriage, which eventually leads to the tragedy of divorce; Then, the economic foundation of both sides is unstable, and the pressure of work and life is too great, which leads to psychopathy or emotional out of control. Couples often quarrel because of trivial matters in life, and finally hurt their feelings, thus parting ways. In contrast, couples with a big age gap, because of their maturity and stability, relatively good psychological quality and economic foundation, are not easily moved by external feelings, know how to cherish love, love, tolerate and tolerate, and the youngest is extremely favored, with less anxiety about life, and enjoy the happiness of marriage easily. This kind of happiness will also infect others, so that they can feel the same way and enjoy happiness, so they often live happily. Traditionally, in ancient China, people didn't care much about the age gap between husband and wife. At this time, the main gatekeeper is right. The so-called "suitable for each household" generally refers to the material basis. As we all know, in the old society, there was a big age gap between many couples. Generally speaking, men are older than women, and there are many men and women in the second mating area. This is because of the influence of traditional ideas and numerology. In a sense, the reason why the marriage age gap in modern society has narrowed is because of the so-called "breaking superstition", advocating new marriage concepts and paying attention to gender equality. Equality between men and women is understandable, but if it is applied to marriage, it will be somewhat "unequal". This seemingly "same age" marriage has advantages and disadvantages. In fact, in traditional marriage, the ancients had already broken through the shackles of this concept of "age equality". In numerology, the combination of heaven and earth, six in one, does not take the age gap into account, but goes with the flow and is happy with it. According to the concept of the ancients, a perfect marriage is a superior marriage, but their ages are quite different. For example, a tiger girl in 1974 should be matched with a pig man in 1959 to form a harmony between heaven and earth, with a difference of 15 years, which belongs to the second marriage area. In reality, there are not a few couples in the second district. For example, the woman who has lived with Jin Yong for a long time is called Lin Leyi. She used to be a waitress in a hotel. She 16 years old, 27 years younger than Jin Yong, "looks beautiful and refined." Everyone secretly called her "Little Dragon Girl". They fell in love at first sight. After they got married, Jin Yong sent his little wife to study in Australia. Up to now, Jin Yong is still traveling and giving lectures with Teacher Lin. When asked how to manage the marriage at the turn of the year, he said with a smile that the most important thing is to respect each other and follow Qi Mei's example. Another example is the marriage between Li Ao and Wang Xiaotun. Wang Xiaotun is 29 years younger than Li Ao, but age has not become an obstacle to their love. After eight years of love test, Li Ao and Wang Xiaotong have both foreseeable and unpredictable storms.