What's the secret of picking up girls?

Close range: 1. Hold her hand. 2. Blow her nose gently. 3. Hug her lower back. 4. Kiss her forehead. 5. Say I love you. Success rate: 98% (generally girls can't resist) Far: This is more difficult, I'll give you some essence. Don't think that you can catch up with all the rich or good-looking girls. Moral girls will appreciate your connotation more, so when you get along, show your self-cultivation and demeanor.

Don't be arrogant, and don't show off your advantages and capital everywhere. This will give people a frivolous feeling. Don't brag. Girls are not fools. They can see your good points. Girls like boys with depth very much.

4. Having culture and connotation does not mean giving up individuality. On the contrary, boys with personality will fascinate girls now, but the performance of this personality should be mastered well, and don't draw a tiger to make trouble.

Be generous, even if you have no money, don't be so stingy in front of the girl you like. Not that you are extravagant, but don't haggle over every ounce. Of course, many girls still like rich boys, but I have never looked down on such kitsch girls.

6. In the process of pursuing beauty, you will definitely pay a lot, and you may not be rewarded. But don't talk about what you have done for her all day because you have paid so much, which will make them look down upon it. Girls will not be touched by your efforts on the surface, but they are still very happy inside. She will remember everything you have done for her. Try to keep working hard!

7. Some people say don't give girls gifts casually. I don't agree with this. I think we should give them gifts and do more for them. A girl with a conscience will feel indebted to you, so she won't have the heart to refuse your date and so on, so that she can get along. Of course, the premise of giving gifts is that girls have a good impression on you.

8. The purpose of our pursuit of girls is to make them fall in love with themselves, so we should be like Leslie Cheung in "Standing in Okinawa": we have been circling in front of Faye Wong, not to see Faye Wong, but to let Faye Wong see him. We should learn to show our strengths!

9. Learn to speak sweet words. Although everyone knows that sweet words are deceptive, girls just love to hear them. Don't be afraid of nausea and affectation. You know it's false, but you must say it.

10. Women are proud of themselves. So we should always praise them. Even if they are as ugly as Zhao Benshan, we should say that she looks like a fairy. They may not believe it, but they must be very happy.

1 1. Learn to do romantic things, and remember that any girl likes romance, even if she is usually serious. I once lit a heart with a candle under my ex-girlfriend's dormitory. Many people think I'm shameless, but I won the heart of a beautiful woman.

12. As the saying goes, men are not bad and women don't love them. When you are very familiar, playing a little evil, saying some naughty words and touching your hands will make girls very happy. Don't always be such a gentleman, it will give people a feeling of Mona.

13. Don't slander your rival in love in front of her, we should be generous and cheat him behind his back! Appropriately praising your rival in love will make her appreciate you more.

14. Be careful, pay attention to her usual words and give her a surprise. For example, the first time I pursued a girl, the night before, she casually said that these shoes were a little cramped. The next day, I braved the rain and went to town to buy her a new pair of shoes. She was very moved.

15. If you want to be her boyfriend, you must be friends with her good friends. Buy off her friends. When you are unsuccessful, it must be her good friend who is with her. If her good friend puts in a good word for you, you will get twice the result with half the effort. This also helps to understand her personality and dribs and drabs.

16. Stick to it. If you ask her out, she may refuse you the first time, but don't give up. You should ask her out in another way, and take the initiative to ask her out as soon as you get the chance. Every date should make her feel good and happy, and there will be more dating opportunities in the future.

17. It should be hot and cold, and there are advances and retreats. You can accompany her to study in the study room for four or five days in a row, and send her text messages and phone calls for three or four days in a row, but suddenly you are cold to her for one or two days, which will appropriately make her lose her appetite and make her feel inseparable from you.

18. In fact, the best trick to use, which is also the trick that everyone loves to use, is to make friends with her first, so that you will have more opportunities for performance and more opportunities for success. But what many people can't do well is get along too well, which will make the other person feel nothing for you. So to make you her friend, not her friend, you should try to show all your advantages, but don't show your past and your thoughts easily. It's more attractive to leave some mystery.

19. Be self-motivated, even if you don't like learning very much, show your ambition in front of her. And in the process of getting along, you should show your shrewdness and ability. Girls in this era don't like timid and ordinary men.

20. Don't act like she won't marry. Make her feel that you are very important to her and that she can't live without you. If we meet a girl who likes losing boys, we will lose a lot.

2 1. In the communication place, we can't understand her preferences and personality. At this time, you have to be mysterious so that she doesn't know you. When you get to know her, she will immediately become the kind of boy she likes, regardless of her dress and personality.

22. Have a sense of humor, but don't be too poor. Don't tell a joke several times. Humor won't make you just tell jokes. But I don't know how to have a sense of humor. I'm poor anyway.

23. When you feel that you have no hope of catching up with her, you can give up temporarily, give the other person space to think and give yourself time to re-examine. Make a new plan and appear in front of her with a new attitude. This is called retreat for progress.

You can lie to her, but don't let her know that you lied to her, or you will be finished, depending on your level of lying. Of course, it is best to be sincere!

26. In fact, any so-called method of picking up girls and the dogma of chasing girls are useless (including the above points). As Feng Qingyang said: winning without recruiting is the highest realm! So no matter who you pursue, don't use these methods rigidly. In fact, every girl has her own personality, and not all girls are the same. One of my ex-girlfriends doesn't like clean boys and thinks I am the most handsome when I grow a beard and smoke. Very interesting. So instead of learning how to pick up girls, it is better to pursue every girl with your heart.

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First of all, there are usually two reasons for this situation: first, she has a boyfriend or a favorite, and she runs away to avoid the trouble and embarrassment of the two people in the future, so you'd better give up, because there can be no result! Second, even she doesn't know whether she likes you or not, but your behavior may scare her and make her feel at a loss, because girls are always slower than boys, not to mention that she doesn't necessarily like you! The more you pester her now, the more you will arouse her disgust!

You have to find out the situation before you can take action! Don't trap yourself in a boring relationship, it is you who will hurt you in the end.

I said the second case.

Although she is at large, she will feel sorry for you and your kindness. But there is no way, she may just want to be quiet, and she will be resistant to any short message you send now and will not accept it!

I suggest you give each other some time to think about it! Adjust yourself at this time. Women like a generous man with a sense of humor. The most important thing is to be masculine. Don't cater to her deliberately, it will make her think that you have no opinion! Don't text her that you are wrong, it's even more stupid!

After she calms down for a while (definitely), send her some funny messages to show your humor. Pretend you don't care. In fact, a woman is possessive. The less you care about her, the more she thinks you want to be with you.

The second episode (original) 1. Thick skin: this is very important. Jordan chan said in the movie "Young and Dangerous": If a man is thick-skinned, then he has successfully chased half the girls. Hey hey! ! Later, I tried to bail.

2. Infatuation: No matter how wronged you are, you should show indifference, and find an opportunity to say to her on a special occasion: "XXX (name) I know you don't like me, and I know that feelings can't be forced, but ... (Remember: your eyes must be gentle to the extreme at this time, and then look at her affectionately) Say: You can't stop me from loving you, I will. I beg you not to take me as your burden. You can try to live your own life. I just hope ... just a little hope (eyes must be wet) that you can let me accompany you to take care of you and protect you ... even if (tears are needed at this time, it's hard to say), treat me as a brother and a younger brother, and there's nothing anyone can do, as long as you don't let me leave. It's enough to be as sad as possible. That's enough ... (muttering) At this point, remember never to tell girls that my life is yours and I can't live without you. Girls hate it when a boy dies in front of her.

3. Sweet mouth and smooth tongue: I can't teach you this, I can only rely on you. At this point, I want to remind you that no matter what clothes she wears or what makeup she wears, as long as she asks you, you must say "good-looking" and make it up. Girls naturally like to be flattered.

4. Stability: This is all compatible with the third point. If you are not steady, girls will say that you are a playboy, and if you are not smooth-tongued, girls will say that you don't understand interest. Ha ha!

5. Romance: It's up to you. It is enough to choose the right time to surprise her. This trick will greatly expose the rich, so don't be afraid to spend money.

6. Be careful: no matter what you do, you should think of her first, (don't think you will suffer ... and so on) take care of her in every possible way, and you must make her feel that she can't live without you.

7 Summary: If you have learned all the above points, I feel that there is no girl you can't catch up with (this sentence does not include those who have too big a difference in appearance, such as men who look like turtles and women who look like angels). In short, use the word "heart" to understand what she thinks, what she thinks. Finally, may all lovers get married. The third set of (primitive) hand contact

(1) When crossing the road, he said, "Hurry up, the red light will turn on, and then naturally lead her by the hand to cross the road.

(2) When getting off the boat or walking on a bumpy road, naturally reach out and say to her, "Come, it's dangerous here, please hold my hand."

(3) When people are crowded, say to her, "Hold my hand, or I will part." If she is shy, grab her hand. If she really likes you, It was just a few posturing struggles, and then I obeyed. If she really doesn't want to, she will "see and feel" to break free. At this time, don't force it. This is a respect for her wishes, not a sign of cowardice.

(4) When she wants to talk, naturally say "Come, I'll help you up".

5 compare the palm size with her: "Come, let's compare whose hand is bigger. Hey, your hands are so cute. "

6. Try your wrist: Can you resist her hand?

7 Palmreading: This method is very old, but it is very effective. If you really learn palm reading, you can talk for five minutes, which will greatly increase her interest.

Touch shoulders and other parts.

(1) When a car comes from behind; Say to her, "Here comes the bus". So I easily put my shoulder on her and drew her closer.

② When you swing in autumn, say "Come, I'll help you push". Hands push shoulders naturally.

(3) When I walked to the door of the meal, I patted her on the shoulder and said, "What about this room?" If she agrees, gently hold her shoulder and walk in together.

(4) When the wind suddenly turns cold or suddenly rains, take off your coat and put it on her body, then gently floor her shoulders.

⑤ When introducing buildings or places of interest: put your left hand on her shoulder from behind, and point to the buildings or places of interest with your right hand: "Where is that building?" .

⑥ When riding the Ferris wheel or entering the haunted house of amusement park: hold her hand or hug her shoulder.

As soon as she stood on the grass, you said, "Oh, it's so dirty here." . Pat her on the ass a few times. Remember, the touch should be natural and gentle, the tone should be more relaxed and natural, and there should be no tension, because women are already very nervous when they first contact the opposite sex. In her mind, if she likes you, not only will she not mind you touching her, but she will also be eager for you to do so. But your movements. Attitude and intonation will have an important influence on her mood. What you do is unnatural, and she will be even more unnatural and even refuse you. The other skills introduced below are also based on the premise that she likes you and you do it naturally.

Other skills of first contact

Touch her head, hold her hair with your fingers, or stroke her hair with your fingers. If she is shy and doesn't object, she can consider further contact next time.

Squeezing her nose gently will make her happy.

Touching her forehead with your hand and saying "you naughty pig" will make her laugh.

Skin contact skill

The condition of skin contact is the external atmosphere and environment plus intimate conversation with each other. The conversation must start with a natural topic, and it is best to add gestures and expressions to arouse the other person's heart. Environment and atmosphere should focus on the following points:

Being kept in the dark: this will eliminate her sense of shame and make her feelings more open.

(2) Being in a narrow place: The other person's bodies will naturally contact each other and naturally produce "magnetic force". If you don't hate each other, this kind of "magnetism" is very attractive and can make your attention highly concentrated.

(3) Quiet tree-lined streets and willows: it is easy to arouse women's feelings and is also a suitable place.

④ The climate should be warm: it is too cold to be in the mood, and the most suitable temperature is 25℃.

(5) Can fascinate women's voices, low and intermittent whispers, the sound of rain, the sound of cars, etc. In short, girls still have to "coax". Dude, I hope I can help you. If you don't understand+I'll tell you Q 1059408379.

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