How should parents arrange their first meeting?

It is very important for parents to meet for the first time. We must make proper arrangements to leave a good impression on both parties and help them to make further progress on the road of marriage!

Arrange meetings at all levels.

First of all, we should pay attention to the first meeting in attitude. It's important to hurry up and do the raiders. Even if there is something that can't be done in the later period, it can be recognized by both parties. At least, the attitude is correct, you can respect both parents and expect them. You can also spend a lot of energy on it. Just like in learning, even if your grades are not good, at least you will work hard and the teacher will encourage you.

You can make a hotel reservation for the first time. This arrangement can prove that you take this problem seriously and go to a hotel that suits your taste, leaving a deep impression on both parents, which will naturally make them feel your attention. High-end and high-quality service can ease the mood of both parties and reduce the tension between them.

When you meet for the first time, you can also make an appointment at home, which is more intimate and natural, and you can also learn more about the family situation of both sides. At the same time, it can evoke the topic of both sides, and it will not be cold. However, if you are dating at home (usually the man's house), you should tidy up your own house, and don't make a mess, which will make people feel bad, otherwise it will leave a great impression on the meeting and affect the subsequent marriage process.

Besides, young people should buy enough gifts, as well as fruits and flowers. Fruit can reflect the quality of life, and flowers can reflect the romantic temperament, which is a plus item for marriage and can also set off the solemnity and warmth of this meeting. In addition, to prepare tea, it is best to know the hobbies of both parents in advance, whether to drink tea or milk. Taking good care of every parent will make them feel the care of young people.

Young people should also prepare enough topics to know the taboos of parents' chatting in advance, otherwise it is easy to be cold or embarrassed when touching the taboos of chatting. Try not to invite too many irrelevant people to your home that day, otherwise something unexpected will easily happen, because the protagonist of the day is both parents, so it is best not to invite other relatives and friends. Unless you are a well-known friend or relative who can adjust the atmosphere.

My brother's experience

Like my brother, I was particularly impressed when he arranged for his parents to meet. The couple are well prepared. They can arrange pick-up service and prepare all kinds of fruits and gifts. At the same time, I prepared the betel nut that my father-in-law likes to eat, which can be said to be very careful.

In the final analysis, in fact, as long as you prepare carefully and consider some details, then this meeting will definitely be a more successful one. Don't be too nervous yourself.