How do social idiots survive?

In this complicated world, socialization is a compulsory course that we must learn, but many people find it difficult to get credits for this compulsory course, because it is not a question of whether we can learn it or not. I feel that it is an innate talent.

I feel like a social idiot when I think about it now. I want to live well in this society. I think we can try to shut up, because many things start with what we say, and disaster comes from our mouths. So, if you don't think you will have poor social skills, then I will listen more and talk less, so that we can avoid making mistakes.

I recently read an entertainment news that Rulu's EQ is too low. Sometimes his jokes will touch the bottom line of others, or touch the pain of others, but she has no idea that he will laugh beside others regardless of their embarrassment. Moreover, in the previous issues of Running Man, there was news of Michael Chen's cheating and his wife's divorce for a while, and then when Rulu cooperated with him, he felt a sense of contempt, which was always expressed with his eyes and actions, which would make Michael Chen very embarrassed. Therefore, he, in the entertainment circle, even if his acting skills are no matter how good, he became popular only slowly, so Rulu fans should not spray.

Socialization is a skill that we must learn in modern society. In fact, we don't need too many rhetoric and skills in social interaction. As long as we can communicate and change with our hearts, then I believe that the friends we make must be friends worthy of our life. The most important thing between friends is not money, not interests, but sincerity. The ancients said that a friend of a gentleman is as light as water. If you are friends with your heart, it may not involve money, but there is definitely a tacit understanding. Don't find it too difficult to socialize. As long as you put your heart into it, others will put their heart into it.