For women, what is the significance of the marriage between Princess Wencheng and Songzan Gambu?

Princess Wencheng married Songzan Gambu, which not only won Songzan Gambu's love, but also was regarded as a god by Tubo people. Looking back on Princess Wencheng's marriage, we can get some enlightenment.

0 1. Songzan Gambu Begs to Marry the Princess of Tang Dynasty

Everyone knows the story of Princess Wencheng and Songzan Gambu. Songtsan Gampo was an English emperor in Tubo (present-day Tibet). He really wanted to marry a princess of the Tang Dynasty, so in 634, he sent an envoy to the Tang Dynasty to propose marriage, but he was rejected by Emperor Taizong.

In 638, on the pretext that the Tang Dynasty refused to marry his princess because Tuyuhun was in the way, he sent troops to defeat Tuyuhun and pushed Songzhou in the Tang Dynasty, threatening to invade on a large scale if the Tang Dynasty refused to marry him. As a result, Tang Bing was defeated.

Songzan Gambu quickly sent someone to apologize, and begged to marry the princess of the Tang Dynasty again with 5000 taels of gold and jewels of the same value.

According to legend, while Songzan Gambu proposed to the Tang King, Tianzhu, Dashi and other four kings also sent messengers to propose. This time, Emperor Taizong gave them a chance to choose a woman from the imperial clan, canonize her as Princess Wencheng, and prepare her as a candidate for marriage.

Li Shimin invited suitors from all over the world to test their wisdom. Whoever wins can marry back the princess of the Tang Dynasty. This is the story of the six difficult marriages. The murals depicting this story are well preserved in Jokhang Temple and Potala Palace in Lhasa.

02. Six Difficult Envoys of Emperor Taizong:

Difficult, thread through the nine holes of the pearl. There is nothing other countries can do. Lu Dongzan, a Tibetan messenger, caught an ant, tied silk thread around the ant's waist and put honey on the pearl holes. The ant pierced nine holes with honey flavor.

Second, it is difficult to identify the mother-child relationship between a hundred mares and foals. Lu Dongzan separated the mare from the foal and did not give the foal water. The next day, he put the foal in the herd, and the thirsty foal immediately ran to his mother to feed.

Emperor Taizong also asked them to distinguish the mother-child relationship between 100 hens and chickens. Lu Dongzan scattered rice in the square, and the hen told the chicks to eat, but some naughty chicks refused to scream, so he imitated the eagle's cry and scared the chicks to run under their mother's wings.

Third, in one day, you need 100 wedding envoys to kill 100 sheep, eat the meat, and drink 100 jar of wine to rub the skin. Lu Dongzan asked messengers to queue up to kill sheep, sipping wine and eating meat while rubbing their skins, and completed all the tasks in one day.

Fourth, distinguish the roots and buds of pine trees. Lu Dongzan transported the pine tree to the river, and the roots of the pine tree immediately sank, the tips floated and the roots were distinct.

Fifth, Emperor Taizong suddenly and urgently summoned envoys to the palace, and then immediately let them out. Whoever takes the right path will win. Lu Dongzan came, afraid of getting lost when he went back, and made a mark. He followed the sign and went out according to his route.

Sixth, 500 women wearing the same clothes are listed in the main hall, so that the messengers can find out which one is the princess. Liu Dongzan found the old man who served Princess Wencheng in advance. According to the old man's guidance and appearance, he found the princess.

In this way, the Tibetan emissary won a great victory in the competition, and Emperor Taizong finally agreed to marry Princess Wencheng to Songzan Gambu.

03. Princess Wencheng went to Tibet and kissed her.

According to the records of the Tang Dynasty, in the fifteenth year of Zhenguan, his wife became a princess and had a daughter. Wang Daozong, the king of Jiangxia, was escorted by the festival and built a pavilion in Heyuan.

Princess Wencheng went to kiss her and went to Tibet via Qinghai. There are several fast-flowing rivers on the road, and the rivers are relatively gentle in winter, so we chose to start on the fifteenth day of the first month. After more than a month's arduous trek, braved the wind and snow, I finally came to Heyuan, which is rich in aquatic plants, in the warm spring season in bloom. This is the birthplace of the Yellow River, with herds of cattle and sheep. Princess Wencheng, who is deeply worried about whether the environment in Tibet is bad, finally breathed a sigh of relief. They stopped here to have a rest.

Songzan Gambu led the wedding team to Heyuan. Seeing Jiangxia Wang Daozong off, he came as a junior and was very respectful. Seeing Princess Wencheng, Songzan Gambu fell in love at first sight.

Princess Wencheng is naturally different from a Tibetan woman. Her gorgeous central plains costume, dignified and elegant appearance and extraordinary temperament deeply fascinated the plateau man Songzan Ganbu. He even felt ashamed in front of her.

The procession of seeing off the bride and welcoming the bride was crowding round, and Princess Wencheng was welcomed into some cities. Under the auspices of Li Daozong, Songzan Gambo and Princess Wencheng held a grand wedding in accordance with the etiquette of the Han nationality.

Tubo book mkas-pavi-dgav-stone records? Songzan Gambu ascended the throne, crowned Princess Wencheng and made her queen. ?

04. Princess Wencheng's Happy Marriage

Princess Wencheng is an extraordinary woman. Since coming to Tubo, she has made Tubo her home. In life, I gave Songzan Gambu full of tenderness, and in politics, I also helped him as much as I could. Princess Wencheng is gorgeous, knowledgeable and outstanding, and Songzan Gambu regards her as the treasure.

Songtsan Gambu said that all the kings of Tubo had never married a princess of BCC. He was the first one, so he wanted to build a palace for the princess and show it off to later generations. It is well known that the palace he built is Potala Palace.

Songzan Gambu has great respect for Princess Wencheng. He and his ministers often asked her questions about political life, and the princess also discussed with them and patiently answered them. But she only makes suggestions, talks about opinions and never engages in politics. Ministers also admire her very much. She carefully observed the feelings of the Tibetan people and devoted herself to improving the living conditions of the Tubo people, who regarded her as a god.

Tubo people have a very bad custom, that is, painting ochre soil on their faces, which is said to exorcise demons. Princess Wencheng observed this habit carefully and felt very bad. She gently put forward her views to Songzan Gambu. Songzan Gambu felt reasonable and ordered the implementation.

Songzan Gambu also took off his felt, put on satin clothes, and ordered aristocratic children to enter school to study poetry, books and other Central Plains cultures. This is all the influence of Princess Wencheng on him. He is willing to accept her advice and learn from her and her country. How deeply she loves to change herself!

Princess Wencheng has a high position in Tubo. Among the women who praised Ganbu, only Princess Wencheng holds the title of queen and enjoys sacrifices after her death. She enjoyed the marital happiness that a woman longed for most.

05. Enlightenment of Princess Wencheng's marriage to women

The harder it is to get, the more it will be cherished.

Songzan Gambu married a princess of the Tang Dynasty and was rejected for the first time. The second attempt to threaten by force was beaten; The third time, I came to ask for help with a treasure of gold and got a chance to compete with others. Fortunately, Lu Dongzan, the Tubo emissary, praised his wit, and Princess Wencheng began to beg for Tubo. It is human nature that people and things are hard-won and more precious. He worked hard to get it, and he will hold it carefully in his hand.

There are strong women, and men dare not despise them.

After the defeat, Songtsan Gambu asked to marry the princess of the Tang Dynasty, and his national strength was in a weak position. This determines that after he married the princess, even if he didn't like her, he didn't dare to disrespect her. Otherwise, bullying the princess of the Tang Dynasty is a disgrace to the Tang Dynasty, and he certainly has no good fruit to eat. However, in fact, he loves Princess Wencheng very much, which is the best result.

Princess Wencheng's own charm is the key to a happy marriage.

That's all that matters. If it weren't for his charm, Songzan Gambu was addicted. Even if he dare not treat the princess as a guest, he can treat her as a guest and just give her up. But Songzan Gambu was impressed by Princess Wencheng's appearance, personality and talent, and fell in love with her deeply. The charm of women is the key to attracting men.

Marrying a good man is the foundation of a woman's happy marriage.

Songzan Gambu is an upright, wise and brave man. His feelings for Princess Wencheng have always been the same, and he has never changed his mind. Therefore, Princess Wencheng married him, which made him less sorry to be far away from home. Two of a kind was the best, and Princess Wencheng got a happy love.

If a woman wants a happy marriage, she must first have a pair of discerning eyes to see the man she wants to marry. Personality or anything inappropriate, you can still run in, but if you meet love rat, it will be unfortunate in life. Therefore, you must polish your eyes and find the right person to marry before marriage. If he is not allowed to get it easily, he will cherish it even more.

Marriage requires the consent of parents. If you disagree for a while, do the work slowly and think about why you disagree. Maybe their opposition is justified? Don't fall out with your parents to get married, so if you are unhappy after marriage, there is still a family to rely on. Otherwise, you will only be bullied.

Self-cultivation. Paying attention to appearance, improving temperament, economic independence and ideological independence are the foundation of life and marriage. Even if you don't have beautiful skin, you should have a neat appearance and an interesting soul. This is the charm of a person.

If you bloom, bees and butterflies will come. A woman with infinite charm, which man will not regard it as a treasure?