False experiences dictated by four women.

Narrator: Xie, 25, is a freelancer.

My him, with style and style, is a standard handsome boy. On our honeymoon, we went to Maldives. After arriving at the hotel, we had a perfect sex together. When he took off his coat, I saw him wearing a clean and tight gray CK underwear, which was very sexy. I, on the other hand, am a pair of yellow-washed old underwear. The underwear is an earthen style with floral dots bought by ordinary supermarkets. I felt ashamed, and my original excitement suddenly fell to the bottom. Although he has been working hard and always told me that it doesn't matter, I still feel inferior. That love was originally boring.

Comments: A woman's appearance is very important, but the choice of underwear between lovers is more important. Men's sexual desire is often directly proportional to the exquisiteness of women's underwear, and sexy underwear can also increase women's confidence and charm. Therefore, we should keep the habit of wearing exquisite underwear at ordinary times, so that no matter what the occasion, we can calmly welcome his sex.

2. Wrong time and place

Narrator: Judy is a 25-year-old pediatrician.

That time, in the evening, he and I went back to our parents' home in the county to visit our parents. It happened that my parents went downstairs for a walk. Walking into the old environment where we have lived for more than ten years, we suddenly began to lose control and have an unspeakable desire, so we started kissing and then hugging. Then when we were lying on the sofa sweating, we suddenly heard the key inserted into the security door and the door lock turned. I was at a loss, or he reacted quickly and jumped up from the sofa and rushed into the bathroom with lightning speed, while I was embarrassed to sit on the sofa and tidy my clothes. Fortunately, my mother entered the door first. She understood everything at a glance and kept complaining: "Why don't you turn on the air conditioner in such a hot day?"

On the way home, I just felt depressed.

Comments: Sweet sex must choose the right time and place. Because sex is a private matter between two people, there must be enough time and space to ensure privacy. There is no way in this strange place, and my parents' home is not very safe. It is most suitable to open a room in a hotel. Of course, remember the "Do Not Disturb" sign.

3. Look at the picture incorrectly.

Narrator: Lili is 23 years old and works in real estate sales.

My boyfriend and I have always had a harmonious sex life. We watched a CD on our honeymoon. There are some sex scenes in that movie, and the hero seems to enjoy it. We've never tried. Later in bed, watching him anxious and hesitant to take the initiative, I said to him, "Why don't we try?"

As a result, I was tied up by him, my arms and legs did not move at all, and my mood suddenly deteriorated. Moreover, he was probably afraid of hurting me and being afraid of hands and feet everywhere. As a result, sex is not fun at all, and I no longer believe in the enjoyment on the disc.

Comment: Literary works are always works, which can increase some people's sexual interest, but they are not responsible for practice. If you want something new in sex, you can try it between two parties who know each other very well, but you must have enough communication in advance to consider whether it can really be accepted by both parties, otherwise it will only be self-defeating and hurt each other.

4. Wrong caress and care

Narrator: Lan is a 26-year-old programmer.

My husband and I had no sexual experience before we got married. It is our common wish to save this most charming moment for our wedding night. My best friend told me that if I could take the initiative, his emotions would be infected by me, so that my first night would be more happy and less painful. So, on the wedding day, I took the initiative to walk up to him and caressed his private parts with my fingers and lips, but I never thought that when I followed the rules, he ejaculated long before I entered.

Comments: Sex is a process that needs to be honed. The general male premature ejaculation may come from the first sexual life. A man with no sexual experience doesn't know what will happen. He is just excited about the happiness he wants to feel. Therefore, it is extremely important for both sides to communicate more in the first sexual life, and it is very important to be evenly matched. Don't tease him actively, but put yourself in the position of the client and experience it with him.