Will you feel that there is no love after pregnancy?

As an experienced person, I tell you that when your little ancestor comes out, you will find that pregnancy is the most comfortable, and you can't wait to put it back!

I am the mother of an eight-month-old baby. As an experienced person, I also want to talk about my feelings. After pregnancy, different stages will have different feelings. Sometimes I do feel uncomfortable, but sometimes I feel comfortable. I will talk about the whole pregnancy in three stages, hoping to help you. In short, it hurts and is happy.

1, the morning sickness reaction in the first trimester is stronger.

At the beginning of pregnancy, about ten days after I learned that I was pregnant, that is, about two months pregnant, I began to have pregnancy reactions, which were manifested as loss of appetite, vomiting and particularly sensitive nose. As soon as I smelled the smell of oil smoke coming from the kitchen, the whole person immediately went to the toilet to vomit, which was particularly uncomfortable. At this time, it is suggested that expectant mothers try to eat something sour or spicy to pad their stomachs, which will make them feel better.

2. Happy time in the second trimester

By the second trimester, that is, from the third trimester, the pregnancy reaction gradually disappeared and the whole person began to return to normal. He can eat and sleep, and he feels that life is full of happiness and joy. It is very sweet to watch the baby grow up day by day in the belly. At this time, it is recommended that expectant mothers supplement more nutrition, eat a balanced diet and eat more walnuts, which is conducive to the baby's brain development.

3. Many discomforts in the third trimester are uncomfortable.

In the third trimester, the stomach swells rapidly, the movements become clumsy, walking slowly, and constipation will occur. Constipation in the third trimester, I can't pull it out in the toilet, but my big belly is pressing, which is particularly uncomfortable. At this time, it is recommended that expectant mothers drink more water and eat more fruits and vegetables, which will help relieve constipation.

In short, the process of pregnancy is painful and happy. When you feel particularly uncomfortable, let the prospective father participate more, face it together, share the housework, care more, and relieve the anxiety and pain of the expectant mother. Watching the baby grow up day by day, I am full of expectation and happiness to welcome the baby together. Come on, mother-to-be, everything will be fine.

A friend asked me, "How did you feel when you were pregnant? Why do I feel that I have nothing cute after I get pregnant! Almost every second is suffering, so uncomfortable! What should I do if I am pregnant for so long? So sad! "

When she asked, I remembered the scene of my first pregnancy ten years ago. I was going to get pregnant then. The first three months were very painful. Instead of gaining weight, I lost four or five pounds.

During those days, my husband said every day, "Dear, tomorrow will be better. Maybe today is the turning point. Stick to it and eat more. "

I was looking forward to it at first, but then I became numb. Later, as long as I heard him say this, I would glance at him: "Every day, you just know to lie to me! Hum ~ ".

(a) early pregnancy, a splitting headache, no appetite.

Early pregnancy test paper is obviously two bars (about 37 days from the last menstruation), and my stomach began to get cold, and I felt no appetite for the first time. That was when my husband took me to my favorite buffet. I ate a little and couldn't eat any more.

From that day on, I felt worse every day. Not only nausea, the most terrible thing is headache. Especially at night, I really don't have the strength to sit up and want to lie in bed with my eyes closed.

Every day, the most relaxing thing is the morning. When you are at your best, you can still have an appetite.

At that time, my husband often bought me eggs to fill cakes. In 2009, the omelet near Beijing East Bridge was delicious, especially crisp and fragrant. After returning to Qingdao, I have never eaten the kind of omelet that I ate during that time. That's a real pity.

As time went on, my nausea in Chengdu became more and more serious. Sometimes I can barely cook by eating porridge and drinking water at noon. I got off work at half past five, walked home for three minutes, didn't want to do anything, and fell asleep in bed.

When my husband comes back from work, he cooks for himself, cooks porridge for me and brings it to the bedroom for me to drink. I got into a daze, drank a bowl of porridge and went back to sleep.

Until the next morning, a new day began again, starting with egg filling cakes.

(2) Azar Azar fight!

My husband always smiles and says to me, "Honey, just bear with it. You have been in pain for so many days. Maybe today is a turning point and tomorrow will be better. " Come on, I will always be with you. "

During that time, I liked watching Korean dramas, and my husband accompanied me. Then at dinner, I encouraged me with lines from Korean dramas: "Dear, fight!"! Ah, ah, fight! "

I have forgotten which Korean drama this line came from, but I still remember the scene where my husband smiled and said these words to me.

He coaxes me like a child every day, hoping I can feel better and look forward to tomorrow.

After more than two months, I suddenly felt much better and suddenly had an appetite. Then my husband began to buy me all kinds of things I like to eat. Then I went for a physical examination a month later, and the doctor gave me a lot of shots!

I gained weight in a month 14 kg!

I gain half a catty every day, and my husband actually said that I didn't see that I was fat!

I'll give him a good scolding when I get home. [Haha]

Finally, the weight before pregnancy 108 kg, the weight after three months of pregnancy 104 kg and the weight before delivery 156 kg. Colleagues say I am like a balloon, and I watch it become round day by day.

(3) Eating too much, vomiting and cutting the esophagus.

By the time I got pregnant for the second time, I was basically in the same state as my first child. The headache has not eased at all, and the frequency of vomiting has increased.

The first time I vomited during the whole pregnancy, it was still because I was uncomfortable in the car. I have been ill and my stomach is cold, but I can't spit it out. I vomited many times when I was pregnant for the second time. Although I feel uncomfortable when vomiting, I feel much more comfortable after vomiting for an hour or two.

On one occasion, I felt particularly sick just after eating apples. Then when I swallowed the food and vomited, it seemed that the chewed apple cut my esophagus and gave me a little blood. At that time, I was scared.

My husband asked me if my stomach hurts. When I say no, I mean my throat is burning. He speculated that it might be a scratch, comforted me and observed it. Later, I got scared and chewed everything carefully. It never happened again.

(4) All the hard work is worth it! Come on ~

Different people, pregnancy will have different degrees of reaction, even pain.

However, for that little life, no matter how hard and tired it is, it is worth it!

Watching the baby be born, full happiness can offset all the hardships during pregnancy.

Friends, bear with it, it will be fine in a while!

Pregnant in October, soon.

Aha, aha, fight!

I may be a fake pregnancy. I have no morning sickness or anorexia from beginning to end. The point is that I have a super appetite. In the first three months, when others couldn't eat all kinds of vomit, I followed my husband to find all kinds of delicious food. As a result, I gained a lot of weight in the first three months. So that you have to control your weight in the later stage, which is relatively stable until the baby is born. The only bad thing is that I'm fully prepared for a natural birth and walk around every day. Results The amniotic fluid was seriously insufficient in the last examination, so I had to have an emergency abortion. But these are not important, no matter which way you choose to produce, it is the greatest happiness that the baby can come to me healthily.

Almost every pregnant woman with morning sickness will feel this way. I don't know if you have heard of hyperemesis gravidarum, that is, vomiting bile, or even vomiting blood in severe cases, and you can only rely on infusion to maintain your life. I have a relative. She vomited badly when she was pregnant, not to mention eating. She even vomits when she drinks water. At that time, she vomited when she saw others eating, and she vomited wildly for more than five months! I rely on nutritional injections in the hospital every day.

Before pregnancy, she weighed more than 90 kilograms, and only 70 kilograms was left behind. She vomited bile on her back ... The doctor advised her not to have a baby at that time, but she refused to give up and gave birth forcibly. The baby is 3 years old now, healthy and lovely! Up to now, she has a lingering fear when she thinks of all kinds of vomiting during pregnancy. She said that she couldn't get pregnant again in her life, which was too painful.

I watched her vomit like that, but there was nothing I could do. Hyperemesis gravidarum really hurts! It won't happen to me. I really think it is exaggerated and melodramatic, but it is not. It's a woman who risked her life to give birth. It is really not easy!

When I was pregnant myself, I didn't vomit badly during pregnancy. I vomited two or three times during pregnancy, but I often felt sick, especially in the first two months of pregnancy. The smell of oil smoke makes me sick, and the taste of food is also disgusting. At that time, I couldn't eat anything, and I felt sick when I drank water. Eating a bowl of millet porridge at most a day, I feel that I am suffering every second until more than three months, almost four months.

Therefore, it is really difficult to understand you. There is no good way except forbearance. Generally, it will be fine after the first trimester. (Image from network, deleted)

After pregnancy, there is no love, and my body is uncomfortable and my heart is uncomfortable. At that time, my head was dizzy, I lost my appetite, and I vomited. My nose was very sensitive to smell, and I vomited when I smelled perfume. Smells that you can't smell at ordinary times can also be smelled during pregnancy. The hot pot smells so good that I feel queasy. May be unable to eat, leading to dizziness and fatigue. It is difficult to walk, but I have to go to work when I am pregnant, and I have no money to buy nutrition. My husband is away all the year round. When I was pregnant with a second child, my family didn't understand, saying that I was picky and that I tortured her. Let me wear a mask to cook. Say what you like to eat and do. I feel dizzy. I was lying in bed. The boss is only two years old. He is always pestering me to take her out. My mother doesn't care, still playing mobile phone in bed. I, Dabao, climbed into my bed and said to the window, "I want to go out to play", which is very pitiful. I am very distressed, but my heart is very fragile.

Now that the second child is one year old, I feel that the child is an angel. The hard work at that time was not in vain, but I felt sorry for my child. He was born so small that his height and weight were not up to standard. Probably malnutrition during pregnancy.

So, dear, if you are not unwell and have a bad appetite, you must keep a good mood and eat more nutritious food. Ensure the needs of the fetus and your body. The baby will be fine after it is born. The baby is as cute and innocent as an angel.

A 7-month-old pregnant mother with a second child, Dabao 1 year and 4 months old mother, may be able to help you, thank you!

Honey, I'll give you a hug first. Thank you for your hard work! There are many people who have no love after pregnancy! Why is there nothing worth loving in life? Take my own pregnancy as an example:

1, I was very happy every day when I first found out I was pregnant, but it didn't last long. I always have brown secretions for a few days. If I look it up online, that's not good. There may be threatened abortion, which scares me to go to the hospital for B-ultrasound, almost once a month, but too much B-ultrasound is very bad for my baby. That time was really painful. Then the most important pregnancy reaction. At that time, I could barely eat breakfast every day and couldn't eat repetitive things. I ate sweet potatoes today, but I won't see them tomorrow. I ate taro balls today, but I can't see them tomorrow, or I will vomit all kinds of sour water (I didn't eat them once at the place where I worked, but now a few years later, I still feel sick when I think of that canteen). During that time, I was also very grumpy. I don't even allow my husband to buy meat, because I vomit when I see it, and I can't smell it (my husband loves meat, so he can only go out to eat secretly [covering his face]). It is really impossible to love, not to mention suffering every day, every minute.

2. When the prenatal examination was done for Down's screening, one data was not up to standard, and the doctor said it might be deformed. I cried on the spot. When I got home, I searched the internet and asked my relatives and friends. I didn't know if it was necessary, but I was not at ease, which caused me to sleep badly for almost a month. After going back to my hometown, I made an appointment with my relatives for further examination before I ruled it out. The stone in my heart was put down.

In the third trimester, I think the biggest pain is the torture of sleep and fetal movement. You can't sleep on your back, you can only sleep on your side, and it's on the left and right side, which is not good for your baby. That kind of pain, I can't sleep at 2 or 3 every night. Counting fetal movements is enough to collapse. What happened when the baby didn't kick me? Don't scare me, it's hard for you to forget your mother! [tears]

So it's really normal to have no love after pregnancy. In addition to physical torture, psychological torture is also great. Few people have smooth sailing during pregnancy. If elderly pregnant women or family conflicts are serious, they may face more. However, after morning sickness in the first trimester, everything else can actually be tolerated. If there is something I can't let go, I suggest trying to convince myself to relax. After all, being unhappy every day is really bad for your baby. After the baby is born, he will have a big temper and be unhappy. Come on, honey, come on, it'll pass!

I just, I vomited badly in the first trimester, and I couldn't do without love, vomiting blood, insomnia, severe vaginitis, fever, swollen feet, hair loss, taking medicine, infusion, vaginal bleeding, and so on. Every second is suffering, just get through it. When children grow up day by day, they forget and want a second child. Every time he is pregnant, it is a kind of torture, and the child is not developing well.

Every time I think about my reaction during pregnancy, I feel uncomfortable now. For most expectant mothers, morning sickness will affect a lot. I am in a bad mood and have a breakdown. It is uncomfortable to eat badly and sleep badly. Only a few people have mild morning sickness or no morning sickness. Generally speaking, the first few months are the hardest, and if it is serious, the weight may drop rapidly. I just started vomiting and lost about ten pounds. In fact, the best time is five to seven months The baby is not too big, the stomach is not too big, the morning sickness reaction is gone, and the stretch marks do not appear. In the later period, the fetus grows up slowly, oppressing the bladder and stomach, which makes people feel uncomfortable and inconvenient. Some pregnant mothers also have swollen hands and feet, their stomachs are covered with stretch marks, and they are diligent in going to the toilet. There is also false contractions, abdominal distension, pain in the waist and abdomen, and various situations. Therefore, pregnant mothers should not be excited or nervous when they encounter these things. Many people will have the mentality of not wanting this baby. In fact, if you think about it carefully, the arrival of this baby will still make people feel happy. When he punches and kicks you in the stomach, it will make people feel happy and full of happiness. Ladies and gentlemen, come on.