Should I go back to the wedding when I get married in secret?

Good relationship. I think you'd better go back to the wedding.

When your best friend gets married, what she wants most is the blessing of relatives and friends. If you care, I think she must be looking forward to your appearance at her wedding. Because your blessing is more important to your best friend than those relatives you don't know. Although you have a long journey and may be busy at work, in either case, it is not as good as the day of your best friend's wedding. Work can continue in a couple of days, but your girlfriend is married, which is a big event in her life. Without your blessing, will your girlfriend feel a little sorry for this wedding?

When you go back to the wedding, you can not only say a blessing to your best friend, but also accompany her and watch her get married from a little girl, which is also very memorable for you. The day before the wedding, your girlfriend's nervousness needs you to comfort her and help her. There are many things to worry about on the wedding day. Although your girlfriend has other people to help, I think for her, she will be more willing to trust you to help her.

Once, my best friend got married in Xi 'an. I asked for a week's leave to attend her wedding, and all the rewards for that month were deducted, so I came from Beijing to attend her wedding. I'm glad I came back to attend her wedding. She always said that her wedding was perfect because she didn't expect me to go back to accompany her and attend her wedding. When I heard my best friend's heartfelt happiness and emotion, I felt that I made the right decision at that time.

So, don't let those things outside affect your relationship with your best friend. No amount of red envelopes you give her can make up for a blessing you said yourself. Her marriage is perfect because of your participation, and you have gained more value for your friendship from your best friend by attending her wedding.