Original work of "The First Half of My Life": Who was the man who made Tang Jing give up her career and retire to the countryside?

In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", the character that makes the audience most unhappy is probably Tang Jing.

The relationship with He Han for more than ten years fell apart because of the appearance of her best friend Luo Zijun.

In the end, Tang Jing left with emotional pain.

It left the audience with a sigh.

But in Yi Shu’s original work, Tang Jing’s ending is very happy:

After marrying the elite lawyer Mo Jiaqian, she went abroad with her husband and gave birth to a child. The next son was born; since then, he has left the workplace and started a life of caring for his husband and raising his children.

Whether it is in a TV series or a book, although Tang Jing is not the protagonist, he is the soul of the entire work.

Below, we will interpret Tang Jing’s charm from the perspective of the original work.

Tang Jing and Zijun were childhood friends and grew up together. They are both best friends and classmates.

After graduating from college, Zijun got married and became a full-time housewife.

Tang Jing entered the workplace, starting from the bottom and working her way up to the top of the company.

Zijun advised Tang Jing, when are you willing to calm down and find a partner? If you are in your thirties, just make do with it.

Tang Jing shook his head: "I'm still choosing a husband at this age, so I don't plan to compromise. It's like buying a diamond watch. When have you ever seen a woman choose a diamond watch with a complacent attitude?"

For her, her husband is like a diamond watch. If you want to find one, you should find the one you like and never give in to him.

"I have everything now. I am self-sufficient in food, clothing, housing and transportation. I don't have to worry about having no one to accompany me. I can change my male partner every day. If I want to marry, I will naturally marry an ideal man. I can't just make up for it. The most important thing is Bring it out."

The way Tang Jing appears from the beginning is different from that of Luo Zijun, a housewife who depends on her husband for survival.

She has entered the workplace since graduation and worked hard all the way to reach her current position. She is naturally confident.

She is independent, capable and rational.

When her best friend Zijun was betrayed by her husband Juansheng and was at a loss when facing divorce, she stood up and guided Zijun:

"Your life is very long, no one You will die for divorce, and you still have to plan for the future."

When Zijun was about to clean up and leave the house, she stopped him in time: "If you can't recognize the past, you will be unable to do anything in the future."

In the end, with her help, Zijun managed to get a small apartment, a place to live, and a job to make a living.

Tang Jing’s company is located in the CBD center of Central, Hong Kong. As a supervisor of the company, she has an independent office of less than 10 square meters.

Manage more than a dozen people in the department and rush to the front line of business every day.

She owns her own small apartment and a Japanese brand car. She wears high-end Valentino suits, carries Hermès bags, and sprays expensive perfume every day.

In Hong Kong, where every inch of land is at a premium, Tang Jing relies on her own abilities to live a life that is the envy of countless women.

Her favorite book is "Camel Xiangzi" by Lao She.

Because of Xiangzi’s tenacious vitality, it has always been the benchmark for her to strive in the workplace:

“People are very flexible and can live to old age and death in an environment like Xiangzi’s. , Heaven and earth are unkind and regard all things as stupid dogs.”

Tang Jing can be said to be a model of "strong woman". For her, love and marriage are the icing on the cake.

Because she doesn’t have to depend on anyone, she can live well without a man.

When it comes to love, Tang Jing's attitude has always been to let nature take its course, never compromise, let alone compromise.

Until I met Mo Jiaqian.

The Mo family is modest and is a lawyer. He is thirty-seven or eighteen years old, has thick eyebrows and big eyes, and is not very handsome.

Without a doubt, he is definitely a charming and interesting guy.

The first time I saw Mo Jiaqian, even Zijun couldn't help but admire in his heart:

The suit is not old, the watch is not showy, the shoes are clean and bright, and the tie is half It is loose, the color of the shirt is just right, and it is tied with a crocodile belt. There are no dazzling accessories all over the body. It is easy to pick it up and show everyone's style.

Tang Jing and I are a perfect match.

The key is that the two of them have the same topic, and even Zijun feels that being with them seems redundant.

Zijun could not understand the topics and jokes they talked about at all.

Mo Jiaqian is definitely Tang Jing’s cup of tea.

Therefore, Tang Jing was willing to let go of everything, choose to marry Mo Jiaqian, and move to Australia to live with her parents-in-law. She took off her business suits and high heels and lived a life of being a husband and raising children.

She wrote in her letter to Zijun:

"Marriage is like an underworld. People who have not joined do not know how terrible it is. Once they join, they dare not tell the horror of it. Therefore, the inside story will never be known to outsiders."

As smart as Tang Jing, sober and self-aware.

Control your marriage like a job, and you understand the truth.

Life is an illusion, as Lao She said: Being different will not work.

Some people say that the original novel has a very upright view. Zijun did not steal his best friend’s boyfriend, and everyone had a perfect ending.

Even Tang Jing, a female elite in the workplace, married into a married woman, originally just washing hands and making soup.

In fact, a person's life will eventually return to mediocrity, and Tang Jing knows it very well.

The reason why she has not gotten married is not that she has no suitable marriage partner,

but that she has not met the right person and has not made any plans for whom to enter the siege.

Everyone chooses a different way of life.

Just like Zijun said:

"I spent the first half of my life getting married and having children, while Tang Jing spent his time working hard to start a business, and then switched the other half of his life, each suited his own needs. suitable".

What Mo Jiaqian did to Tang Jing was just that he met the right person at the right time.

Life is long and the road is curved, but what does it matter? We will eventually arrive in Rome.