Is the man who forgave his wife for cheating happy later?

In marriage, if your wife betrays you, as a husband, will you choose to forgive? Aside from the jokes about green forgiveness hats on the Internet, I believe many people will choose divorce without hesitation. However, when we really encounter such a thing, we will feel the suffering, which is really a dilemma.

Choosing divorce means that a happy family has become fragmented. What if I don't get divorced? I always feel depressed when I choose to forgive. The husband once thought that after the divorce, everyone was relieved, but after seeing his wife's pleading and his immature children, the husband decided to give his wife another chance and take the last shot with his happiness.

Are those husbands who forgive their wives for cheating happy in the end? With this question, we interviewed three cuckolded husbands today and listened to their voices.

The first person we interviewed was Mr. Wang. Mr. Wang has a daughter who is in primary school. On the day when he found out that his wife was cheating on his colleagues, he collapsed. He also wanted a divorce, but his wife knelt on the ground and begged him to promise that it wouldn't happen again. Mr. Wang relented. He thought of his once proud wife, and now she is so humble. In order to maintain their marriage, Mr. Wang decided to give her another chance.

Mr. Wang also doesn't want his children to grow up without a mother. With their reunion, his wife is getting better and better to Mr. Wang, always trying to make up for it. But Mr. Wang felt that his wife was insincere, and he was afraid that his wife would betray him again. He secretly looks through his wife's mobile phone every day. When his wife goes out alone, he will think about it, and even he secretly goes out to follow him several times. Mr. Wang thinks he is very tired. If he had chosen a divorce, it might be easier now.

The second person we interviewed was Mr. Hu. He and his wife have been together for seventeen years, and the itch of seven years is no match for the arrangement of years. On another unexpected business trip, Mr. Hu found his wife and a young man checking in at a hotel. At that moment, his heart was broken and he wanted to divorce, but the old people at home strongly opposed it and looked at his elderly parents. Mr Hu chose to forgive him.

However, later life made us cry. When two people are together, there is no sweet feeling anymore. His wife's betrayal made it difficult for Mr. Hu to trust again. They walked slowly towards the stranger. The only intersection is their children. Only when you see a child will you show an embarrassed smile.

The third person we interviewed was Mr. Ma. Ma Yun is not surprised by his wife's infidelity. He said that he knew that his wife was a playboy before he got married, and he usually liked to play outside, but he restrained a lot after he got married. He has no intention of divorcing his wife. He thinks that women are all the same, and what he always pursues is false.

Mr. Ma's idea now is that everyone goes their separate ways, and the relationship between husband and wife exists in name only, just like the most familiar stranger, sitting face to face, but having nothing to say, only when he wakes up from his dream can he find himself crying.

In marriage, a wife's infidelity is an unintentional stab in her husband's heart, which means death or injury. Just because a husband chooses to forgive does not mean that he has forgotten the pain, and some injuries are irreparable. Therefore, I hereby advise all wives. If you don't want to live your life with guilt, don't try extramarital affairs, don't exchange temporary excitement for lifelong pain, and don't punish those who love you the most with your own mistakes.