Online dating met for the first time in half a year, and my boyfriend invited me to dinner in a five-star hotel but didn't pay the bill. Is this a liar?

My boyfriend and I met online, and they all say that online dating is unreliable, but I think all feelings are divided, and it is not necessarily true that real feelings will last forever.

However, I am still very cautious in dealing with him. I have known him for half a year, and he has asked me out several times, but I have never met him. At first, a friend told me that if you refuse several times and he ignores you, it must be a liar. Only by persisting can he really love you.

I think what she said is reasonable, and judging by this standard, he should not lie to me. Because I have rejected him many times in the past six months, but he has never been angry. Instead, he said that I am a good girl, and the more I refuse, the more I will cherish me.

after half a year's test, I felt that the conditions for meeting him were ripe, so I offered the idea of meeting him. He looked particularly happy and said that he would take me to the best local restaurant for dinner when we met for the first time.

knowing that I was going to meet, several of my best friends were worried and insisted on coming with me. When they learned that their boyfriend had set the date place in the most upscale hotel in our local area, they all gave a sigh of surprise. I think they must find it incredible.

Although I have seen his photos, I felt my heart beat immediately after seeing the real person. He is tall, clean and handsome. However, contrary to my surprise when I saw him, when he saw the four of us, he seemed to have a surprised expression on his face, but he soon recovered his calm.

he took us to the reserved private room and then asked us to order. I felt a little embarrassed and said just let him arrange it. At this time, girlfriends said that such a rich handsome guy, when meeting for the first time, how can he not let him bleed? I grabbed the menu and ordered a lot.

When my best friend ordered, my boyfriend's attention was always on me. He looked at me with a smile and said nothing, which made my heart tremble. After ordering, the waiter asked him to confirm. He waved and said, no, and then asked for a bottle of red wine through the wine list.

Seeing that he is so generous, several girlfriends are full of envy, and I also feel particularly bright on my face. In the process of eating, he also acted as a special gentleman, and from his conversation, he could hear that he was a person with a superior family. I didn't say anything, but my heart was full of happiness and I felt that my life was really good.

at the end, he stood up, smiled at us, said excuse me and went out. We all thought he had gone out to pay the bill, so we didn't say anything. After he went out, several of my girlfriends told me with jealousy that you were really lucky. You met such a good person. Then he started making fun of me.

then we waited for a long time before he came back, and we felt something was wrong. I didn't know he had left until I called the waiter to ask. First we were stupid, and then we were a little angry. Isn't he cheating on food and drinking? I can't get in touch with him, so we can't chip in and leave.

On the way home, I regretted it to death. My girlfriends spent money unjustly and were very unhappy, but when they saw me like this, they still comforted me and said that it was a loss in stock trading!

of course I'm not willing to be cheated like this, so I keep calling him. After a week, I finally got through. It turned out that he didn't want to lie to us, but felt that I didn't like to fall in love with him, but took my best friend to eat and drink, so I wanted to teach us a lesson. After learning the truth, he kept apologizing to me and said that he would transfer the money to me at once, hoping I could forgive him!

after hearing what he said, I was relieved and smiled and said no. Then he completely blacked out all his contact information. I think this is a beautiful misunderstanding, but he made me recognize a person clearly and avoided the regret in the second half of my life. Although I lost some money, it should be used to identify his character!