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How to arrange the wedding bed in Henan?

1. How to arrange pictures on the wedding bed?

custom

The door of the bed is facing the window, the wardrobe is along the hall, the door is not facing the cabinet, and the mirror is not facing the bed. Bedding is divided into bed making, account maintenance and shop opening. Sprinkle some peanuts, longan, red dates, lotus seeds, chestnuts and other dried fruits on the bed to symbolize the early birth of your son. As for the custom of making the bed, generally speaking, before the wedding, the woman needs to buy some quilts, and at the same time, she can find someone to make the quilts together. I also pay attention to details. In short, it is a good sign to bring blessings to the newcomers.

bedclothes

Generally, red is selected, and some areas require 0/8 pieces of bed/kloc, including four quilts, four mattresses, two pairs of pillows and two pairs of cushions.

Bed-making supplies

Generally speaking, the bed is made by a special person. The bed needs dried fruits such as peanuts, longan, red dates, lotus seeds and chestnuts;

Flowers: generally choose roses or lilies to play a decorative role;

Wedding photos: in addition to wedding photo frames, we should also prepare some photo albums for everyone to enjoy;

Candle: in ancient times, there must be red candles in the bridal chamber. In modern weddings, western-style candlesticks are also good decorative items;

Fruits: Dried fruits, fruits and snacks: These not only entertain guests, but also add a lot of festive atmosphere to the new house.

make the bed

Making the bed, also known as "tidying the room", "sweeping the bed", "making the bed" or "spreading the account", refers to a small ceremony arranged for the bridal chamber by a special person the day before the wedding. In the process of making the bed, auspicious words and jingles will be said in the process of folding the quilt, sweeping the bed and laying things, so as to wish the couple peace, success, happiness and good eloquence.

References:

Web page link of wedding bed layout

2. How should the new bed be placed?

Wedding candles-warmth

In today's new house decoration, candles are the most choice, and various styles of bridal chamber candles can cater to various styles of new house decoration. Rose-shaped goblet candles are warm and magnificent, which are best placed in front of the bed, adding a mysterious and beautiful warmth to the wedding night. All kinds of fruit candles are tangible and colored, or warm and cordial, or cool and pleasant. Do you still want to have a candlelight dinner from time to time? Then, besides beautiful tableware, there must be beautiful candles.

Happy wedding photos-sweet

In the new house, what can best reflect the personality color and highlight the hobby and aesthetic taste of the host at home is his own wedding photo. In addition to carefully taken wedding photos, you can also choose some photos of your daily life. Sticking a substrate on the photo can enrich the environment of the new house. White substrate is more active, suitable for playful and lively wedding photos. In addition, you can also choose gold and silver substrates to match the elegant atmosphere of the new house. After the photo is taken, you can wear a string on your back and hang it on the wall. The same can be done for halls, aisles, corridors, bedrooms and restaurants. Let everyone congratulate your friends and feel your happiness and sweetness, and let them envy your skills of publicizing your personality!

Yes-man-tacit understanding

Traditional red silk pillows will add many traditional Chinese wedding flavors to the family, while bright red, auspicious and exquisite patterns of Yuanyang or rich peony will give people a lively celebration. The colorful silk pillows on the beds and sofas in the new house can not only provide a comfortable support for the friends in the bridal chamber after the tired wedding ceremony, but also let the joy in the room flow freely. And people scattered, two people sleep on the pillow, and even form a tacit understanding of * * * responsibility. So harmonious, how can it not be infected?

Not just an auspicious celebration-tolerance

The red happy character on the door is the symbol of the new house, which is naturally essential. The huge and handsome happy characters are decorated with auspicious magpie patterns. All kinds of happy words jump between doors and windows, like countless magpies, twittering to convey good news and bless new people. Scattered red not only plays the role of embellishment, but also does not give people a sense of irritability because of its large area. Can accurately convey the atmosphere and generosity of the East, so that the layout of new houses is rich in oriental characteristics.

A century-long commitment to harmony

From love to marriage, the contribution of flowers can not be underestimated. Show love with roses, and show determination with forget-me-not. Lily is born with beauty. Besides elegant colors and flowers, the most important thing is that her name gives people an auspicious blessing. In terms of decoration, whether the whole bundle or a single branch is placed in a flowerpot at will, no matter where it appears in the new house, it shows a kind of peaceful happiness.

Generally speaking, the color contrast between Bai Baihe and indoor furniture and furnishings is great, which makes it easier to create an overall indoor aesthetic effect. The application of single Bai Baihe can especially express the delicate feelings of new people.

Premature delivery-hope

All kinds of lovely newly-married dolls, some with funny expressions and some warm and romantic, have brought a rare lively atmosphere to the new house. Childishness can break the dullness of married life. The smiling face of the doll contains the hope that the newlyweds will become parents as soon as possible, and the childishness and liveliness of the doll inject vitality into the decoration of the new house. In such warmth and hope, the new house is more like a home.

3. How to arrange the wedding bed the day before marriage?

Usually buy a new bed.

The new bed is not reliable for the placement of doors and windows, and the mirror is not reliable for the placement of the bed. Do not pile up sundries under the bed.

Bed-maker

People who make beds are usually called "well-off people", that is, parents are perfect, brothers and sisters are sound, spouses are alive, children are healthy, and life is worry-free. After making the bed, the man should wrap a red envelope for the "Quanfu people".

Bed making time

The morning or morning before the wedding. The bride enters the house at the high tide, so it depends on the time of the high tide and the old almanac.

Bed-making supplies

Bedding: hi-quilts, pillows, mattresses, cushions, everything should be uniform; Dried fruits such as peanuts, longan, red dates, lotus seeds and chestnuts are scattered on the bed; Flowers: generally choose roses or lilies as bedside decorations; Wedding photos: wedding photo frames are generally placed on the bedside table; Candle: In ancient times, red candles were used to burn in the bridal chamber. Western candlesticks can be used in modern weddings.

Anchuang

Put quilts, bedding, pillows, cushions, etc. The bed depends on the "all-blessed people". Then "spreading the account" means spreading some dried fruits on the new bed, such as red dates, longan, peanuts, lotus seeds and so on. And say something auspicious in the process of communication.

press machine

Usually choose one or two little boys to press on the new bed and wish the couple a happy baby. Some places will pay attention to the boy's zodiac, such as dragons or not compete with the new boy's zodiac. The little boy's red envelope must also be given. If you are afraid of trouble, you can buy a pair of press dolls and put them on the wedding bed, instead of the little boy.

taboo

Widows and childless women are not allowed to enter the new house during the installation of the bed. Bedding must be brand new and can't be cleaned. No one else can sit on the couple's bed before the wedding. The newlyweds themselves had better not sit on the bed before the wedding.

4. How to make a new bed when you get married?

Bed loading: Choose a good day and move the new bed to the right place a few days before the wedding. Then before the wedding, the man's female elder is responsible for making the bed, laying mattresses, sheets, dragons and phoenixes on the bed, and sprinkling all kinds of happy fruits, such as red dates, longan, dried litchi and red mung beans. After the bed is installed, no one is allowed to enter the new house and touch the new bed before the new couple enters the house on the wedding night.

Make the bed: this person must be a male elder and a female. The requirements are that there are old people in the world and young people, and the family is happy (that is to say, this person's family is relatively sound, and the child is preferably a boy. Although there is no preference for boys now, some families still have some traditional ideas, which need not be argued and believed, and this person's family conditions should be better. Vulgarity means having money, which bodes well for newcomers. This is for everyone to choose. Things to put on the bed: red bedding is definitely important, and then a few things are needed, which means "red dates, peanuts, longan and lotus seeds", that is, "early birth."

On the wedding night, after the couple enters the new house, they can let their children eat happy fruit in bed. This is called "pressing the bed", which means a hundred children and a thousand grandchildren.

The groom's brother of the same age can make trouble in the new house. In ancient times, it was thought that "the couple don't make trouble, the more they make trouble, the more they make trouble", which can exorcise evil spirits for the couple and make them lucky after marriage.

5. How to put a new bed in the wedding is lucky?

If we combine the essence of traditional geomantic omen with modern science, we need to pay attention to many aspects. The following points are for newlyweds' reference: 1.

The air in the new house should be smooth, so as to avoid the smell of new furniture and decorative wood (avoid ebony and black) and paint, which will smoke, block people's respiratory system and affect their heads and brains. 2。

Try not to use pink in the new bed, otherwise it will make people nervous, panic, uneasy, and easily lose their temper, so that quarrels often occur. 3。

The bed in the bridal chamber is unreliable, near the west. 4。

Both sides of the bed in the bridal chamber should not face the bathroom door, so that the body can be safe for a long time. 5 ? There must be no sound in the west of the wedding bed.

6。 Don't put TV in front of the bed in the new house to avoid neurasthenia.

7。 It is best not to look in the big mirror before the bed and around the bridal chamber, so as not to affect the nightlife of the couple.

8。 Never put a stereo on the bedside table of the new house, so as not to cause brain neurasthenia.

9。 It's better not to hang big wedding photos on the bed in the bridal chamber. It's too depressing.

10。 Never rush the doors on both sides of the bed in the bridal chamber, lest people feel uneasy and have a headache.

1 1。 The bed of the new house can't be pressed against the beam, and the ceiling decoration is no problem.

12。 Don't lean against the French window in the bridal chamber, because the sun is too strong, and the couple are not safe.

13。 Try to use some built-in bedside or unique lighting to make the whole bed look warm and lovely under the soft light.

14。 There must be a backer behind the bed, not empty, and it is best to stick to the wall, otherwise it will easily lead to hallucinations and schizophrenia.

15。 The shape of the bed should be quadrilateral, not polygonal or circular, otherwise it will make the owner feel uncomfortable when sleeping.

16。 At the same time, the bed should not be footless or attached to the ground, otherwise the moisture on the ground may invade the owner's body, causing diseases such as weak heart function.

6. How to put the new bed?

In daily life, people spend one-third of their time with their beds, and their relationship is very deep.

In the home geomantic omen, the bed is also an indispensable and extremely important furniture. The quality of bed placement directly affects people's emotions and psychology, especially love and marriage, and then affects their luck in life.

So since ancient times, people in China are very particular about beds. The first is about the orientation of the bed.

As we all know, the bed should of course be in the bedroom. After choosing a bedroom, you can find a suitable place to sleep. The orientation of the bed refers to which direction the bed should be placed in the bedroom and which direction the bed should be oriented.

According to the ancient geomantic theory, the bed should be placed in "the life is auspicious and the house is auspicious". It means that the orientation of the bed needs to be based on its own eight characters, and the seats in the whole house have always been fixed.

For example, if the owner likes the wood in the eight characters, he can put the bed on the east side of the bedroom. If you like gold, you can put it in the west. When installing a bed, the orientation of the head and tail of the bed is very important.

Generally speaking, if the owner likes wood, the head of the bed faces east and the end of the bed faces west; If the owner likes gold, the head of the bed faces west and the end of the bed faces east; If you like water, the head of the bed should face north and the end of the bed should face south; If you like fire, the head of the bed should face south and the end of the bed should face north; If you like dry soil, you should face the bed southwest or northwest; If you like wet soil, you should turn your head to the southeast or northeast ... while considering the use of eight characters, you should also consider the good or bad luck of the house. For example, if you sit in a house with northeast facing southwest (Genshan Xiang Kun), the hexagram of southwest (Kun) is "the elephant of Erhei disease", so when you go to bed, you should avoid this unlucky direction and don't sit in northeast facing southwest.

Of course, feng shui turns in turn, and even if it faces Ji when you are in bed, bad luck will turn in this direction. At this time you need to hang a string of six copper coins to melt it. After the orientation of the bed is determined, it is also necessary to consider whether the surrounding environment is in harmony with the bed.

For example, there should be no beams above the bed, and there should be no chandeliers and ceiling fans above the bed. If these things are pressed on the bed, it will not only affect luck, but also make the owner sick or injured. There are also some customs, that is, the bed should not be placed along the direction of the door, but perpendicular to the direction of the door. But if the room is small, the vertical bed will hedge against the door. If the door is facing the bed or a part of the bed, a screen or curtain should be set to cover it.

Secondly, emphasize bedtime. The bed is the most important thing in the family. The so-called moving, in fact, is mainly to install the bed.

Therefore, in the China lunar calendar, moving is called "fixing the bed", and timely moving generally refers to the time of fixing the bed. When to go to bed, first of all, check the zodiac calendar, choose a suitable zodiac auspicious day for going to bed, choose a good zodiac auspicious day, and put the bed neatly when choosing a good zodiac auspicious day.

Not all auspicious days marked "bed-fixing" in the old calendar are suitable for bed-fixing, which also varies from person to person. From a big perspective, when choosing an auspicious day, we should also consider the owner's zodiac sign, avoid the day of conflict with the owner, and avoid people who have conflicts with the owner in bed, so as to create a harmonious and auspicious atmosphere.

As for the actual time to put the bed on the bed, you can choose a good auspicious day to move the bed, or you can move the bed in a predetermined position before that, but don't adjust it. Wait until the auspicious day, then adjust the bed.

The third is the custom ceremony of fixing the bed. These customs and ceremonies vary from place to place. Generally speaking, it is enough to follow local customs and rituals.

These customs and rituals are well known to the elderly, and they can be asked to be consultants for bedding. One of the more * * sexual bed-making ceremonies is to make some necessary sacrifices.

In some places, there is also the custom of offering sacrifices to the god of bed. Because most of these customs have been lost or changed, there is no need to copy them mechanically. When you are in bed, you only need to worship, burn incense and pray sincerely in front of Buddha, Bodhisattva or Kitchen God.

After the bed is set, the next important thing is to make the bed. There are also some different stresses on making the bed. In some places, elders are invited to make beds, while in others, brothers of the same age are invited to make beds. It is popular to invite unmarried women to make the bed.

Not only do the contents of making beds vary from place to place, but there are also differences between moving to make beds and getting married to make beds. These different ways of making beds are nothing more than for good luck and well-being. Specific methods of making beds can refer to local customs and suggestions from elders.

When installing the bed, we should also pay attention to the material of the bed and the color of the bedding, which should best match the owner's eight characters and five elements. To sum up, in addition to the most basic rest needs, the following needs must also be considered: first, unmarried beds, praying for the elderly to match, early marriage; Second, get married and have a good bed, pray for husband and wife's love and have children early; The third is to move the bed, bid farewell to the old and welcome the new, and pray for good luck; Fourth, long-term sleep infertility, re-bed, pray for rest.

The fifth is to sleep for a long time, go back to sleep and adjust your luck. Bed is an indispensable intimate partner in life. If you put the bed well, I believe that luck in life will also attract money and avoid evil spirits, which will change.