Why can't a woman attend a wedding after she is pregnant?

Can't attend the wedding after pregnancy? This should be a superstitious statement. I asked my grandmother, and she said, "If a pregnant woman goes to a wedding, the bride can't get pregnant for three years after marriage, which will also make the newlyweds unhappy and unlucky for other people's families. "

My grandmother must be superstitious about the older generation. If pregnant women really have such great ability, what about newlyweds who don't want children after marriage? Why not invite a pregnant woman? In fact, the real reason why you can't attend the wedding after pregnancy is not just superstition. There are two main reasons:

Many people are crowded, and the safety of pregnant women is not guaranteed: everyone who has attended the wedding knows that the relatives and friends of the couple will basically be present on the wedding day, and the crowd is crowded, so pregnant women are easily squeezed when they go. In addition, the music and salute of the day will also scare pregnant women and fetuses, and the safety of pregnant women can not be guaranteed. Marriage was originally a happy event. If something happens to the pregnant woman again, it will really make the new family feel "unlucky" and make the pregnant woman suffer. So many superstitious people are very reluctant to let pregnant women attend the wedding.

Those who hold happy events, if there are pregnant women at home, will also arrange for pregnant women to avoid the lively moment of the wedding, or stay in a safe corner to watch the ceremony. Therefore, for their own safety, and in order not to cause trouble to the newlyweds after pregnancy, pregnant mothers had better attend the wedding less, even if they attend the wedding, they should pay attention.

Weighing the two "happiness", even pregnant women are too busy: nowadays, many young people don't care about superstition, and even if they know that their relatives and friends are pregnant, they won't mind their attending the wedding. However, marriage and pregnancy are "happy events". Weighing these two "happy events" is naturally the most important wedding day for newcomers, so people will be busy with weddings. If they are too busy, they will not be able to accommodate pregnant women. If some pregnant women are in poor health, need help to take care of them, or are prone to hunger and thirst, or need to find a toilet because of frequent urination, they will not be taken good care of. This is actually very inconvenient for pregnant women. In addition, the wedding process is complicated, the time is generally long, pregnant women are not energetic, and it is not good to attend all the time with a belly.

In addition, although young people don't care about superstitious views, it doesn't rule out that parents and other elders of both husband and wife don't mind. If everything goes well at the wedding and the husband and wife are happy after marriage, that's good. If the wedding doesn't go smoothly, or the married life of husband and wife is unhappy, some people who are full of words will inevitably involve these "unfavorable" situations to the pregnant women who come to attend the wedding.

This kind of thing is common in some backward places. So in order to avoid suspicion, some pregnant women's families will also tell pregnant women not to attend other people's weddings as much as possible. Of course, pregnant women can also go if the host family doesn't mind and sincerely invites them. As long as you always pay attention to safety and find a reliable person to accompany you, "double happiness" can naturally go hand in hand.