I booked a hotel and don't want to get married.

1. It's a bit far-fetched to simply say that personality is incompatible and break off marriage. Because after all, after several months of contact, it should be certain whether the personality is suitable or not. If you really find some bad habits of the man after the engagement, and the woman thinks it is unacceptable, you must bring them up as soon as possible, and it is best to discuss them with the man's parents without being tough.

On the issue of compensation, if the man buys banquets and household appliances after the engagement, the woman will be responsible. If it is bought before the engagement, the man is responsible for handling it himself.

Although the woman did not participate in the purchase of home appliance rings and other supplies, it was also because of the woman, so it cannot be said that the man bought it himself. It's none of her business not to discuss with the woman.

I think the woman should apologize to the man's family first (there is nothing wrong with the man in the description) and think about the other person's situation. The man's money and feelings have been hurt, and the feelings are irreparable, so the man will try his best to make the woman make up for the economic losses.

It can be seen that the man is claiming compensation from the woman with emotion. If the woman doesn't want to bow her head and admit her mistake, she should generously agree to the man's request.