"If you don't kneel down to your biological parents, you won't kneel down to your in-laws." What do you think of the bride Mary?

The ancients said that there are four happy events in life: long drought meets sweet rain; Meet an old friend in another country; Wedding night; To beno. 1. Especially marriage is the greatest happy event in a person's life. However, with the development of society, the cultural traditions that we have inherited for thousands of years are getting weaker and weaker, and even getting married is getting easier and easier.

It is really speechless to see such a story. What was originally a happy event turned into a joke. Share it with you here and see who is wrong.

Zi Han and Sun Gang met in college and fell in love. After graduation, they began to talk about marriage. But about how to get married, Zhao Li was very unhappy and even had a headache. Today, at the age of 24, she is a young person in a new era. With knowledge and culture, she especially hates red tape.

Originally, after she planned to register with Sun Gang, she simply held a ceremony and they went on a trip. Sun Gang didn't have much opinion, and Sun Gang's family didn't say anything. "Marriage is a great event for a generation. How can you be careless? It must be beautiful, "Sun Gang's parents agreed.

There is really no way, Zi Han had to reluctantly agree. So saying began to get busy. I didn't expect the first trouble to come so quickly. The people of the Sun family said that they had been "good" and would be "blind" next year, and there would be no good life. The wedding can only be held this year, and the date is still set on the 28th of the lunar calendar 1 1 month.

Originally, Zi Han and his wife planned to get married on May 1 next year, and they just went out for their honeymoon. Now, Zhao Gang's family has arranged the wedding in winter. Isn't that a sin? But the whole family insisted, and her mother advised her to forget it and do as the Romans do. On the wedding day, Zi Han reluctantly agreed. When she didn't expect it, there was still a lot of trouble behind.

Especially when you get married, it's like shooting TV. When asked to kneel and kowtow, Zi Han finally couldn't help it. She said that she didn't agree with anything, so she just stood without kowtowing. At this time, Zhao Gang's relatives actually came to hold her head and let her submit.

Zi Han got angry at once. She said angrily, "I haven't even kneeled my biological parents, let alone my in-laws. If this link can be avoided, if this marriage is inevitable, I will not get married. " The jubilant scene suddenly fell silent. Later, although he avoided this link, his relationship with his in-laws has been bad.

Conclusion: I think Zi Han did something wrong. Although the times have improved, there is still an old saying, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do" and "Marry a chicken and follow a dog". But she violated the custom of her husband's family. He had made a scene before he came in. Can he get on well with his in-laws in the future? Everything goes well at home. If the whole family can't live in harmony, how can life be peaceful? The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along with. Isn't this worse?

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