?We need "love encounters" in our lives

I always feel that sometimes people’s lives are very monotonous, like a clockwork machine. Repeating the same life every day, wandering on the black and white line of dawn and dusk, waiting for the silent future. If you live like this for too long, you will get bored and tired. All you can do is to give life a little freshness and make it richer and more exciting, and an affair is the best spice of life!

We know that when you mention the word affair with someone, the other person will definitely think of hotels, handsome guys and beautiful women, crazy ***, etc. And the affair I am talking about is not the kind of affair we often mention in our mouths. In other words, the kind of romantic encounter that is limited to between men and women is just a part of the romantic encounter. In fact, the romantic encounter is a very beautiful thing.

Aventure is a playful word

People often say that when the sun shines high, beauty is beyond compare and so on. Yan, judging from the glyph, has the word "feng" on the left and the word "色" on the right. Taken together, there are colorful and colorful colors. Food and sex are originally human nature. People are born to like various "colors", and color is a collection of the universe. The word "Yan" itself has a beautiful meaning, so having an affair means encountering beauty! What I want to say about people in this world is that there is no one who doesn’t like beauty, and no one doesn’t want to encounter all kinds of beautiful things in a limited life.

If a well-behaved and step-by-step life is the main course, then an affair is the seasoning.

The joy of life comes from your attitude towards life

Boredom has become the reason for many people to do certain things nowadays. A man successfully made an appointment with a woman through WeChat, and then they had sex. When this woman's husband cheated on his wife, she said regretfully: "Because I am so bored at home alone and have no fun!" An employee was playing games at work, but was caught by his boss and was After being scolded, the employee said with an aggrieved look: "I'm so bored, I don't know what to do?"

There are too many people in this life, "I'm so bored, I don't know what to do" The first thing that comes to these people’s minds. Therefore, some people stay at home because they have nothing to do, and the more they stay at home, the more bored they become. The more bored they become, the more they become lazy. When they become lazy, they want to sleep. When they sleep, they will gain weight. If they gain weight, their figure will be out of shape. People who are not in good shape will not be confident. If people are not confident, their work will not go smoothly, and they will lose the courage to fall in love. The more they become bored and stay at home, they will fall into a vicious cycle.

Sometimes, young people who feel that modern life is boring can learn from the old people who get up early every day to exercise. They are full of expectations for life every day and use the rest of their time to live as wonderfully as possible. They would do what they wanted to do and talk and laugh. I used to not understand why the elderly got up so early. I always thought it was because of their physiological reasons. They had body aches after being in bed for a long time. Later I found out that another reason for getting up early was that they didn’t want to waste time and were worried that they would fall asleep again. They can't see their friends anymore, so they wake up to exercise and see their old friends.

The attitude of the elderly towards life is always optimistic, simple and unsophisticated. I remember once CCTV interviewed the elderly about their wishes for the new year. Their wishes were very simple and consistent: children Peace and good health. Maybe because it is simple, life is full of fun. Our current society is so colorful, but I feel bored. Should I reflect on myself?

Life also needs the thought of life

From a philosophical point of view, life itself is philosophy, because philosophy is a discipline about principles and methodology. And life is a collection of principles and methodologies. Use life to guide life, and life must have thoughts of life. The methodology of life is to make our life better and more interesting.

Aventure is a kind of methodology. An affair between people is the most basic affair and the lowest level of affair. The brief novelty and excitement returned to the past after one night, leaving numbness and confusion.

And I would like to provide you with an idea about romantic encounters in life: life is originally composed of countless romantic encounters! Life is an affair, a person you meet unexpectedly; a thing that makes you unable to calm down; a scenery that makes people forget to leave; a comfortable and comfortable mood; a stranger's smile, etc. are all a kind of affair, as long as If you feel it, you will encounter beauty. When you encounter beauty, it will become your romantic encounter.

You need a little beauty in your life to live more interestingly and gain more happiness! So that life will not be boring and boring, and you will not be able to perceive life.

A person who knows how to live and loves life will always have his own attitude towards life, live with a beautiful thought of life and a simple and easy way of life. Treat life as you treat every kind of romantic encounter. Our lives need romantic encounters, and when we encounter beauty, we have romantic encounters!

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