What is it like to meet a noble person? How important is a noble person?

Being able to meet a noble person means that you are very lucky and a blessed person. Being able to cherish it when you meet a noble person is a fate cultivated in your previous life. The noble person is the person who changes your destiny, not everyone In life, you will meet noble people to help you. Many people have passed by noble people, or turned a blind eye, do not know how to cherish, do not deserve it, no one owes anyone, there is no need to help you, but if we know how to be grateful, we will know Only by repaying kindness can you deserve the help of noble people, so that your career can go smoothly. I am grateful to every noble person in my life! Hello everyone, I am Jiulong! The beggar at that time became an entrepreneur and took out 1 million to thank his benefactor. The benefactor's reply was admirable.

The following true story is in the first person for the convenience of everyone. My name is He Rongfeng, a native of Youyang, Chongqing. In 1986, my father was a butcher. He liked to drink. After drinking, he stayed in a small hotel to sleep. The money was stolen by a thief. It should be more than 8,000. In 1986, for In rural areas and mountainous areas, that was already a lot of money. The most critical problem was that the money did not belong to our family. It was my father who bought other people’s pigs from other farmers’ homes and sold them, thus losing other people’s money. In the early 1990s, having 10,000 yuan was very impressive. Therefore, 8,000 yuan is a huge number. The family suddenly changed and we were in debt

I was less than 12 years old at the time, and my father was a pig butcher. At that time, based on my father's reputation, he bought the pigs of our neighbors. After my father bought and killed the pigs, he went to the county town and sold the meat before paying them. The money my dad lost was nearly 20 pigs. My dad was thinking what should I do? This time when I got home, people were pressing for money, so my dad chose not to go home. I went to work in Guizhou and left without saying goodbye. It must have been more than two months, working hard and slowly paying back the money. That was his idea, but the more than two months since he was gone, it has made our family miserable. Usually after he bought someone else's pig, he would return the money to the other person within a week. The neighbor who sold the pig came to collect debts and took away all the valuable things in the house.

In this way, if you haven’t paid back other people’s money for more than two months, others will become anxious. After working hard for more than a year and not getting any money to raise this pig, who would want to do it? Neighbors came to see me in an endless stream. There are more than a dozen creditors. When I came here for the first time, it was my mother who greeted me and the creditors were very polite. The second time they came, it was different. They felt that their money was in danger. Each person only had three to four hundred yuan, which was the price of a pig at that time. So I stopped doing it. When guests came, I would see my mother. We fed piglets and had cows at home, so we took away the pigs and the cows, talked about some dirty work, and left with a lot of curses. There are also people who really take action. I didn’t understand it when I was a child. If something happened to my dad, he would always come to scold my mom. Why would he hit my mom? I can't even understand it. I often come back from time to time, and when I put my schoolbag away, and discover this situation, I get a kitchen knife when I enter the house, and then follow my mother to fight with the creditor. At that time, I was left with a very hateful feeling in my heart. When I think of my mother's pitiful appearance, when I talk about it now, I feel very uncomfortable. I felt very sad. I felt that our family was suffering too much at that time. I went out to work when I was fourteen or fifteen years old to earn money and pay it back to my creditors.

Therefore, I think our family will definitely not be able to rely on my father. Where is my mother? A woman has limited capabilities. There is a sister in front of me. My father and my mother are married for the second time. At that time, my sister was also married and her family was in a bad situation, so we couldn’t count on her. I also have a younger sister, and I thought at the time that she must be counting on me. I'm the only man, so I guess you can count on me. As the saying goes in rural areas: One way out is to be a soldier, and the other is to study. I have neither of these two conditions. At that time, I no longer had the conditions to study and had no money. There is no diploma to be a soldier. What to do? So, then choose to work. When I was fourteen or fifteen years old, I said, Mom, I am almost there now and grown up, I will go out to work. My mother cried when she said it. Other people's children were still being treasured when they were this old, but our children were going to go out to work.

This is what my mother said at the time, and I was so profound. I said that I already have the strength, and I must go out and pay off my father's debts. I said I hated them, so I owed them some money. The three of us went out to work together. We had no money to beg and walked to Wenling.

We knew the fellow villagers at that time. They said at that time that they were going to Zhejiang. I brought 100 yuan with me, but I couldn't find a job when I arrived. Two of our friends said that they had a sister in Wenling. They said it would be okay for me to find a job there, and asked me if I could go? I said I would go, there would be a total of 3 people, and it would cost 50 yuan. We went back to Jinhua and took a bus. The bus ride to Yonghan cost ten yuan per person, but we had no money at all. Then let’s walk, towards Wenling. My feet were covered in blood blisters the first day I went out. I have no money on me, not even a penny, so I have to beg and go straight to Wenling. Meeting a noble sister changed my life with a "meal of grace"

Passing by my sister's Xianju place, we begged for a few dollars in those places before Xianju. I went to Xianju the next day and walked to my sister's place. It was late in the evening, and the village was on Provincial Highway 104, on the roadside. My sister was in her 20s at the time. When she walked home, the three of us followed behind her. When my sister arrived at the door of the house, she suddenly turned around and asked us: "What do you do?" Then one of us who was older said, "Sister!" Don't be afraid. We were walking down from Jinhua Railway Station when our wallet was stolen. After walking for many days, the soles of our feet were bruised with blood blisters. "We were very sloppy at the time, and my sister said, "Come in, then. My sister really didn't have that kind of precaution at that time. She was simple and didn't have such thoughts at that time. At that time, her parents were very willing to help people. My sister said, "Then Just cook for us, and we did make several dishes. It was one day when I didn't eat a bite of rice. At that time, I ate the most tofu, and there was only a little bit of soup left, so I soaked it in rice. I passed out after eating, the feeling of passing out. I was sweating profusely and suddenly overeating. I hadn't had a full meal in several days. At that time, large bowls were used for meals, and we all ate two or three bowls of rice. When eating, to put it poorly, it's like gobbling it down. When we go to pack the food, my sister will no longer watch us. She is very kind. Even if she has to give, she will do it in a way that respects you and does not hurt you. She will let you eat freely without wanting to let you eat. Your embarrassment has been seen by others. This eldest sister is very intellectual. Sister Guiren treats us like family members. Not only does she provide us with food and housing, but she also helps us find jobs

Because when we first asked for food, others would just give us some, a bowl, or even eat outside. Let's eat at home, but this time it's carefully cooked, let's be full. After eating, the eldest sister heard from us that there were blood blisters on the soles of her feet, so she quickly boiled hot water. At that time, she was boiling hot water in an iron pot. At that time, there were no conditions like today. After eating, the pot was boiled and water was boiled to wash the feet. At that time, it really could only be like this, so let’s soak our feet quickly. After soaking her feet, she felt more comfortable. After taking care of us, she also arranged accommodation for us. She did not treat us as bad people. The eldest sister did not think so much at the time. The eldest sister and her parents were there. The eldest sister believes that we come out to find things to do, and if we want to make money, she will first settle us down. She goes out to find jobs for us. It is really a one-stop service. They cooked, boiled water, washed our feet, provided accommodation, and even helped us find jobs. Unexpectedly, my eldest sister even found jobs for us. This flattered us. We had finished our meal and were ready to leave, let alone sleeping here. After finishing the meal, the eldest sister started asking us what was going on. We told my sister what happened at that time. My sister told me that she was working in a button factory at the time and she was looking for jobs for us. Take a look and let us stay there tonight. My sister went out that night and arranged for us to stay. It was the most filling meal we had and the most solid sleep we had since we left home. My sister not only gave us food on the road, but also gave us money to find a job.

That night was more comfortable than staying in a five-star hotel now.

The eldest sister found one or two jobs for us, but we thought the three of us must be together, so we still wanted to go to Huangyan. Because the conditions there in Xianju were not as good as those in Huangyan, I knew at the time that jobs in Huangyan might be easier to find. The next morning we were sent to that place, which was very close to the county seat. The bus to Huangyan passed by the door of the eldest sister’s house and we were dropped off on the roadside because the fare to Huangyan at that time was 7 yuan each. My sister gave us ten yuan each and brought us some dry food. The dry food was steamed bread slices, and we were given a handful of bananas. Bananas in 1986 were a rarity because there were no roads and no mineral water at that time. The eldest sister asked us to bring bananas because the steamed bun slices were relatively dry at that time. The bananas given by the eldest sister could quench our thirst relatively speaking. We had a full meal at the eldest sister's house and had a good sleep. The eldest sister also paid us the fare, dry food and a banana. At that time, I ate the eldest sister's food and took the eldest sister's food. To be honest, I met such people on the road very rarely. We were very touched and very lucky at that time. Although there were no tears when we said goodbye, we were all moved and excited. So, our boss was also moved at that time. He said, sister, you have to tell us your address. After we find a job? We'll send the money back to you. At that time, my sister said, "We don't have to pay back the money. We have found a job. We just need to write a letter to say we are safe." It was just like family members. When they left their address, I wrote it down, and I remembered it in my head. On the way to find a job, the three of us got separated.

The salary at that time was about 70 or 80 yuan a month. The eldest sister gave us half a month's rations. The eldest sister was a ray of sunshine in our difficult journey. When I left, I was very touched. Maybe I was the one who was most touched. I made an oath at that place. I said I would definitely come back to this place, and it would be a completely new side. This was the oath I made when I left. We later went to Wenling, but we didn't find a job as we had hoped. At that time, I borrowed money from that relative's house and borrowed the travel expenses to go to Tianjin. The three of us did not travel together all the time. When we were walking to Tianjin, we took a separate bus. The younger two of us did not buy tickets, but the older one did. When passing through Beijing, the train conductor at that time checked the tickets, and the ticket checking was very strict. He drove us to the boiler room to stay there and went to sleep above. When we all fell asleep, our boss was laid off in Tianjin. But the two of us had already passed the station, so we came down and asked where we were. We arrived in Shenyang earlier, and it was like this. It was a mistake. I want to work on my own to pay off my family's debt as soon as possible

I earned 5 yuan a day in Shenyang and worked as a plumber and electric welder for three months. After that, I just heard people say that furniture factories make more money, so I joined the furniture factory as a laborer. I went to work as an apprentice. I was earning three hundred a month at that time, and I have been working there ever since. After I started working as an apprentice, I discovered that my 300 yuan was the lowest, and the entry level was 300 yuan. There were spray painters, and technicians. People were earning one or two thousand, and it was normal to earn 1,800 yuan. . I thought it would be easy to pay off the debt. Why not pay off my father's debt in more than a year? Then I decided to do this job, that is, I have achieved my goal. I followed suit. At the end of 1993, I started to find a master. The painting job was a technical job. I worked for him as an apprentice, and he gave me 500 yuan. In half a year, he gave me 800 yuan. I learned it. At that time, our boss admitted to repaying the 10 yuan, and it was his job to write a letter back. This was the concept at the time. He was responsible for repaying the debt. We each borrowed one hundred for what he later borrowed. That was the second year, and we made money to repay it. My sister’s kind deeds affected my life.

At that time, I thought that I had such a good sister, but I didn’t have enough money around me. My biggest wish at that time was to pay off my dad’s debt. At that time, workers were easy to find and not many were skilled, so I just learned it. Moreover, the owner of the furniture factory was very satisfied with the work he did at that time. I told him, I will contract this job with you.

I started out as a contractor. I brought more than ten people with me. I did a good job and became famous. I was only twenty at that time. Before I became an entrepreneur, I thought of my eldest sister. At the end of 1995, I paid off my dad’s debts. In 1995, I became a foreman and contracted three small factories. I took 7,000 yuan home. I mailed 3,000 yuan to my mother on the way. By then I had money and my father came back. That time I returned home in fine clothes and paid the money back to the creditor. I was really proud and awesome. I asked my father to pay off the debts. Those creditors who had disputes with me were the ones who had conflicts with my mother. My sister influenced me. My hatred towards them disappeared, and I thought things were normal in the past. I left Xianju for a day, and my sister influenced me. She was the first good person I met since I came out of society. At that time, she influenced me with her behavior, kindness, generosity, mind and style, and I felt To have less hatred and learn from my sister, I will bury that hatred. I have been trying every means to find my sister's whereabouts for 20 years

At that time, I thought of looking for my sister in 1996. I went home at the end of 1995 to pay off my father's debt. In 1996, I couldn't hold my breath anymore. I felt a little more confident, and I felt like I could do it. I can earn two to three thousand a month, and my father's debt has been paid off. Now I am qualified to write to my sister, and I am also qualified to go to her. This was the vow I made at that time. If I stood in front of my sister with a new side, I think it would be almost the same. I felt that when I grew up as a man, if she needed my help, I should go and help her, that’s what I thought at that time. I started writing letters. I actually didn’t go. I sent many letters but no reply. When I met my sister, she said that she had left that place at the end of 1995 and later told me that she had gone to develop somewhere else. I have been looking for her since the beginning of 1996, 1994, and 1995. In my heart, I have been missing this sister, such a good person. I wrote my first letter in 1996. I wrote letters occasionally, and I have been looking for him for nearly 20 years. I went to the Public Security Bureau many times to check my household registration and my sister. I entered my sister’s name into the Public Security Bureau. Now in the Northeast Public Security Bureau, many people know about this. I looked for her and went to the Public Security Bureau for three days to check. I found the ones in 2006 and 2013. On March 3, 2013, we talked on the phone. This is because Shenyang, a friend and colleague of mine, asked me, do you know this place? I am that person from Xianju. I said, brother, you must help me to fulfill one of my wishes, one of my dreams, and one of my knots. My friend helped me find Sister Guiren

He has been looking for me since I met him in 2000. That was the morning of March 2, 2013, when he called me. I was overjoyed. I found her. She must be the sister you mentioned. She said she no longer lives in Xian. At that time, I was coming out of the company. I immediately ran into the car. I closed the door and was alone in the car. I started calling my sister. I was moved to tears. The voice was unfamiliar to me at the time, but later on, after we chatted for a few words, I recognized it and asked, "Are you my sister?" Is your name Dai Xingfen? But before that, my friend had already talked to my sister on the phone. My sister said that I have never helped people from Shenyang, but I have only helped a few people from Sichuan. I still remember. At that time, I said that I was the one who was taken in by you among the three of you. The youngest one, my name is He Rongfeng. I sent a message to my sister, saying that I was living quite well here. I thanked my benefactor 1 million, but the benefactor refused

In May, my sister and I made an appointment. When I saw her, she was very dull and couldn't speak. I looked at my sister like this, and she said at the time that she was so fat. At that time, my sister came to pick me up, borrowed a relative's car, and drove to the beach for more than an hour. When we arrived at the hotel, we stayed at the hotel. After we stayed, we chatted for a long time and then rested. I told my wife that my sister is really a good sister and a good person, but I think this situation is not very good, so I will give her 1 million.

Why is it one million? I think my sister doesn’t have a car. I think she told me that her house and store are rented for 70,000 yuan a year. If she doesn’t have a house to buy a suite, Xianju only costs about 40,000 to 500,000 yuan. Buy a car for 200,000, 300,000, 700,000, 800,000, and use the rest as working capital. I gave 1 million to improve my sister's life, but she refused. 1 million thanks to the benefactor, the benefactor’s reply is admirable.

I told my sister at that time that I had this intention, but my sister said that this relationship is more important than anything else, and besides, we can live a good life. It’s okay. You make money. Even though you are an entrepreneur, the money you make is not easy. You need money in many more places than we do. So I refused the money directly. My sister appreciates my kindness, but she won't accept the money. I was really angry, frustrated, and angry. I feel like this sister, after telling her so much, no matter how she explains it, she doesn’t listen. I said I'm really doing okay now, it's okay, I should help you in return. I told my sister that you deserve everything I gave you today, and it was all earned little by little with your kindness and your big heart. But what did my sister say to me? She said, I am satisfied with your kindness and having you remember me for more than 20 years. I have helped many people, but they may not remember me. There are even people who repay kindness with hatred, but I have never thought about getting repayment from others. Because of you, this has affected me, and I will continue to be my true nature. This is the message my sister sent me.

I remember my first job right after graduation. The factory was a rising industry that was strongly supported by national policies at the time. We had just prepared a new branch factory and I was the 21st official employee. Now it is a large factory with thousands of people. At that time, we were the first batch of builders. Many things were started from scratch. In many positions, one person was responsible for all related things. We were driven to do everything ourselves. , but it’s really a great exercise!

Later, the factory’s infrastructure construction was almost completed. Vice President Yang was parachuted in from the headquarters to be in charge of production and the like. The Vice President’s office is very close to our comprehensive office. Let’s talk about our comprehensive office here. At that time, for the convenience of work, the clerical staff and supervisors of various departments in the factory worked in a large office. The atmosphere was usually very relaxed. They would discuss anything directly. Sometimes they would also chat and gossip about the leaders. In short, all departments in the factory A collection of important and unimportant information.

Then, for some reason, the airborne vice president took a fancy to me. First he called me into the office for a chat, and then occasionally gave me some small errand tasks. It was a lot, but I still completed every little thing assigned by the vice president very well. Slowly, Mr. Yang began to assign me some more important things, and also gave me a lot of valuable suggestions on my work. At the same time, he actively applied for me to participate in various exhibitions and study opportunities, and took me to upper-level banquets to get to know I met many people who were beyond my reach at the time. Although I didn’t have close friendships with them, what they brought me was an improvement in my horizons and what I learned was the way of thinking in their circles. These have benefited me a lot.

Why does Mr. Yang favor me so much? First, I am also a technical employee. Mr. Yang, who is in charge of production, naturally feels close to me. Second, he parachuted in here alone, assuming the title of vice president, but it was difficult to carry out his work without close associates around him. The convergence of all kinds of information in the comprehensive office where I work will undoubtedly help him quickly become familiar with the environment and understand real-time developments. Third, I have an honest personality, not good at words but definitely repaying kindness. When he doesn’t have a firm foothold, he won’t worry about me being detrimental to him (their management has serious infighting).

He is the first noble person in my life, and I am still grateful to him. The things he brought me have saved me countless detours and pitfalls. Of course, if it hadn't been for those coincidences and my loyalty and kindness, he probably wouldn't have favored me even if he met me.