Yan'an Hotel

Have you ever thought that you are not the same person in his mind from the moment he broke up with you? The more you try to save him, the faster he runs.

If you really want to save him, you must learn to pre-select men, that is to say, prepare spare tires to reverse this disadvantage.

It's best never to get it.

You are afraid of losing him from now on, and you will never see him again in your world. Then do everything you can to save him and keep him, so as to prove to him that you are sincere to him.

Maybe in the end, he stayed because of your tears. That's just his most basic courtesy as a man. He doesn't want girls to cry in front of him. What is even sadder is those girls who are abused and rejected by men.

Calm down and think about it. Do you know what you did wrong? He made it easy for him to get what he wanted. Everyone is challenging, especially men. Who will cherish what they get for nothing?

I believe you have had such an experience. The food tried by customers at the entrance of gourmet restaurants is actually delicious, but people still don't pay attention to it. I won't eat even if I'm hungry, because it's free, so I won't cherish it.

So is redemption. No matter how much you beg him to accept you, it is like a daily sales call, asking you to buy his car. His house, no matter how luxurious, has been seriously depreciated at the moment of opening.

No man is willing to accept something completely worthless, including women.

With pre-selected women, opportunities will arise.

To put it bluntly, when you can attract other men around you, or even get their approval, it will make your ex have a great psychological touch, so as to attract or even save.

People, especially men, always feel how valuable they are when you chase him back. Even the king of this relationship never thinks about your value.

On the contrary, if you don't pay attention to him and laugh with other men (especially high-value boys), your charm will instantly increase by N grades, because your value has been reflected in these high-score men.

In this pre-selection process, the better you are, the more his possessiveness will rekindle. Just because you are his predecessor, you will be unhappy to attract a better man than him now.

I even regret that I was as blind as a bat and missed a woman who could make men so infatuated that your positions would be reversed in an instant?

More pre-selection, more spare tires, is to know more friends of the opposite sex, just because the friends of the opposite sex around you have less emotional intelligence, so they will be inferior to others. Contact and ponder more, so that you can always choose a better man instead of waiting for him to choose. All the above are personal opinions.