Yu Chunjiao: I don't want a boy who doesn't grow up. I'd better forget it.

From the first time they met, "remember when we met and lit the first cigarette"

At the end of the movie, Zhang Zhiming's dopted mother told him, "I don't think we can be children anymore. It's time to grow up. "

Buff's love has gone through eight years, and it is said that seven years' itch is enough to change things.

Zhang Zhiming is still like a little boy. He will still spend more than 90,000 yuan on a Dali artwork at one time, but never consider saving money to buy a house.

Yu Chunjiao still feels insecure. When the earthquake happened, Zhang Zhiming couldn't take her away and watched him hide under the table alone. Afterwards, Yu Chunjiao covered her head with a plastic bag and soaked herself in the bathtub. After all, she really longs for his sense of security, and she is really disappointed ... she really works and really loves.

Eight years have passed, and people around us come and go, passing through their own worlds, leaving deep or shallow traces. A Weibo in Shawn Yue said: The person who accompanied you to see Zhiming and Chunjiao seven years ago will accompany you to see Chunjiao save Zhiming tomorrow? More than half of the people in the comments below said, no, that person is long gone.

Last night, I revisited Zhiming and Chunjiao and listened to awkward Mandarin dubbing, but I still insisted on watching it. From the moment he lit a cigarette, Zhang Zhiming had a girlfriend who cuckolded him and was caught cheating in front of her friends.

Yu Chunjiao has an adult boyfriend. Mature enough to always let Chunjiao take birth control pills, regardless of her health. He is as selfish as an adult. When her ex-boyfriend found out that Zhang Zhiming had sent her home, she rummaged through her mobile phone and found her chat record with Zhang Zhiming.

Yu Chunjiao, who dared to love and hate, found herself in love with Zhang Zhiming, broke up with her boyfriend who had lived together for five years decisively, and asked Zhang Zhiming to help her move the next night. Know a week later, I went to "Man Chun" to report for duty and said:

"Some things can be done in one night, and we are not in a hurry."

In the second part, in order to get back together with him, Yu Chunjiao even gave up her considerate and safe uncle Xu zhēng.

Zhang Zhiming's ex-girlfriend also said that when she was with him, she felt like a big child, a person who didn't grow up and liked to have fun all day. Yu Chunjiao repeatedly stressed that she was several years older than Zhang Zhiming.

But she still fell in love with Zhang Zhiming and chose to break up with her ex-boyfriend of five years, not because her ex-boyfriend couldn't give him a sense of security, but because she felt bored and that man was too boring.

Only she, when putting dry ice in the toilet in Zhang Zhiming, will really find it interesting, and the reaction of Judah to this matter is that it is dirty.

In the first movie, at the end of the movie, Yu Chunjiao quarreled with Zhang Zhiming who was irresponsible. "If you are not ready to start with someone else, it doesn't matter, Zhang Zhiming, you say, I understand. I am three years older than you and have no time to guess what you are thinking every day. " And Zhang Zhiming didn't speak, grabbed Yu Chunjiao's mobile phone and typed i n 55 on the screen! w！ As soon as the phone rang, it was "I miss you", which immediately made Yu Chunjiao laugh.

Compared with Xu zhēng, who is mature and has a career, Yu Chunjiao, who is insecure, knows that what she wants is that interesting Zhang Zhiming, that childlike Zhang Zhiming, which can make her happy. Of course, love at first sight lies in his insatiable face.

At the beginning of the second part, Chunjiao's mother was stood up on her birthday, and three people were told to wait for him until the soup was sold out. Zhang Zhiming didn't send a message without saying a word.

When you go out on a date, you always put the customer first. You don't come to accompany Chunjiao for half a day, but you come to accompany her for less than ten seconds. You left with Chunjiao's roasted chicken wings, saying that you would give it to the customer Zhang Zhiming.

As soon as they quarreled, they immediately ran to Beijing, greeted Chunjiao on the train to Beijing, and immediately ran to Beijing. In fact, they didn't explicitly break up, but they immediately hooked up with a new girl in Beijing and brought condoms to the scene on their first date. Zhang Zhiming, too.

Although the first two movies seem to end with Yu Chunjiao forgiving Zhang Zhiming, her heart is full of hope. She hopes that Zhang Zhiming and Zhang Zhiming will mature one day.

However, in the third film, she saw Zhang Zhiming during the earthquake, and finally understood that Zhang Zhiming's character would never change, and he would never give her the sense of security she wanted.

I plan to travel to Taipei, and there is no one to look after the dog at home. Zhiming said that her dopted mother would come to Hong Kong for a period of time and let her sleep on the sofa.

I didn't expect a little girl in her early twenties to enter the door. She went to Hongkong to borrow sperm from Zhang Zhiming. Zhang Zhiming didn't answer, only said that it depends on Chun Jiao's attitude.

Yu Chunjiao is very angry. "What do you mean, look at me? Why do you still run when you encounter problems as before? "

After quarreling and communicating, Zhang Zhiming finally found a godmother like a man and rejected her directly. Yu Chunjiao is very happy. She felt that after so many years, she finally didn't pull Zhiming so big in vain.

The gas station car easily proposed to Yu Chunjiao; In the earthquake of Taiwan Hotel, Yu Chunjiao grabbed the doorknob, but Zhang Zhiming pulled hard, but she couldn't, so she hid under the seat. For Yu Chunjiao, it was betrayal, so she put on a plastic bag afterwards and put herself in the bathtub to punish herself.

Chun Jiao once again said "Forget it". At that moment, Jiao had completely given up Zhang Zhiming.

I remembered Ode to Joy, and Andy almost flew downstairs with singularity in his car. The panic of Singularity revealed his real fear. It is easiest to see a person's sincerity in a crisis. Before the question of life and death, it is a person's subconscious that can best reflect it. Andy still chose to break up with Singularity.

He is a little "Zhang Zhiming". He always thinks from his own standpoint. It is a feeling thousands of miles away, which is very insecure for girls. Coupled with a lover who does not consider each other's feelings, this road is really difficult to walk.

Chunjiao said to Zhang Zhiming, "I am a woman. I hope I can have a man to lean on, not a man who will never grow up like you. Every time I reach the most tense moment, I will abandon everything, sacrifice everything, satisfy myself and fulfill myself. "

The appearance of Chun Jiao's father made everyone understand why Yu Chunjiao felt insecure at an early age. Her father is a man who hasn't grown up. He left Chunjiao and her mother when he was young. When he appeared, he found a little girl in her twenties. Let Zhang Zhiming go to the nightclub with him.

However, Zhang Zhiming has matured a little, wanting stability rather than freshness. Although he still apologized in a childish way, attended parties, pretended to be beaten, and held concerts, his mind finally got rid of the age of 18, and he no longer escaped.

He began to learn to get along with Chunjiao's family and patiently taught Chunjiao's mother to use Weibo.

Go to a nightclub with your father-in-law, and you can live a clean life.

He will still spend money on things, but he will do his best to make Chunjiao happy.

When you meet beautiful women outside, even if your brother encourages you, you will be restrained.

Chun jiao looked at the ring on her father's fiancee's hand with complicated eyes; Finally, when Zhiming proposed to her, he took out a much bigger diamond ring and put it on her hand. And said to her:

"Thank you for saving me. I used to think that a man must have a skateboard or Dali all his life. Now I understand that he needs a woman I like, and I have to take good care of her so that I can live a good life. "

Chunjiao forgave Zhiming, I think it's more because she forgave herself. She figured it out and stopped asking Zhiming to be mature and perfect. Zhang Zhiming will never grow up and can't give her the sense of security she wants, but at least he has changed.

Compared with other people who have had sex with her, Zhang Zhiming is like an addictive poison, and she can't get rid of it. Since fun and security cannot be shared at the same time, it is better to choose a child to be happy, at least when she is sad, she can make a joke to make her happy.

The value of Yu Chunjiao is that no matter how she walks around, at least she knows what she really wants and has not given up. She really likes Zhang Zhiming so much that she doesn't even know that she is influenced by Zhang Zhiming.

People often say that the IQ of men and women in love is zero, and Yu Chunjiao is sober. He tried to get rid of Zhang Zhiming and ended his relationship with Zhang Zhiming many times. But I finally chose to forgive Zhang Zhiming, "love rat" and "Zhang Zhiming".

Chunjiao also asked herself, "Should I be with Zhang Zhiming?" In fact, she knows her inner answer, but she doesn't want to admit it, because even if she has a chance to meet someone who is good enough to love her, Zhang Zhiming is her only choice.

"I tried to get rid of Zhang Zhiming, but I didn't expect to be another Zhang Zhiming."