"Son-in-law, you only lived in your home for a few days. How can you drive people away? " "My home is not a hotel." what do you think?

Before I got married, I always thought that marriage was a matter for two people. No matter what happens, it should be borne by two people. Many things are beyond the control of outsiders, and I don't want to interfere in other people's affairs.

However, after I got married, I found that my original idea was really naive. Marriage is never about two people. It also connects two families. Even if we are independent again, we will always be inextricably linked with our families, which we can't escape if we want to escape.

Many people always ask women to treat their mother-in-law as their own mother after marriage, but in fact they can't even do this, and they can't even remember their mother-in-law's birthday.

Make public is an exception. After he married his wife, He Mei, he would send some gifts on holidays. Even if he can't go, he will send them by express delivery and often call them to greet them. It is good for his son-in-law to do so, but his mother-in-law is always lukewarm.

He Mei is an only child. Although her family is not rich, she is regarded as the apple of her eye. I didn't know that she found a boyfriend soon after graduation. When they knew it, they were already pregnant for three months.

They wanted her to have an abortion, but they found it difficult for her to conceive, so they had to keep the child and agree to this marriage.

At that time, Zhang Yang was still a poor boy with nothing. He knows in his heart that only by working hard can he make his mother-in-law value him and give his wife a better life. So in the first few years of marriage, he worked overtime until eleven or twelve almost every day, talking about his clients every day. Sure enough, in the fourth year of marriage, he finally made a start. Two people save money to buy a house. Although they only paid the down payment, they are also very.

But not long after buying a house, my mother-in-law suddenly improved her attitude towards herself and often came to visit them at home. At first, he thought it was nothing.

But later, my mother-in-law came more and more often and even brought many relatives. Everyone's living habits are different, and there will always be a lot of small frictions. He and He Mei put up with it, but they beat the floor every time their relatives came over, and they had to go to work the next day, so they couldn't sleep well.

When her mother-in-law prepared to bring her relatives over for the eighth time, Zhang Yang finally got angry, but she said politely, "Mom, don't bring anyone to your house next time. You can stay in a hotel if you want to bring someone. Our life has caused great trouble. "

But my mother-in-law said, "I have only lived in your house for a few days. How can I drive people away? I respect you for taking people, so I'm not so happy. " Make public couldn't help but say, "Our home is not a hotel. I know you always look down on me in your heart, but even so, this is at least my home, and I have the final say."

News:

Since marriage is a matter for two families, as husband and wife, how to properly coordinate the relationship between themselves and their families has become a very important thing in their lives. When the relationship is adjusted, it will naturally be smoother, but once something goes wrong, everyone's life will not be too easy.

As an elder, since your children are married and have a small family of their own, you should let them live the life they want, don't interfere easily and don't make trouble easily. How to be a sensible and qualified elder is also a compulsory course in your life.