99% of a person's education is related to his education in family of origin.

There are many cousins in my family. If everyone goes back for the New Year every year, they must go to their relatives' homes to pay New Year greetings to their parents.

I remember one year, my aunt brought her steel cousin who was admitted to the university to pay a New Year call to my parents.

I haven't seen you for several years, and my cousin is already a handsome boy of 1.75 meters. Adults sit together and chat, and he and I also talk about interesting things about school from time to time. When chatting, he always smiles and listens quietly. Whoever has no water in his glass will quietly get up and pour tea.

When I said goodbye, I sent them out with my parents. Cousin just waved to us and said, goodbye to menstruation, goodbye to uncle, goodbye to sister. ...

After they left, my mother felt: Just now, she has gone to college, and she is as polite as when she was a child. Although your aunt is strict with her children, she still teaches well.

Cousin Steel's good upbringing and excellent business ability made him go very smoothly in the workplace, and soon he was promoted and reused, becoming the backbone of the company.

In our family, my aunt is famous for her strict education of her children.

When I was a child, my mother was busy with work, and my aunt was responsible for taking care of my sister and me for a while. Aunt's request to us is that no matter who helps you do something, no matter how big or small, you should say thank you.

I remember once, there were no matches at home, and my aunt asked me to borrow some matches from my father-in-law's house. Before I go, I will practice the whole process, from greeting to explaining the origin of the matter, and then thanking me when I leave.

That's not all. When I came back from borrowing things, I had to repeat the whole process I remember I borrowed something to repeat it. My aunt looked at me sternly and asked, "Is that all?" I said, "Yes, it's over."

As a result, Xiao Yan said, you forgot the most important part. You should say thank you after you get the match. How can you forget such an important link?

I still remember this incident vividly. That's why I always say thank you from the bottom of my heart after accepting help from others.

My girlfriends often can't stand my politeness and think I'm a stranger. In fact, this is not a stranger, but a child's upbringing.

After accepting help from others, I am used to thanking others from the bottom of my heart. I also like to see their warm smiling faces when they accept my thanks.

I once read a story: on the bus, a little girl gave her seat to an elderly uncle. After giving up her seat, she stood against her uncle, with shame and pride in doing good deeds on her face.

However, after a while, she seemed to have some ideas, and she hesitated several times. Finally, when she was approaching the station, she couldn't help but touch her uncle's arm and whispered, "Uncle, why didn't you say thank you?" I stood for three times, and you didn't even smile at me. "

Everyone around him laughed, but the man's eyes were straight and he felt nothing.

An educated person can nod his thanks to the world and return with a grateful smile;

An uneducated person, he feels at ease with the kindness of others, and his heart is like frost;

A warm person knows how to return warmth and kindness;

A cold-hearted man makes goodness doubt.

What is "education"? Baidu entry is defined as follows: education refers to the cultivation of general culture and morality.

Rene Liu was drunk at a party. When she woke up, she didn't know what she had done. She asked the staff, "Am I drunk and make a fool of myself?"

The staff told her the process of drunkenness: "I will take you back to the hotel. You want to throw up in the middle of the car, but you are afraid of polluting the car. Tell the driver to stop immediately. " You held your breath hard and ran a long way before you threw up.

Back at the hotel, you are already unstable. Thanks to the doorman and service staff. Here comes the elevator. You go in and then come out.

Others asked: Aren't you going up? You said: I smell of alcohol and I am afraid to slap you. We'll wait for the next trip, you go up first. "

Even when he was drunk and unconscious, Rene Liu kept a good upbringing. Because education has penetrated into her blood.

Rene Liu's good upbringing comes from her grandmother's contact with her since childhood: Rene Liu once said and wrote an article "Decent Life", which is a story about her grandmother.

One night in the middle of the night, the phone rang and my grandmother answered it. A woman's voice came from the other end of the phone, making irresponsible remarks by mentioning my grandfather's name, clearly indicating that it was to destroy the family. Grandmother listened and said politely, "The Liu family has the rules of the Liu family. It's too late now. Please call again tomorrow if you have anything. "

Even in the face of such a thing, her grandmother can gracefully maintain her good upbringing.

Even if she is almost 90 years old now, she will always be a cheongsam as soon as she leaves the bedroom. Never go out without socks.

Rene Liu, who grew up with her grandmother, naturally had a biography after listening and listening.

A Xin commented on Rene Liu: "There is a very powerful and huge part in Rene Liu's soul and life, and you will recognize and admire that part-that is, ceremony."

And this decent upbringing can't be faked. Because "education is from the heart, and it is the inherent quality of the combination of environment, education and experience."

Many years ago, a colleague of mine commented on her aunt like this: Alas, a woman's upbringing has a great influence on her children.

She said to me, do you know what kind of person my aunt is? She doesn't have to go to work at home all day, but she sleeps late every day, which causes her two sons to be late for school almost every day.

She has long hair and doesn't tidy herself. Her two sons and her clothes are dirty.

She is busy playing mahjong all day. As a result, her family was in a mess, and her two sons were as lazy as her and their grades were not good.

By comparison, we can see that good family education is very important for children to have good quality.

We can say wisely that the best thing a family leaves to their children is not a house, not money, but education.

Nowadays, parents want their children to have a broad vision and rich experience. So during the winter and summer vacations, parents will take their children to travel abroad.

But many times, our education values Jackie Chan over adults. Emphasis on words and deeds, ignoring examples.

If we are traveling, besides eating delicious food and watching beautiful scenery, we can also try our best to teach our children to learn the quiet dining, manners, clean habits and advanced environmental awareness of westerners. This is the best way to enrich ourselves.

Young parents can pay attention to traditional education while accepting trendy educational ideas. Will our children have more connotation and literacy?

Three years ago, I taught a boy who was more mature and steady than a boy of his age. He gives the impression that every gesture shows a kind of education.

He is very polite to his teacher. Handle class work enthusiastically and responsibly. Chatting with him, I feel that he is very filial to his parents and the elderly at home.

Both teachers and classmates like him. I thought at that time that the parents of this child must be very good at educating their children. Later, when I contacted his father, I realized that the father's method of educating children was very good.

Father said that our family is in good condition. His brother and sister were born in our family. Some friends will come over and seduce me and say: Your business is so big, you must have more sons. Your wife is old, so you can find a life outside. But I never took their words to heart.

I know that my every move has a great influence on my children. Besides work and necessary social activities, I go home to accompany my wife, children and parents.

Every weekend, no matter how busy I am, I will walk with my children for two hours and chat with them.

I have different requirements for the education of the two children: I will tell the boy that you are the backbone of this family, and you must shoulder the responsibility of the family, so be strict with yourself wherever you are.

For a girl, I ask her to be virtuous and kind besides studying hard. Teacher, you see, in those well-developed big families, grandma's upbringing is very important.

This self-disciplined and thoughtful father exudes a good upbringing of self-discipline and courage, so his son behaved very well.

I believe her daughter will be as excellent and well-educated as he is.

Educated parents are good schools for children. Good upbringing will help a child to achieve his personality charm, as well as his career and life.

Han Songluo said: China people don't care about right and wrong, good and evil, they care about arrogance or low profile. The religion of China people is not good or evil, but being a man.

It can be seen that China people pay great attention to whether a person can be a man or not, and being a man is actually about education.

Borrow a sentence from Cai Kangyong's "Cai Kangyong's Way of Speaking": "You are what you say."

By the same token, you have what kind of upbringing you come from.

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