My poor husband held me while I was sleeping.

Oral: the wretched husband held me while I was sleeping.

Reading Tip: Unexpectedly, the night before yesterday, I vaguely felt a foreign body in my lower body. I reached back and found my husband pulling me to do this. I woke up at that time and asked him why. My husband also prevaricated for a long time, and finally frankly I had no choice but to do it while I was asleep.

Letters from netizens:

My husband and I have been married for three years and have no children. I have been working in the same company, but I don't look up. My husband is a kind-hearted person, without crooked ways or fancy, and always looks respectful to my parents and me.

I was my husband's first love. Before that, I had been in love several times. When I married my husband, I was no longer a virgin. For this reason, although my husband didn't say anything verbally, I can see that he has been entangled in this matter for the first few days. Later, because of more and more time or experience, the entanglement in my husband's heart was broken.

Although my husband is good, he is ugly and particularly stubborn. For example, a few months ago, the new house built by the unit in an experimental middle school in Fujian was being sold. I advised my husband to borrow money to buy a set first. After all, the unit's new house is in the city center, which is also cheap, and it is convenient for children to go to school in the future. However, my husband won't buy it anyway, and no one can say what will happen in the future. He doesn't want to borrow money or borrow money, and he looks sad all day to pay back the money.

We had a few fights about it. Sometimes I'm really angry, so I call him impotence (it's true that my husband's time is too short, more than ten minutes at a time). Actually, I don't care about his ability in that respect. I only said that to make him angry. But because of my bad words, my husband didn't give me a good look for a week and ignored me all the time. Later, I apologized to him, and he accepted and said that he would consider buying a house.

But then my husband resolutely refused to do that with me. Sometimes I dress very sexy and seduce him through some small moves, but he still refuses as always. I think this man is too narrow-minded. In a rage, he never wanted to be with him again.

Unexpectedly, the night before yesterday, I vaguely felt a foreign body in my lower body. I reached back and found my husband holding me to do it. I woke up at that time and asked him why. My husband also prevaricated for a long time, and finally frankly I had no choice but to do it while I was asleep.

When I heard him say that, I was angry and laughed. How can such a naive husband discuss things in the future? I'm really afraid that we will have a cold war or become more rigid for a little thing in the future. Blogger, can you analyze how to communicate correctly?

Pan Xiao replied:

Hello, friend. It's normal for men to have a little temper. As long as he is loyal to you and loves you wholeheartedly, other minor contradictions and disputes can be easily solved. In Pan Xiao's view, your husband is a good man, filial to his parents and knows manners, but he likes to get into a dead end, loves face and pays special attention to self-esteem. The formation of this character may be related to his parents' educational methods and growth experiences.

There are some things that he knows he did wrong, but he is embarrassed to admit. He is an introvert with a small temper by nature. Therefore, when there is disagreement, mutual indifference or even cold war will not solve the problem at all. Just like you had a conflict because of buying a house before, if you don't apologize all the time, your relationship will definitely continue to freeze.

Two people get along, one is introverted and the other is lively and cheerful. It is important for husband and wife to complement each other. And this complementary personality, most of them are run-in for a long time. Therefore, Pan Xiao suggested that no matter what contradictions and disputes occur, you must be the first person to speak. The era of "men coaxing women" has passed. Facing the reality, it is also a good choice to be a wife who will coax men into liking.

There is no such thing as "saving face" in marriage. As long as the two sides can hit it off, it won't make people laugh. Because your generosity will not only be praised by your neighbors, but also make your in-laws feel more at ease and happy, and promote the development of your's married life in a better direction.