I come from Xuzhou, Jiangsu. Can Rabbah go back to her mother's house?

According to the custom of Xuzhou, on the day of Laba, the married daughter can't go back to her mother's family, but to her husband's family or her own family. The reason is that there is no exact statement among the people, just saying that "Laba ate her mother's rice, and her ancestors couldn't afford it." It is a custom in Xuzhou to drink Laba porridge on Laba Festival. Married daughters can't drink Laba porridge at their parents' home. If they eat it, they will bring debt to their parents' family. This is a custom, and no one has seriously investigated it. Many people often want to go home and live a simple life. In fact, the custom that Laba can't go back to her mother's house is also to promote the harmony between husband and wife and enhance family friendship. Especially if you are embarrassed, go back to your home and make up. "After Laba, it is the New Year", and I have to go home to prepare for the New Year. Come late, hurry up.