What is the engagement custom in Jinjiang, Quanzhou?

There is a difference between town and country. Let me talk about our village: 1. The engaged man needs to pack money to buy her wedding candy. We need oil and rice there! The woman chooses how much money to take, and then she can't afford it. 2, the woman wants to hold a table to treat guests, usually relatives! If you get married, you will invite the whole village, usually one family. On the day of engagement, the man takes the engagement money to the woman's house, which is usually a commission! The man will take it back when he goes back. If the man takes 1000 yuan, the woman will get at least 20,000 yuan in dowry when she gets married, and it will not be refunded! ! It's actually complicated. Say what time it is.